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Letting go of the need to cum
Letting go of the need to cum My friend and fellow blogger demonicsexkitten just wrote a great but somewhat inaptly named post Ramblings And a few quotes. It's more than just ramblings. It's about our focus on the orgasm as the only goal in sex. It's another of life's paradoxes that the more you focus on cuming, the less pleasurable or more difficult it will be. Give surrender a shot. I bet you'll like the results. |
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I've just read her post; it's far from a ramble.
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LOL This wasn't quite the post I was thinking to see here Thank you. As for the title: I had no clue what to call it, and really it was just free-flowing words. My post started out different (I deleted part for another post another day).
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Hm. I don't think I've ever focused on the orgasm part. For years, when I was with my ex, I never came during sex, somewhere between 6-8 yrs of never cumming during sex. That was a long ass time to go without orgasms during sex, but I just accepted it because I did like the intimacy of sex with the father of my children and I thought maybe it was a symptom of menopause. Since becoming single again, I have met men that cannot orgasm During sex, men who prefer to orgasm not inside of a woman, Prefer to give pleasure instead of orgasming and don't care if They cum or not during a sessions. I don't think I care if I orgasm Or not, that isn't a goal of mine, and yet I seem to do ok in that area now. Having a goal isn't bad, but being inflexible about that goal, is. Just my opinion, Kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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It isn't not even close to being rambling.. It was excellent.. hugsssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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LOL This wasn't quite the post I was thinking to see here Thank you. As for the title: I had no clue what to call it, and really it was just free-flowing words. My post started out different (I deleted part for another post another day).
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