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Sexless Marriages  

Sexyolfarts 74M/78F  
21 posts
5/10/2019 4:32 am
Sexless Marriages


Was just viewed by another guy who's status stated he was in a sexless marriage. Wish I had a dollar for every time I've heard that over the years! To my way of thinking there is only good reason for a sexless marriage<b>...medical. </font></b>Any other reason means you need to communicate and figure out how to get the most beautiful and exciting part of marriage back. The fault can lie with or both partners but communication is a must! Men are very often unaware that they have become monotonous and predictable in the bedroom. And instead of talking about it the wife becomes robotic and fakes her orgasms. So sex dies and they just co-exist...I know this to be true as that's how my marriage was. Took us years with no sex to find out. So now in most marriages the woman goes without sex and the man goes out and finds it elsewhere, which is where women like me come in. My body woke up and I now can't get enough sex...but I have the choice of so many men! And if you are the type that thinks you can jump on, get your jollies and jump back off you won't be on my return list. I have needs and desires or I wouldn't be doing this. I am more than wiling to make sure you walk away satisfied, so please do the same for me. If you want good sex you have to give good sex!

20MAR2018 72M/74F  
37 posts
5/10/2019 5:30 am

Too bad most the men on here are creepy and useless in bed who enjoy bragging about themselves and then fail to produce in bed...... Sometimes, we feel like old sad woman still waiting for a real man


Looking2be4 63M

5/10/2019 8:56 am

You pick your own misery. If you are in a sexless marriage it is by choice


Sexyolfarts replies on 5/10/2019 9:36 am:
Couldn't agree more!

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/10/2019 3:02 pm

Was just viewed by another guy who's status stated he was in a sexless marriage. ... That would be about 87 percent of all marriages.

Did you know that for one of every two couples their marriage will end in divorce, and that's not including suicides, homicides , mental breakdowns, and the large percentage of people who just stay married and hate each other.

So it would make good sense to get sex from someone else. So what if he says he's in a sexless marriage, women say they are in a sexless marriage , too.

This is 2019 , other than wanting kids, why would anyone get married? And even then, after the kids are grown, why stay married. Get out.... go do someone else, and do something else with your life.

Wish I had a dollar for every time I've heard that over the years! ... So wtf do you suppose that tells you about marriage today?

To my way of thinking there is only good reason for a sexless marriage...medical. .... You'd be wrong.

Any other reason means you need to communicate .... After hearing and reading that phrase [regarding thousands of marriages and relationships] over the last 25 years, I've concluded the phrase is naive and retarded.

and figure out how to get the most beautiful and exciting part of marriage back. .... Ha.."Beautiful and exciting"? You've got to be kidding! As in most everything new and different, "Beautiful and exciting" , goes away over time. You don't get that back. Like buying new car of the current year. In ten or 15 years , or less, it loses that "Beautiful and exciting".... so same with marriages.

communication is a must! .... No. "Communication" is not the "Fix" when your marriage is on its last breath. "Communication" is only essential during the marriage. When you stop "Communicating" with your spouse, there's something is wrong that talking about it won't fix. Get out and save your sanity , and/or get a divorce.


Men are very often unaware that they have become monotonous and predictable in the bedroom. ....Women , too..... and talking about this , is not the fix. Over familiarity has claimed its victim. Time to move on , get out of the marriage. You're done.

And instead of talking about it the wife becomes robotic and fakes her orgasms. .... Are you kidding? ... No matter how much they talk to each other, they're done. It's over. Time to separate from each other.

Took us years with no sex to find out. ... Unless he was total loser with the women, no way he went years without sex.

So now in most marriages the woman goes without sex and the man goes out and finds it elsewhere, .... So does the woman. Even the fugly women will find some hard-up loser to bang her.

And if you are the type that thinks you can jump on, get your jollies and jump back off you won't be on my return list. .... You forget, this is not eharmony , this is a hookup site......so what you said about not being on the "Return list"....that's just damn near perfect!

I am more than wiling to make sure you walk away satisfied, ... That really doesn't take any effort at all. In fact for many a man on this site, you could just lay there and take a nap.

If you want good sex you have to give good sex! .... If you're a lesbian and talking to women, maybe so....but you're not , and you're talking to males. For him to get good sex, he only has to ejaculate.


Sexyolfarts 74M/78F  
7 posts
5/10/2019 4:09 pm

These were just my opinions and I'm sorry I triggered your negativity button!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/10/2019 5:02 pm

If it's going to trigger anybodies button.. it would be the common sense button.


edwondering 52M
86 posts
5/14/2019 12:28 pm

right on....thank you!
your blog is awesome


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