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First impressions... ok so I have to tell about a specific experience. I talked a guy online for a while through text & phone conversations. The build-up was huge.of course he tells me that pleasuring a woman is his main goal. Again, heard that before, but still hopefull.It's all about the woman. So I say my goal is pleasuring the guy, if we both have that goal then we should both be satisfied. So one of the things that he tells me before meeting is that he doesn't drink which i think is totally fine. So when I get there, there's empty vodka and wine bottles everywhere. Not to mention shot glasses on the counter in the cabinet and a lot of them. He says oh i just did it the past weekend! ok that sets up a red flag!he did do some weed the day before saying he didn't do it often but I believe he probably did. Its ok,It's just something I don't do. Yet another red flag just on honesty and trust. Now let's get to the pleasuring the woman part.so we get going maybe into it 10 minutes and then he stops. I try the BJ and he would almost get there and then not. At this point he tells me it's really hard to get him to cum. Well I see that is a challenge and a fun one! This happens a few more times. Now it's not so fun but he says that he has lots of stamina he can go on for a long time. To me, this is not stamina this is getting worn out every 10 minutes! Stamina is still fucking for how every long it takes before u cum or still going after u came (the 1st, 2nd or 3rd time) Heck I'm just barely getting warmed up and he stops. Then he puts all his attention and more time on my breast. Okay I understand; however he would run hand once over my pussy. Even begging him to make me cum. He did get out a wand and wasn't very good at it so I took over and used my own<b> bullet </font></b>to achieve my goal. he got off on actually making me lactate. But that was the only thing he did even after I spent the night. Now he had a box of toys! you would have thought he would have known what he was doing. But wow,what a disappointment.now while we are in bed, we are laying there, he tells me he has a hard time sleeping so he takes 2 ambien. Feeling very unsatisfied sexually, I asked him if I if he minded if I used my vibrator again because I really need to come again.he said sure. But still didn't offer to help. Then ended up taking some more ambien. Now it doesn't take a professional to know that if you're taking all these drugs no wonder you can't cum. Not to mention, putter out!! now I am 43 and he was 37, so I expect the younger men to have a little bit more energy stamina and endurance. But I was really disappointed. This is/was definitely the most unsatisfying sexual experience in all aspects of sex, I have ever experienced. What a great first impression & meeting a partner(with)_nostring(s)! |
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Sometimes you read the signs and heed the warnings- next time just walk away
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I'm with the other commenters. I would have left as soon as I saw the empty liquor bottles. So when I get there, there's empty vodka and wine bottles everywhere. Even if he was a social drinker, if he's such a pig that he can't clean up before I get to his house that's my sign that I need to immediately leave. This is another example of why I don't fuck on a first meeting. All of the chatting and camming in the world can take the place of meeting someone face to face and seeing if they are all that they say they are.
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Umm, yeah, all the warnings were there when you arrived. "Run Forrest, run!" comes to mind  Better luck next time, always follow your instincts and never ignore the obvious! Holly "I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."
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Wow I must agree with what everyone have said so far. You did see the flags and should have cut your losses as soon as you realized he was not being truthful with you. It is a shame that both men and women in and out of relationship are just not truthful now days. It does sound like he is another person that knows more about the online lifestyle than he does with a real person. And based on what you have said about this person in his "description" of being a woman pleaser; you should have not even tried to please him when you did not get yours. Trust me, if that was who he truly was; then there would not have been a remote chance that he would have let you start to please him without him knowing without a doubt that you were satisfied. I will also agree with the statement of not fucking someone on the first meeting unless your night of social conversation, dinner and/or drinking has gone extremely well that you both know there is a true connection. We all find ourselves in a sexually aware in our lives at times and need to not too much on the sexual side when we first meet someone knowing this could be the end result. Someone who is truly interested in pleasing another person sexully would be interested in getting to know the person so they will know how and who they are pleasing as everyone is different. "I do wish you all the success the next time and remember at the end of the day; you still have your toys and ability to please yourself without the lies and red flags. And once you meet him you will find your pleasure would be his pleasure having all things falling into place with green flags of butterfly desires occurring naturally."
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7/26/2014 12:00 am |
I agree with you all. Its an experience to learn by.
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