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Risk or Prospect  

rm_PrisicaK 49F
712 posts
5/2/2016 8:28 am
Risk or Prospect


I'm curious as to the views on the risk of sexual infection. I have met a few members who only glove up when asked and were too happy to drive in without a wetsuit. I wear some telltale signs of sterility on my body, but there's more to risk than just pregnancy. I want to enjoy my sexually as long as I'm able and unprotected sex is not an acceptable risk. I'm just curious why so many others, especially with wives oblivious to their behavior, are so flippant about protection. Is it age? It is a belief that pass a certain age people don't incur risk? Is it because they don't engage in" risky behavior" . Membership on this site is risky behavior. I don't want to have to fight anyone on such a simple point especially when men seem to view it a negotiable clause at the point of insertion. It's never discussed prior because it's a deal breaker

somebodywho1 67M

5/2/2016 8:53 am

I for one, many years ago, used to be that way. Sometimes the glove but most times not. Then after some research I realized just how lucky I have been not to catch anything. Now I always glove.


Zugnillinuc 43M
715 posts
5/2/2016 9:07 am

I guess everyone thinks that there's a cure for everything now that they don't need to glove up anymore.

I only go bareback one person, because we've known each other for a long time and when we're playing with others she always insists too...

...I know it feels so much better bare backing but, really....

clean looking doesn't always mean clean


Ringlos 57M
456 posts
5/2/2016 12:34 pm

Well, if you meet through here, you might be able to guess that you are not into a monogamous sexual relationship but that Prior nboth might have been exposed to some risk...

P,S,; You should read some of the female Profile. Several ask for cream pies!


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
5/2/2016 2:10 pm

after being with someone who had a nasty little reminder of a previous relationship I am way more proactive on this and ask and hold off on the intimate until we can assure ourselves of nothing coming for the ride.


rm_PrisicaK replies on 5/2/2016 2:22 pm:
Being in the scientific field, test results do little for me as some time must pass after the virus is introduced to build up enough numbers to be detectable

DeepDLover 55M
352 posts
5/3/2016 10:22 am

Always protect yourself is my motto...

The female condom is an alternative to someone not cumming prepared.
(pardon the play on words)


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