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There some fucked up people out there, who don't do shit. Not worth a shit and feel, and feels like the world owes them. They complain about everything and wonder why others have it better than them. They would sabotage you in any way possible. If they are ask, why would they ruin someone's success, they would say a bogus answer like. "It should have been me". 20 years ago, a neighbor of mines and I when to the bar. After a while, there were two ladies at a table. One was extremely beautiful and the other one was not as attractive but had a better body. Either one was four stars to me! They ask me and my neighbor to come to their table. I told him, who ever of them is interested in one, they other one will be with her friend. The extremely beautiful one started talking to me. I had a huge smile on my face. Her friend talked to my neighbor. He didn't answered, he just gave me dirty looks. I left for a bathroom break, too much beer. I got back and the girls was angry! They told me, "You need to pick a better class of friend"! They left. I ask my neighbor, "What happened"? He told me that he talked bad about me. I say, "Why"? He said, "You didn't deserve the beautiful one! He also, said. "I'm better looking than you! I have a college degree! I make more money than you! You on unemployment, not working right now, and you a bum! I deserve better than you! That day, my neighbor felt he was "entitle" to more, because of his status. This is an example of "Entitlement". The last time I hung out with that neighbor. There was a lady I met quite a while back. I visited her one day. She lived with her 25 year old and her 36 year old boyfriend. She worked, her worked, but the 36 year old boyfriend, didn't do shit. Poor example of a man, they had a . when the get paid she would give him money. She was pregnant with their second . I was told he had 5 other from different women. One night , the mom and I got together. I asked her, "Why haven't she thrown out that sorry mother fucker"? She said, One day the was at work, her and her 's boyfriend was drinking, they got drunk and had sex. He told her, he's "entitle" to live there, if she throw him out, he'll tell her . I told her, Fuck him, throw him out. She stopped talking to me, and I never seen her again. I dated a woman, she lost her place moved in with me in my apartment in another city. She wanted us to get a bigger place, since she had two teenage . I got the house through my VA loan, in the area, she lived before. She got me to sign a paper she wrote up, saying this is her home too. I was a fool, I signed it. She didn't pay any bills, and if her and the did anything, I would have to pay them. She was back in her stomping grounds and start seeing her old<b> boyfriends. </font></b>So when I asked her to leave. she told. This is her home to, and she entitled to half of what the house is worth. We went to court and think goodness it would only 4 month we lived together. It only cost me $5000, for her to walk. This is a lesson learned. No matter how much you love a person. If they want you to sign something or put your name on their lease of property, don't do it! if you do, and have to go to court, they would be granted their "Entitlement". Fun fact: If you are in a common law relationship, and separate, you don't necessarily have and obligation to your former partner. it depends on your circumstances. You don't qualify for spousal support if you lived in a common law relationship for less that 3 years, unless you had a together.       |
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11/1/2015 5:29 pm |
You'll right, if you allow someone to take advantage of you they will. Thanks for wishing me the best of luck, I wish you happiness too. Thanks for view and commenting on my blog.
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Wow, you seem like such a nice guy, too bad all that happened to you. As a woman, I know we are sitting on a gold mine and men will do just about anything to get it. Personally for me there has to be a connection and he has to be first and foremost a kind person and I will return that to him..always. I don't mean to sound judgmental but the old saying goes "No one can take advantage of you without your permission." So best of luck to you, hopefully there is a gal out there that will give back to you not only sexually but emotionally and most of all "kindly." Best of luck to you.. {=} {=} KCClaire0923
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11/1/2015 8:13 am |
Thanks for the kind word, and most of all always being a friend! I wish I can clone you, and have a copy for myself.
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OMG so sorry that happened to you! I would have said something to your neighbor. What an idiot.. As for the women who lived with you that didn't pay a cent and wanting half that just sucks.. Yes everyone things they are entitled too XXXX. I can really see where your coming from and why your still working. Big hugs my friend and really sorry this had to happen to such a nice person as yourself. hugsssssssss V You need to find one nice lady now and enjoy life to fullest. My g/f meet her boy friend last year at our Veteran's Dinner. They both own their own places and have their own pensions. She is not given up her property but has moved in with him. So she told me she wasn't looking last year and now she has found true love. So it can happen to you too.. That is what I wish for you for you my dear friend. Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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11/1/2015 4:16 am |
Morning my friend, they out there, thanks for reading my blog.
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11/1/2015 4:08 am |
Thanks Sandy, I love it when you comment. So many good writer on here. I love your blogs too and your style. Thanks again.
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11/1/2015 4:06 am |
It's good to hear that you got something out of my blog, thanks for viewing it!
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11/1/2015 4:05 am |
Thanks again my friend, I always values your feedback, thanks for viewing my blogs.
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11/1/2015 4:02 am |
Thanks, I guess I did had game. Thanks for viewing my blog.
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11/1/2015 4:01 am |
They are many of them out there. Thanks for the feedback.
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You need to start staying away from chicks with another mans kids. Never allow a woman to move in with you, doesn't matter what her situation is, keep her out. Your buddy who got stuck with the ugly one, he used "Entitled" wrong. You just had more game than he did.
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Entitlement.......such a common thing nowadays! Too many people out there feel and act as they are entitled to something, without having done a thing to earned it.....and usually those who do, are left empty handed! So sad....so real!!    WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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