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"What show confidences in a person?
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"What show confidences in a person? Is it ok to have too much confidences? Some might consider that to be cocky or conceited. One thing I know, people who are confident are go- getter and a success in life. One think I admit, I lack confidence, there are time I felt like an underachiever. I met a lady on a date site years ago. At the time, my wages was low, I live in an apartment in a bad part of town and my transmission going bad on my car. She lived in an area, a few miles from where live now, and in that area, people have money. I went to her home, she was a knockout, had a home that you see in a magazine, educated, and financial secure. I had nothing. We went out and had a blast! She call to make sure I made it home safely, and wanted to see me again. I let it end, because I felt I was going to be exposed. I felted I wasn't in her league, not good enough for her. I look back and she was everything I wanted, but I lack confidence and my self-esteem was low. I talk to my doctor about her, he told me she wouldn't had cared what I had, or what I haven't, she was into me. I could believe it So confidence, where can I buy some? You can't buy it, It's just how we perceive ourselves. First we got to love ourselves , that step one and If we do, we won't let us fall. But, I know sometimes we don't try to do things because we know we going to fail, but failing is a good thing! If you try whether we do good or failed, we made an attempt. We all going to fail at something, but some of us going to fail at almost everything, that alright, life has it lessons. But, I respect the person who afraid to do something, but do it, rather that the over confident person. The over confident person, love to brag about everything, and need that pat on the back, they would step on you to get ahead. They want to be notice, and acknowledge for everything that they do. They want all the credit for the work, even though it might be a group thing. They are selfish, loud mouth and got to be heard. I respect the underachieve more. But there are ultimate confident people, they are ones who do their best, and their work speaks for itself, they are honest and legit, they are willing to help you be a success, they don't ask for praise. They earn their way to the top by merit, schooling, and doing good work, they don't kiss ass, and they are down to earth! What show confidences is a person? " IS BEING HUMBLE"!!!!!!! |
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4/8/2014 9:00 pm |
I respect that in you, you one person I would love to meet.
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Scoupe now that sounds like me. I never kissed ass at work but still earned everyone respect. Having too much confidence you can never have too much. Be who you are and be proud..You will not see me bragging at all. I had a career of a life time and love ever minute of it. Helping others was the key to my success.. hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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