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Daytime Availability
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Daytime Availability I have a few members get their foot in the door by stating they match my needs but after getting down to brass tacks they want me to be available in the daytime. I greet daytime requests with skepticism because it's a clear warning flag for married or cohabiting. I have a full-time job that pays the bills thankfully, but they pay me to be available during business hours. I could take time off every one and a while but a long lunch once a week would aggravate my boss. I don't know why some think it's important enough to jeopardize my livelihood and probably their own, in addition to their family and relationship for a roll in the hay. Especially when you don't pay my bills but happily pay someone else's. What's worse is that it's somehow wrong of me to state that: I'm accused of false advertising. |
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your personal priorities always come first and be as safe as possible.......................hello from Winnipeg
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All right. I think you are not suspicious without a reason. I do personally have crazy working hours and might work in the morning and in the night but be free around noon... Still I would explain that when asking for an unusual time for a date 
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Yes work today throws curves in one's life, but they should be up front. You should always take care of yourself first!
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do what makes u happy
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if they want to pay your bills then you can be available when they call, but if not and your the bread winner, we get together when i can get to you, meaning, after working hours .can't understand that, i say next
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I don't mind the day encounters because I do cohabitate with my child and school hours work well for someone like myself who is also a shift worker.
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I may be your red flag but for the wrong reason. I offer to meet in a public place during the day (lunch time) or early evening for a couple of reasons. 1. I want to ensure a SAFE and comfortable location for a first meeting. Meet for coffee/tea at lunch and you know that I'm not cat fishing you. 2. Daytime meeting are less pressure because unless she is ready for a "nooner" the expectation is just to meet and have some quick conversation to introduce each other. 3. Evening and anything after Happy Hour can get muddy because expectations can quickly change or be different from the beginning. Meet me during the day for safety or if you're comfortable we can meet at night. Whichever is best for you and your level of comfort is my perspective.
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