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"unconditional love".
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"unconditional love". They say love is blind, and in any relationship, there is one in it who can't see. They would take the hit and put up with the shit. They would allow their<b> mate </font></b>to do what they want, while other will argue or fuss, they don't. This is unconditional love. They so into the one they love, and over themselves, they would place them above. This is unconditional love. They would give all they earn, and not get nothing in return. There was some who slept with another. so they can have money to give to their lover. This is unconditional love. I know a man who have a good wife, but with give everything to a woman who tried to stab him with a knife. This man has a lot to lose, and the woman on the streets is the one that he choose. This is stupid love! But, I guess it's conditional love? For love is blind, but I hope in his life he would be fine. In our eyes we might see them as foolish or wrong, but in their eyes what they feel is something strong. Being in love not a bad thing, It such a great thing that words can't explain. But unconditional is usually one-sided, and someone is taken advantage of. Now if there's a perfect world, I'll be your man, and you'll be my woman! This is unconditional love too. If you willing to give 100%, and don't get back a cent. You might have "unconditional love".           |
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It is wrong though for those to take advantage of one who gives them unconditional love... Is it so wrong? So unexpected? The giver of this , so called, "Unconditional love", is expecting unconditional acceptance. I'd say expecting unconditional acceptance is wrong. ......and if they don't accept your "Unconditional love"... you feel betrayed. But since we know "Unconditional acceptance" doesn't actually exist, we can say, "Unconditional love" , doesn't exist either. One person is providing something the other wants or needs....when that "Something" goes away, then so does the "Love". There ARE conditions to "Love" , someone. There are even conditions to "Like" someone, or even "Accept" someone into your closer personal sphere. Seems the person who is saying , "I'm giving you unconditional love" , is taking emotional advantage of the person [who is supposes to accept this unconditionally]. True love means never taking advantage of one you are supposed to love ...."Means"? ... no... not really. People over romanticize this concept of "Love". And also, "Taking advantage of"... is rather subjective. A person could love you, but if they have sex, or just mere feelings of attachment for another, ...is that, "Taking advantage of" you?..... No. I kick those ones to the curb........ So you're saying you kick to the curb those who no longer want to be part of your fantasy of them accepting your love unconditionally. Anyway... there are always "Conditions"...be it for , "Love", "Like", or just ,"Acceptance". ....and there is no such thing as , "Not getting hurt", when two or more profess attachment to each other.
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So true your statement. I agree hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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What a great blog today my friend as your so right SOMETIMES LOVE CAN BE SO VERY BLIND!!. In order to have a loving relationship there has to be lots of communication with your partner so it doesn't grow blind..I hope you have a wonderful day.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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They say love is blind, and in any relationship, there is one in it who can't see. ... No.. it's infatuation. This is unconditional love.... No. .... There is always conditions to emotional attachment to another. They so into the one they love, and over themselves, they would place them above. This is unconditional love. There was some who slept with another..... We'll take that out of context for a moment..... People , in commitments, based on the emotional attachment referred to as "Love"... may still love you , even though they are having sex with another. I know a man who has a good wife, but he gave everything to a woman who tried to stab him with a knife. This man has a lot to lose, and the woman on the streets is the one that he choose.... This is an example of infatuation, and how infatuation can cause you to do stupid things. This is stupid love! ... No. This is not love of any kind. In our eyes we might see them as foolish or wrong, but in their eyes what they feel is something strong. .... This is common even among our friends or family.... you can see your friend, or family member, is with a wrong person for them, but they insist on saying , "I'm in love with ...". The fact is , they are infatuated, and cannot see the wrongness. Now if there's a perfect world, I'll be your man, and you'll be my woman! This is unconditional love too..... No. There are conditions of acceptance , to this situation. If you willing to give 100%, and don't get back a cent. You might have "unconditional love"....... No.. That person might have infatuation, or have a very low self esteem. People , attached, having an intimate loyalty to each other, are with eyes wide open. People infatuated... are with eyes shut. Only others can see the mistake.
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12/27/2018 1:47 am |
This made me cry because I have a big heart and I love deep. I am going through a break up and it’s killing me and him I’m like a nobody. I spoiled him he would come home is dinnner would be ready he didn’t have to do nothing I did it all even bath him and shave him but I loved it.. But that’s my luck I give my all and I get very little back but I know that one day I will find someone who will love me and Wk with me any ways ok I’m done
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