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Love, Affection, Intimacy and SEX  

jaylips69 80M
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4/6/2015 10:10 am
Love, Affection, Intimacy and SEX

Isn't it amazing how all these are so closely intertwined yet sometimes can be so isolated from each other. If any one of them is missing from a relationship it can sure make it a bad relationship.

Some may say, "You can easily have sex without the other three." That is true to a certain degree. That is why the<b> </font></b>business is so successful. However, why do we have matching sites like FriendFinder-x and others? I know there are many on FriendFinder-x that say they are looking for just sex with NSA. Can you really have that? Yes, but that is why we have prostitutes, both male and female. I believe the kind of strings referred to in NSA is we just don't want the responsibility that comes with a relationship. I agree there those of us who just want to fuck sometimes. Hell, that definitely includes me. Do we just want a woman's pussy to masturbate us instead of using our hand, or in the case of a woman, a man's dick to masturbate us instead of a relationship? Hell, I have gotten more "mercy fucks" from my wife than I would like to remember. Even if she offered one right now I would turn it down. Why, because personally, I very much enjoy the other three ingredients. I definitely don't judge anyone who likes sex for sex's sake. But I am sure most would prefer at least some of the other ingredients.

A lot of people would leave out "love", but personally I don't agree with that. I love people. If you are reading this I love you because you are a person. Of course there are different levels of love. I love my friends and I have no problem telling them that on a regular basis. That love if not the same love as I have for my wife. Unfortunately, it is the same love my wife has for me and that is the main reason I am on FriendFinder-x. There are many on FriendFinder-x who are looking for a FWB or a "Fuck-Buddy". Most who want a FWB always want the friendship first and the benefits come later, which I will totally agree with. I guess the term "Fuck-Buddy" might mean the fucking might be at a little higher priority than the friendship. However, I believe the friendship is still wanted as well.

I specify in my profile that I want someone who wants me as much as I want them. That is what I would love to have with my wife, but I have given up on ever getting it. So, that is what I would want in a relationship. I am a hopeless romantic, so I would like all the above ingredients in any relationship I develop, whether on FriendFinder-x or otherwise.

These are my feelings and I guess that is what a blog is all about. If anyone has comments about this I would love to hear it.

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