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BHMs and BBWs  

jaylips69 80M
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3/3/2015 10:38 am
BHMs and BBWs

Since I am a BHM and my wife and my lover are BBWs, I feel I am qualified to write this blog. I am a fat bald old fart, which puts me square in the category as a Big Hunka Man (BHM). That is not a put down of me but just the truth. I am also a realist and I don't look at the world through rose colored glasses.

There is not a single person on this site that I would ever tell they need to lose weight because it would make them more appealing. I love most every female body I have ever seen. In my opinion being over weight has no bearing on desirability. However, since I am absolutely a BHM, and a pretty old one at that, I can sure speak for the real reason I am currently on my own program to get healthier. As you can see the operative word in that last sentence is "healthier."

My lover is very happy with me the way I am. She has never even said anything about me losing weight, and will love me no more if I do so. However, I want to ask anyone a question, "Have you ever seen an 80 year old man that was 100 lbs overweight?" I am 71 and I'm 104 lbs overweight, and that is after already losing 24 lbs. I weighed 353 lbs before Christmas and I am at 329 now and on my way down. Please understand, the reason I decided to write this is not to brag about my weight loss. Like I said, I have a wonderful lover that is perfectly happy with me the way I am. For that reason alone I want to get healthier. There are positions I would like to make love to her in that will be very easy to do when I get healthier. I will be able to eat her sweet pussy much longer when I get healthier. I will be able to fuck in more positions and for longer when I get healthier. I will be able to play more sensuous games with her when I get healthier. I am so looking forward to that day soon.

Another reason I decided to write this is because I love the type of people on FriendFinder-x. I therefore would like to share a secret for getting healthier. You don't need Marie's Nutri-System. You don't need Jenny Craig. You don't need Dr Oz. And you don't need Weight Watchers. Now 16 years ago I lost 110 lbs on WW and, believe me, I learned a lot that will help me this time. Then I went from 335 down to 225, which is a very good weight for me. BTW I am 6'1". I have a very large frame and carry my weight pretty good, otherwise I might not have made it to 71. The last year I played football, at defensive end in Semi-Pro football, I was 34 years old and weighed 269. I had a 58 inch chest and wore size 34 pants. I was one mean defensive end. Now I still have a 56" chest, but I have a 52-53 inch waist. Anyway, like I say, I learned a lot from WW and the big thing I learned was portion control.

Now comes the "secret" you have all been waiting for getting healthier. I coined this saying a few years ago and my doctor loves it and agrees with it in it's entirety, and he is a former weight loss specialist that worked in a weight loss clinic. Are you ready for this breakthrough in weight loss technology? Here it is:

"If your 'Gozinta' (goes-in-to) is more than your 'Gozouta' (goes-out-of) you will gain weight. If your 'Gozouta' is more than your 'Gozinta' you will lose weight."

Aren't you glad this great revelation in weight loss was shared with you totally free, with the exception of your FriendFinder-x membership fees, and I sincerely hope you have received many other great benefits from those fees as I have.

I certainly hope I have not offended anyone in any way with this post. If so, I sincerely apologize because I love all the great bodies on FriendFinder-x and would never ask you to change them except to help you live happier and longer, as I plan on doing. I actually like women with a little more meat on their bones more than the Twiggy style. My wife is 5'5" and weighed 102 when we got married. She was skinny by most anyone's definition. She gained up to 125 and she looked fabulous. She looked then like she had just walked out of the pages of Playboy Magazine. I had to carry a baseball bat to fight the guys off when we went out. She weighs 200 now and I still love her great body as much as I always have. Unfortunately she doesn't allow me to touch it, which is why I am here.

I would love to hear from anyone who reads this blog. Tell me what you think. Just be nice, please.

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