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Blogs > oldbstrd55 > Ramblings of an old bastard

Time Flies  

oldbstrd55 67M
66 posts
4/3/2018 8:16 pm
Time Flies

It's hard to believe yesterday makes one year since my wife past. It really doesn't seem that long. I was asked if I had considered dating and to be honest, No. Sure I miss having someone around, but I have my FWOB that yells at me when I'm not taking care of myself, discuss my latest toy purchase with and how big the bruise on her ass from her latest sexcapade is. Just so there's no questions, She won't do anyone that's as old as her father and my would disapprove of me being with anyone younger then her. Mostly I'm content with being by myself. I come here, read the blogs, flirt and perv pics and videos. I work a lot, probably too much, but it's something I enjoy doing, so I don't have time to date anyway. Who knows, one day I might meet that person that will change my mind.

oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
4/3/2018 8:18 pm

 I might even consider retiring next year.


Freeonereturns 63F

4/3/2018 8:55 pm

 I'm sorry to read about your loss. I was married almost thirty seven years, I still reach for him at night. It does get better but it's never the same. All the best


oldbstrd55 replies on 4/4/2018 1:31 pm:
Thank you.

GixxerLust 46F
763 posts
4/4/2018 4:42 pm

 I am so sorry for your loss.

Anniversaries of loss almost always make one feel lonely but always remember that your departed significant other would not want you to be sad but to enjoy your life, whether that is solo or with others. Just keep great people in your life and great times will be had!
Come think dirty with me - GixxerLust


oldbstrd55 replies on 4/7/2018 6:13 pm:
Thank you. Not so much sadness or loneliness, It's just voids here and there.

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
4/5/2018 3:31 pm

 FYOB = Friend With Out Benefit?
As to your anniversary- I hope you remember the good times fondly.
If you are happy, it matters not that you are dating or not. Think of that first.
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oldbstrd55 replies on 4/7/2018 5:17 pm:
Yep, friend with out benefit. Some people think we're more, especially if they catch part of our conversations. My wife and I both had the passion for music and entertaining, those were the best times.

PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
6/2/2018 12:54 am

 I love aloneness. I know how to entertain myself. You'll know if and when ...

Big hugs for you.


oldbstrd55 replies on 6/2/2018 6:53 am:
I am very good at entertaining myself. I have a sex machine that is quite enjoyable.

CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
11/25/2018 5:33 pm

 HUGS, I know my pop is going thru similar with the loss of momma. He's dated 1 or 2 and regretted it. THey took advantage of him during his grief. Be cautious! hugsssss
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