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Compliments vs Meetings  

nice2eatu2019 59M  
66 posts
6/28/2015 4:58 am
Compliments vs Meetings


This does not apply to all women, but why is it when you compliment a lady she automatically assumes that just want to meet? I am a sucker for a lady who has a terrific smile, and will compliment as such, no matter how far. Many times I get a response along the lines of thanks but no thanks, and in the case of those with a distance I get a you're too far response. Whatever happened to being just a nice person? I am just curious

nice2eatu2019 59M  
310 posts
6/28/2015 5:53 am

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I've thought of that, and I also thought of the fact that there are so many players on here (well not just on here but regular dating sites as well). I realize that ladies get so much mail. I was just curious about whatever happened to common courtesy? I am not expecting a mailed response, but don't understand the short ones (and I'm not talking length). Thank you for your response


nice2eatu2019 59M  
310 posts
6/28/2015 12:30 pm

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Thank you for commenting


Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
6/28/2015 12:48 pm

from time to time we see a profile or blog that we wish to email a direct compliment on...we always phrase the intro - "This email is a compliment only" or "we are not compatible, but just wanted to say..." etc, etc...and we close off in a similar way....the point is that we are crystal clear we are only offering compliments, not trying to 'break the ice' with someone clearly incompatible with us.


nice2eatu2019 59M  
310 posts
6/28/2015 1:17 pm

    Quoting Travel_Couple69:
    from time to time we see a profile or blog that we wish to email a direct compliment on...we always phrase the intro - "This email is a compliment only" or "we are not compatible, but just wanted to say..." etc, etc...and we close off in a similar way....the point is that we are crystal clear we are only offering compliments, not trying to 'break the ice' with someone clearly incompatible with us.


Thank you! Very good advice. I just never thought of that although I do close with that. Thanks again


nice2eatu2019 59M  
310 posts
6/29/2015 3:18 am

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You are the most down to earth lady I have encountered on here. Between that and your Beauty, there are many who would welcome the opportunity to meet you. Thanks for responding


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