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Inappropriate Temptations
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Inappropriate Temptations I’m posting early as I won’t be by a computer tomorrow. I suppose the most inappropriate temptation I succumbed to was the sex that led to my extramarital affair. After my first divorce, the first woman I dated was someone I met at the<b> library. </font></b>She was a lot of fun, and loved sex. It was the first time I’d ever been with anyone who wanted sex as much, or more, than me. What a change. I visited the<b> library </font></b>every Wednesday for a weekly project, and she was a part time employee who worked there most Wednesdays. We’d had numerous conversations over the months, mostly about local politics and goings on. After my divorce, I figured she'd be a good choice for a first date. When we got to her house after our first date, I was walking her to the door, and she pulled me to the side of her house, so her couldn’t see us, and started making out. To say she was the aggressor would be an understatement. The next thing I knew, she had my pants unzipped and was giving me a blow job. I didn’t object. As it had been six months months since I’d had sex, I came rather quickly, and she clearly wanted more. I tried to unzip her jeans to give my fingers access to her tender parts, but she stopped me, and placed them on the outside of her jeans, but right over her clit. So I started rubbing away, and within seconds, she was very, VERY, aroused. It was hard to stay on target as she was squirming around so much. But it didn’t take long till she came, hard, and loud enough that not only her daughters, but probably the whole neighborhood heard her. I was impressed, and figured she was definitely worth another date. The next day she paid me a visit at my home, and this time we did it in a bed. By the next weekend, we were meeting daily for sex. During the time we were dating, one of our frequent activities was for me to finger her when we were together in the car, bringing her to climax. When summer came around, it became a challenge to time things so that she experienced her climax just when we arrived at our destination or when we were stopped at a stop light, so that those around us could easily figure out what was going on. She was very fun to tease like that. I enjoyed touching her butt, boobs, and crotch in public, as she would act offended, but also obviously enjoyed it. (I confirmed this by asking if she wanted me to stop doing it, to which she said no.) But other than the sex, we weren’t that compatible, and when I started dating wife number 2, we broke up. As it was a small town, we continued seeing each other, but other than the occasional conversation, nothing went on. After three or four years however, she became friends with my wife, and they even commuted to college classes together, which put us together even more frequently. One day she stopped by my office and asked me to go get a coke with her. She was having trouble with math, and since she knew I’d helped my wife with that assignment, asked for similar help. That led to other coke breaks, and then to the occasional lunch. And of course, we eventually ended up talking about sex. She and my wife had obviously shared lots of stories. And, of course, the conversations led to some teasing touching, grabbing her butt when we walked, brushing against her boobs as I reached for something, and on rare occasions, rubbing her crotch for a few seconds. I kept it to just touching as an obvious tease. One day, she was really responding to the teasing, and we joked about how horny she was. As we were driving back to my office, I teased her with a finger rub to the crotch, and she immediately started squirming. I joked that she was so horny that I could probably get her off by the time we got back to my office. When she didn’t move my hand away, I assumed she had accepted the challenge, and I pursued her climax with vigor. She came a few blocks before my office. That broke the ice, and on most future visits, I repeated the challenge as we traveled back to the office. I started stopping by her home on my way home, ostensibly to use her bathroom, and one time I got her off on her couch. (Her 20 yr old came out of her room soon after and asked her mom if it was as good as it sounded.) This was followed by the challenge of getting her off in a restaurant booth. Then a clothing store dressing room. I justified it as simply teasing, and therefore not cheating on my wife. One day I passed her car on the drive home from work. She soon caught up with me and motioned me to pull over. We stopped a viewpoint, and I joined her in her car. We talked for a while, and she said it was time for her to repay all the finger jobs I had given her. I initially objected, as I didn’t view it as sex, but as teasing, but … I’m not good at passing up the offer of a blow job, and she was very good at them. It was as enjoyable as I remembered. A couple weeks later I passed her car again, and she again motioned me to pull over. I got in her car, and we drove to a secluded spot. She had a minivan, and had put a mattress in the back to use for naps between classes at school. One thing led to another, and she invited me to the back, and the sex was also just as good as I’d remembered it. We ended up meeting on the road a few more times, and then, one time I had stopped by her home her girls were not at home, and we took advantage of her bed. After that, her girls were gone about once a month. It had clearly advanced beyond teasing. When my wife got pregnant, I decided things had to change. I stopped by her house and we agreed it would be best if we ended it. Shortly after that she moved to Seattle, so the temptation was essentially gone. A couple years later I had a business trip to Seattle. I thought we could just meet for dinner after my meetings. And if I’d have avoided the temptation to tease, it probably would have just been dinner. But I didn’t, and we ended up in my room. We went at it again and again. I was only good for a few times, but as I remembered, she was a bottomless pit of orgasms. I think my tongue and fingers were tired for a week. A few months later, I heard she had moved back to Boise, but I didn’t look her up. But a couple years later she looked me up. She wanted advice on an issue with her parents estate, and knew I’d dealt with estates when my parents died. e met at a rstaurant for lunch. She talked about the apartment complex she was managing, and made me promise I would come see it. Again, if I’d have avoided the temptation to tease, it would have probably ended with the advice, but I couldn’t resist. As I put her in her car, I leaned in to give her a kiss, and placed my hand in her crotch for a finger tease. She was so moist I could feel it through her skirt. I pulled up the skirt, and surprise, no panties. Moments later she was screaming in climax. She called me the next week, said she was showing an apartment that night, and it would be a good time to show me the complex. I stopped by on my way home, got the tour, and before leaving, asked if I could use her bathroom. When I came out, she was lying on the bed naked. That is a temptation I’ve never passed up. As I had an hour drive ahead of me, and was already later than expected, we made it a quickie. But the ice had been broken again. We met a few weeks later for an hour long session, and an even longer one a couple weeks after that. After that, my wife found out, and as a condition of my probation, I send the woman an email that left no doubt that it was over for good. From the first math lesson to the ending email, the affair lasted over 7 years. But it was really two separate and much shorter periods. During that time, we probably had full sex about a dozen times, and probably an equal number of times when I only teased her to a climax. That’s probably me trying to minimize what I did, but I know it was wrong and inappropriate. What I had not realized was the hurt and pain that my actions would cause my wife. We weren’t getting along that well during either period, but that is no excuse. I never intended to cause that much pain. I promised myself I would never cause anyone that much pain again, and so far, I’ve kept that promise. So, what am I doing on a site like FriendFinder-x? I guess it is just another one of those inappropriate temptations. |
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Sometimes when you give into temptations you end up hurting someone later on.. I think it has happened to all of us more then once hugssssss V Excellent story and ty for sharing with us.. ! Well done! Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Thank you for sharing this. Contributions to the virtual symposium have ranged from smart conceptual discussions to very personal, very raw personal essays. Temptations aren't easy to resist -- which is what makes 'em temptations, no? I'd be interested in knowing whether codifying your thoughts has led you to any additional perspectives... Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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I'm with MidCoast MILF in that we never think about the pain that we are causing others when we give into temptation. It sounds like you learned a hard lesson though. Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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