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What is going on here....  

Timetraveler2 61M  
23 posts
5/11/2019 9:22 am

Last Read:
5/11/2019 12:32 pm

What is going on here....


It has been over two years since I have written anything here, and it is probably because I was brought up with the "if you can't say something nice, then don't say anything at all" ideal. However I have noticed that things here have really started to get out of hand. I have read other people's posts about this, and I have been seeing it all first hand also, so I know that it is not my imagination. I have even written to the site with my concerns, but just get back generic answers.

So what is up with the influx of profiles that are popping up for a day or two with blatant terms of use violations? It seems that not a day goes by that I don't get "views" from non paying accounts that have other site addresses right under the profile name. These can't be tagged and reported because the profile is turned off and just sits in your list for a day or two. That along with profiles that either have or e-mail addresses within the introduction or profile name that are being approved. Granted I am one of those people that when I see it, or when I get the IM that directs me to an alternate e-mail, or phone number to text turns them in, I have to wonder if the site actually does anything about it.

Look, I am here to actually<b> meet people </font></b>that follow the rules here, and have been on here in one form or another for many years. It seems that the site would want to keep people who direct you away from the site off of here. I don't like to bitch, but this is really starting to get annoying. I have an attachment to this place for some reason, and I know that there are good people out there, I just wish there were some "real" people in my local area. It is not like I am out in the middle of nowhere, it is just outside of the Nation's Capital. My renewal anniversary is again coming up, and while I am tempted to let it lapse, I know that I will probably sign up for yet another year.

Any insights from those in blog land are welcome, I hope that you folks are having better luck than I am....

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/11/2019 11:20 am

I report every singe one of them and I get answers from The Mother and the profile get removed. You will find that a lot of the bloggers are really upset with having words taken out of their posts( makes them look stupid), not being able to see when someone was last on line,having the notifications tabs directing you to stuff your posted last year, adjusting the number of posts you made, deleting private conversations in your private mailbox AND the list goes on. It is getting worse and many are not going to renew- yep hit them in the piggy bank

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HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
5/11/2019 10:57 am

They can be reported even if the profile is off as you say.

https://FriendFinder-x.com/go/page/abuse.html?#FriendFinder-x?{}


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
5/11/2019 10:41 am

Hello Young Man, Join the crowd, there have been so much of this and it is really annoying to all, and like you say , to complain to them is of no use, so many features are being rearranged or deleted, it makes the sites hard to manage.. I see the ones you mention with their address attached and another group of 30Fs with their telephone number posted up front. It is hard to ignore as it is so often, I Have been here for many years and I think that with the continued ways of the mother ship , I will not renew this year... just sit back and watch. And you also have a good weekend..

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Timetraveler2 61M  
159 posts
5/11/2019 9:23 am

Since I was informed that you need to have a comment to make the post show up..... I hope everyone out there has a great weekend, a Happy Mother's Day.


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