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Definitely Not a Size Queen
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Definitely Not a Size Queen So, I guess I should really get rid of this writer's block. What better way to do that than to pick up blogging again. And not just any kind of blogging: SEX BLOGGING. I think I need to start writing this because I'm too lazy to update my bio section and think of something short and witty. Plus, I'm always getting lame one-liners like "Hey I'm [insert dick size here]. Wanna have fun?" Guys, I get it. Mainstream media (both pronographic and non-pornographic) are always pushing the idea that "bigger is better". I was born a girl, brought up a girl and still identify as a girl (sometimes I like to make believe I'm a boy. It's a gender identity slash penis envy thing). We girls have had "the perfect woman" ideal shoved down our throats (and not in a sexy BDSM way) since even before Elizabethan era. Small waists, big boobs, big pert butts, big eyes, porcelain skin etc. And these ideals for women change as often as a spoiled baby's diaper: http://FriendFinder-x.com (WARNING: Political rant upcoming) However, what is believed to be ideal by the majority is not always right. In a group of dumbasses, the genius is the outcast. The internet is an amazing tool for free speech, but you know what they say about empty cans, right? You are more than just your dick size, gentlemen. Sure, this is a sex site. We're all looking for sex. But there's more to sex than just penetration of a phallus into a hole (or holes if you're into that). I am not a newbie when it comes to casual sex. In my experience there is no such thing as a "wham bam thank you ma'am". There will always be communication, be it coy or direct. Then we fuck and part ways. It's sometimes fun to be wined and dined and sometimes a whirlwind "raep fantasy" quickie can be amazing. But it all starts with communication and attraction. These are the elements we build our trust on, no? Back to the subject of the matter: I am definitely not a size queen. I've had 1.5L water bottle size dicks up my butt slamming mindlessly with poor hip control, causing my mind to wander about what to cook for dinner. I've also had the great luck of fucking my current partner who is below average and yet made me cum more than three times within one coitus session from penetration (if you've fucked me, you know I can't get off on penetration alone). I've also fucked a guy with a willie the size of my pinkie but was creative in his use of vibrators and other appendages. Embrace your body and be proud of it. But don't let it define you. Get a personality, read some books, watch some foreign movies. Then, we can fuck. |
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1 post 1/13/2014 1:54 am |
i like the way you think
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It's definitely way better having sex with someone you are really interested in. The mental part is so important.
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Well said my dear... Be looking forward to more of ur blogs... Muacksss  
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I think the converse is also true. I've met quite a few women who are self conscious about this being too small or that being too big. It really is about the chemistry and meeting someone who is interesting, exciting and willing to give and take. At least, that's the way I feel about it.
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I think the converse is also true. I've met quite a few women who are self conscious about this being too small or that being too big. It really is about the chemistry and meeting someone who is interesting, exciting and willing to give and take. At least, that's the way I feel about it. I guess the big dick messages are really the result of entitlement + the big dick idea that's been sold to them. I'm not suprised, really, since most people get their only sex education from porn and popular media.
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same here... looking for good fren... n hv fun... dine... lunch... do kinky things... n more importantly its fun 
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You write well. Fun and good read! 
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