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"Vanity".  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
4/29/2021 5:53 pm

Last Read:
4/30/2021 11:00 am

"Vanity".

Interesting story............

Looks, we all want them and if we have talent in other places, we'll give them up for looks! Back in 1989, there was a singer called AL-B-Sure, to a lot of people he was considered handsome. I was separated before my divorce and I lived in an apartment. There was a student intern that lived in my complex, that was named Al, so I called him AL-B-Sure. One day a couple of friends drop by. Jack and Jo-Jo. Jo-Jo was a ladie's man. I told Jo-Jo, I have a neighbor that I called AL-B-Sure. Jo-Jo asked, doe's he look better than me? I ignored Jo-Jo. Jo-jo when to the bathroom look in the mirror.

He groomed himself, we went over to Al's apartment and when Jo-Jo seen Al, he said to me. "You called him AL-B-Sure, he's not even handsome!!!!! Wow! A few days later, I told a friend's aunt, she was and<b> older woman. </font></b>She laughed and said "Vanity", jelousy and being the best looker. She also said, "women got it worse them men"! She explained, most of the time if a woman goe's out, someties she's not there to get a man, she's there to look better than the other women! She also said that women compete against each other. She said, they are very strong about their looks!

If a woman is overweight, and if there's a new neighbor that a woman, that in better shape, that woman would lose weight because of that woman! She would burn weight like crazy! I never knew "Vanity" for I didn't fit the criteria. This is what I was told by her! I guess people notices looks. I talked to my brother about 3 months ago. When we was talking, he said to me. You sure like your "Ugly" women! You my brother, but you do love your Ugly women! I told him, that I'm not attractive to beauty! Doe's that make sense??? It's hard to explain what I mean.

So I got a question to ask every viewer. Supposed you have qualities! Smart, intelligences, kind, good shape, talented, creative, financial secure, chrisma, educated, funny. but not attractive. Some said, they would grant you a wish, you would lose all your attributes but you would be a dime! Handsome or super-model beautiful, what would you choose?

I hope this blog, don't anger anyone. i just wanted to share. This is a true story!











scoupe42 60M

4/30/2021 11:00 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Great question my friend and my answer would be I couldn't choose just one thing as it's not about looks that makes a person it's the whole package if that makes sense. I hope you enjoy an awesome Friday..
Your so right, my friend, Thx for viewing


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
4/30/2021 9:12 am

Great question my friend and my answer would be I couldn't choose just one thing as it's not about looks that makes a person it's the whole package if that makes sense. I hope you enjoy an awesome Friday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 60M

4/30/2021 6:03 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for viewing and the feedback.


scoupe42 60M

4/30/2021 6:03 am

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    Id stick with brains over beauty. Heck I'll go further and say thats where I have always felt comfortable. I'm not above worrying about my appearance but self consciousness aside, my brains have served me better than my looks. And a bonus here online is that everyone is a hottie until they start typing lol.
Hiya Sir, thanks for the great feedbck and the views!


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
4/30/2021 1:56 am

Id stick with brains over beauty. Heck I'll go further and say thats where I have always felt comfortable. I'm not above worrying about my appearance but self consciousness aside, my brains have served me better than my looks. And a bonus here online is that everyone is a hottie until they start typing lol.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


scoupe42 60M

4/29/2021 11:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Over the years I met so many Vain people, I knw they would take their love over anything


Ultraviolet_Sol 43M
622 posts
4/29/2021 9:31 pm

"Vanity. Definitely my favorite sin. Kevin, it's so basic, self love; the all natural opiate." - John Milton

I treasure knowledge and wisdom above all things.

*. *. *


scoupe42 60M

4/29/2021 7:35 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Beauty can open doors for you. External beauty can fade with time. I would keep my attributes.
Words of wisdom, looks are overratted!


scoupe42 60M

4/29/2021 6:57 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    THAT, is yours. It's a gut call.
    Sorry bro, can't help you with one of those.
    🍷🍷😎❗❗
So true! Thx for viewing


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
4/29/2021 6:38 pm

Beauty can open doors for you. External beauty can fade with time. I would keep my attributes.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/29/2021 6:32 pm

THAT, is yours. It's a gut call.
Sorry bro, can't help you with one of those.
🍷🍷😎❗❗


scoupe42 60M

4/29/2021 5:57 pm

Vanity Smuff, a little conceited "Mofo"!


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