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"Perception"  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
4/13/2014 1:25 pm

Last Read:
4/14/2014 5:41 am

"Perception"



When we look in the mirror, do we like what we see? I known a woman who was 40lbs over weight, she hated what she saw when she look in the mirror, but I saw a kind, sweet, beautiful person. When I looking in the mirror, I see a guy who kind of let himself go. I'm not in the best shape right now, I don't play basketball or sports like I used to, I haven't ran in a few years. I'm getting older so my hairline isn't the same. But, I love what I see, I still see a good person, great friend, and an excellent lover, and if you my true friend, I got your back. Do you hate the person we see? What's our perception? We might feel we can chance ourselves, but try this, chance that person that look back at you, when you look in the mirror! First thing you do, is not only like them, but love them. They might have done someone or something wrong, forgive them! They deserve a second chance. Remember everywhere you go they go too. Look after them, because what you do reflects them. Go for a walk, it would clear both of your minds, and it's relaxing. Start trying to eat right, if you both overweight, help them lose weight. Maybe cut back on the sweets for starter and eat fruits and nuts for a snack. Every day walk or exercise for 15min, that not hard we get 24hrs to a day, 15min can be done. After a month try 20min and so on. If that person, lack conversation, read to them or maybe watch something informative, that will help them when they talk to others. Remember this person is your project, they need you to become a better them! You tell that person you love them, not in a conceited way, but you tell him, chance your though about them. if that person is a know it all, or a smart ass, you stop them from being that. You create them into a likable person. This is going to be a work in progress, but in the end you going to look in the mirror, and see the person looking back at you, and you going to love their "PERCEPTION"!

scoupe42 60M

4/14/2014 5:41 am

Thanks, I like what in your mirror too!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
4/13/2014 9:34 pm

I like what I see in the mirror. I told my partner if I ever get fat and large to shoot me! Then I would hate myself. Keep up the good work! Be happy with yourself and what you see in your mirror. hugs V

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