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More and More BS?  

tammykup 37F
107 posts
2/28/2014 8:59 pm
More and More BS?


Lately I've seen a ton of statuses about people being BS and not responding to emails. Now I'm not talking about the 47 year old<b> overweight </font></b>single male that's not getting any replies. Not to be mean or anything, but do you really think anyone is gonna want to meet you? I'm just being honest.

I'm not talking about couples either because that's a whole other complication. Everyone has to be attracted to each other to meet and blah blah chemistry blah blah if we click blah blah. People over-complicate meeting on this site, especially the older crowd.

I swear I see so many older single women saying, "I need essence, romance, and chemistry with a man. Blah blah blah." I'm just like, you're on the wrong site hun. And they wonder why they don't meet anyone on here. E-Harmony is that a way.

People on this site lack common sense. Guys, do you think a photo of your up-close dick and sex laden messages are going to get you laid? No. Ladies, do you think having extremely high standards and wanting that one fwb with all your favorite qualities are going to make you happy on here? No. Couples, if your man isn't exactly that good-looking, do you expect a single female to jump in bed with you two? No.

I feel like if you're looking for a fwb, you might as well leave this site because your chances of finding ONE that will just be with you only are slim to none. Take your ass to POF or to the bar scene or whatever.

I hate getting messages from females and couples saying "lets meet for drinks to see how we click" or "lets talk on the phone to see how we vibe." For what?! If you're goal is to get me in bed with you, why waste my time with mindless conversation in person? There's no problem with talking on here or IM to "get to know each other" and if we agree to meet then we meet. It is so simple people. Don't over-complicate it.

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
2/28/2014 9:10 pm

You make some very valid points!


thruiner 32M
3 posts
3/12/2014 10:25 pm

I think that's the most intelligent thing I've read on this site! Thank you for that lol you are beautiful by the way! beauty and brains? no, really what's wrong with you?


pinksteronprowel 55F
5 posts
4/4/2014 3:40 pm

Girl, your so right!!!! every single word. Well put & thnx 4 being 1 with great sense & words.
Pinkster


MrAmazingInBedd 43M
1 post
6/20/2014 5:42 pm

Dead on with this one !!! Some people just dont get it


NubianDC 55M
224 posts
7/11/2014 6:08 pm

Bravo! Well said.

Sooner or later I'll figure this thing out...


Gentlebill11111 63M
3 posts
7/14/2014 12:02 am

Good.


NubianDC 55M
224 posts
9/23/2014 4:05 pm

LOL. was going to comment on this but saw that I had already done so. Either way very well said and common sense goes a long way. Keep expectations realistic and come here to have fun. Don't take anything, including yourself too serious and you'll have a good time.

Sooner or later I'll figure this thing out...


fun4meanduinva 54M
43 posts
10/24/2014 10:01 pm

Actually had someone call me a slut on here. After we hooked up. Funny thing is she knows some of the others. What I don't understand, considering what I've put on my profile, how anyone can mistake what I'm here for. I'm pretty fucking blunt about it.

^5 lady. Nice to see a woman with the same mindset.


rm_thebgman4u99 55M
3 posts
3/8/2016 8:18 pm

I'm 47, fat AND bald....damn, I'm really screwed!


TheSecretNibbler 55M
24 posts
8/2/2016 3:18 pm

.. lol.. me too, but there's hope. My sub is 21, gorgeous, and insatiable... dunno how it happened.. but there's hope.


passion8guy44 46M

12/4/2021 3:31 pm

but over-complicated is how most things run on this site! LOL


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