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a woman intelligent and smart  

MulleenofMelb 58M
2284 posts
2/13/2017 6:43 am

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a woman intelligent and smart


a woman intelligent and smart
Oh Lord I am on my knees
if you could this penitent's cry answer please
send me a woman intelligent and smart
who in each conversation lightning start
who can follow every absurd turn
and knows how to my senses burn
make her desiring of sapio strength
so we can talk for enduring length
bend the rules of conversational<b> intercourse
</font></b>building a desire deep of even greater force
wield foreplay in thoughts and words from mouth
warming intellect and parts due south
Send me an intelligent woman Lord
one I am not entitled to and cannot afford
let me be cast in her blazing kiln bright
illuminate the world afresh and right
let us joust and in loving discourse consume
every corner dark and every negative doom.


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rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
2/13/2017 11:00 pm

Quoting: MulleenofMelb: scares them off.....thy REALLY are not intelligent.....I doubt I have done half the things you list....so I am more than happy to make the coffee whilst you clear the forest and turn it into a log cabin

And seriously, if they can't take pride in their partner's intelligence and accomplishments, how can they expect them to take pride in theirs?


I didn't say they were intelligent. They think they are intelligent. I have no use for anyone like that. Next, I really have no use for a guy that would just sit by and have me work when he could HELP. If he isn't around and I need something done that is one thing, but to be there and do nothing while I bust my butt... I have no use for that kind of a guy either. I am independent and my partner will be as well and not leech off of me any more than I would leech off of him. I can only state that I didn't claim the people I described where you at any time. I gave examples.


There within lies the problem. These types of men, which unfortunately is a major amount of them, don't take pride in any accomplishment other than they got a woman to spread her legs for them. That is their only purpose when they say those lines. You are very correct that one cannot dumb themselves down for extended periods of time and it does get extremely annoying when guys think we are nothing more than objects for bone jarring sex bumping body action. They can't even actually deliver that for the most part, they merely think they can and are legends in their own mind.

Yes, it is difficult to find people that can interact for more than the 15 minutes in bed. Yes, it is a wonderful thing when we find a person and it connects on all levels. Sadly, they do shoot themselves in the head when they think all we need is a penis shot and bragging words. It is weeded out rapidly. I have no doubt you will find what you seek it just may take some time. My partner and I have been together for 12 years, but it took me 13 to find him.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/13/2017 8:38 am

Very nice words here today, and having an intelligent mind is a very sexy mind..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


MulleenofMelb replies on 2/13/2017 2:01 pm:
Well I definitely can't disagree with that, in fact I would have to agree quite emphatically....

rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
2/13/2017 7:54 am

Quoting: MulleenofMelb: I think an intelligent woman, and by that I mean strong in her own thoughts and beliefs will, as you say, identify those who "mis-cast" themselves.

(We all desire the perfect partner, and some seek legs, or breasts, or brains, or money, or accent.....and all of those are reasonable as long as the relationship is understood, and founded upon that,....as for intelligent woman....there is knowledge and wisdom and empathy there, you would hope, or else, as with any other person, the chemistry may not, or will not, work. )


Definitely everyone desires those physical things, but if the rest is not there they mean nothing. Sex starts in the brain, but let me state that I work for myself, I rely on no one. I run my own house as well as my company and have for many years. I do my own carpentry and own my own tools. I do not 'need' a man, wanting someone is totally different. I refuse to act dumb or as if I don't know something so that anyone around me can feel good about themselves. I don't know everything, but I refuse to act ignorant on something I do know. I have taken trees down and I have done my own plumbing even. lol I am the only girl in an entire family of boys. I have only uncles and nephews as well as 1 brother. I was expected to do my part on everything we did growing up, no slack was cut because I was a girl. That scares men to death that I have no trouble standing up for myself and doing the job rather than act helpless and ask for them to do it for me. If I can't do it I will ask, but why wait for someone to do what I can do myself??

This seriously scares men off, believe it or not. lol Independence and intelligence go hand in hand. Again, I do think you will find what you seek it just may take some time. Hang in there!! Best of luck!!


MulleenofMelb replies on 2/13/2017 1:57 pm:
scares them off.....thy REALLY are not intelligent.....I doubt I have done half the things you list....so I am more than happy to make the coffee whilst you clear the forest and turn it into a log cabin

And seriously, if they can't take pride in their partner's intelligence and accomplishments, how can they expect them to take pride in theirs?

rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
2/13/2017 7:01 am

I know you ask for an intelligent woman, and I am not looking, but I must say that this has become another line that men use. I am NOT saying you are using it, but many do and it is obvious. I consider myself up to date and intelligent and can talk on many levels about many subjects. I can't tell you how many times I have heard "I love an intelligent woman" only to find out that within 15 minutes of trying to have an intelligent conversation that they really only wanted to get laid and thought saying it would get them attention.

TRUE STORY! I had a man a bit ago that said he loved hockey and wanted a woman that KNEW hockey. Well, I eat-sleep-drink hockey and all NHL teams. He couldn't even tell me names of players on specific historical plays that just about everyone that didn't even watch hockey knew about. He never even took his coat off as he realized that there are women that KNOW about sports and to say that he was such a hockey fan and all as a ruse to get laid failed miserably. I told him to seriously go and watch a game before he tried that crap again.

MOST COMMON STORY! I get a guy that says he loves intelligent women so I ask him to choose a topic. I have had them range from WWII to astronomy. Within 15 minutes usually you can see them drift off and lose interest in me because I am actually talking about the topic THEY chose and not falling all over them asking for some dick.

I can truly appreciate an intelligent man. I cannot stand CBC mentality (Crush Beer Can on head mentality). So to have someone actually tell me how they love it and find out they only wanted to shag me is totally disgusting to me. I DO HOPE with all the powers that be you find who you are looking for. I had lots of patience and found mine, but I still see and hear the jerks out there. Best of luck to you!!


MulleenofMelb replies on 2/13/2017 7:35 am:
I think an intelligent woman, and by that I mean strong in her own thoughts and beliefs will, as you say, identify those who "mis-cast" themselves.

(We all desire the perfect partner, and some seek legs, or breasts, or brains, or money, or accent.....and all of those are reasonable as long as the relationship is understood, and founded upon that,....as for intelligent woman....there is knowledge and wisdom and empathy there, you would hope, or else, as with any other person, the chemistry may not, or will not, work. )

MulleenofMelb 58M
3024 posts
2/13/2017 6:45 am

trying to wield a rapier, it seems my knife a battle axe blunt and terrible, and swinging heavy and unbalanced, in the night.

Thoughts in sensual pleasure to erotic writing writ.

Feel free to travel - click - to my blog: An exploration introduction


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