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"Aint that foolish"?
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"Aint that foolish"? WOW! When you in love , you make some foolish decisions. We would sign our life away if asked. The red flags are in front of us, but we too blind to see them. We would take a person who has nothing, and give them the world, knowing they could care-less about us. But hoping one day they would love us. I was in a love triangle. The woman I loved, didn't love me, and she loved a man that didn't love her. I got with a woman, that loved me, and I lost her, because I wanted the woman that didn't love me. That foolish! The woman I loved treated me bad, and was a lousy girlfriend. But the same woman gave her heart to a man who abuse her, didn't work, and didn't come home on the weekend. Talking about being a fool, we both played that part. There are many of us in love triangles. We want someone that don't want us, that's life. Because if a person know you love them unconditional, they will shit on you, hopefully not literally. You will never get their best. They will call you if they in need, and you might help out hoping they will see what you doing and fall for you. WRONG! Remember if a person love you, they won't do you wrong. I know a person who got with a person with nothing, she written out a contract, and say if you love me you would sign this, granted they came in the relationship with NOTHING. Dumb ass sign the papers, and they left with something. I hate to tell you who was dumb ass, well you know. Anyway I have a family member in the same situation, it's must be something in our blood or DNA, we know how to pick them! This family member been married 35yrs to the same woman, been miserable, his wife is mean, rude, didn't get along with his mom. His sister don't like her to this day. Everything is about her. He retired and finally left her, he moved to Va. while she stayed living in NY. He was separated and ran into a girlfriend he has over 40yrs ago. She was divorced, and she always loved him. He was dating her, and she treated him like a king! She loved him after all these year! He dated her for about 6 months, she was so happy and was hoping they would be an item again. At the time my mom was still alive, and he mentioned to her he need some to talk to, so she talked to him, and he mentioned that he was going back to his wife. My mom was shocked! She said, this is same woman how made you miserable for 35 year? And you going back? He said, yes. So he broke the woman heart who care for him for over 40yrs and went back to the one how made him miserable for 35 yrs. "AIN'T THAT FOOLISH"??????? |
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Love is blind! It seems these type of women always go back to an abusive relationship. Nothing you can do but offer support to them. I see so many women in this situation and only one got out of this horrible circle of life hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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