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Blogs > verybisexualguy > Bisexual Interests

Can a Person Really Be Bisexual?  

verybisexualguy 79M  
32 posts
9/23/2014 4:09 pm
Can a Person Really Be Bisexual?
I was recently talking to a Gay friend and he made the comment that there is no such thing as a bisexual. I'm not out other than to my wife and couldn't tell him that I am Bi but I take great exception to his comment. Any thoughts?
verybisexualguy 79M  
21 posts
9/23/2014 5:08 pm

 Thanks "seXperimentMI". Your profile says you're Bicurious. Have you given into it yet? The best of all worlds.


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
9/23/2014 5:42 pm

 I am bisexual. Sometimes I want a guy, sometimes a girl, and often both at the same time. IT is all just individual taste really.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
9/24/2014 1:38 am

 I'm bisexual, and am attracted to both men and women. Physically, emotionally and everything in between. Why let love (or lust) be limited to a particular gender?
But seriously though, it IS unfortunate that more males than females get more flak for being bisexual. We are who we are. Let's be honest about it.


verybisexualguy replies on 9/24/2014 8:25 pm:
A really good point. Straight guys get off on watching two women go at it nd want to be sandwiched in between. Why is it then that a man can't have a desire to enjoy the pleasure that one gets from a man and a woman. You can be sure that there are far more bisexual men than anyone realizes.

funbitimes 46M
Ask me for a photo
1329 posts
9/24/2014 1:53 am

 I've heard this a lot and mainly from gay men and gay women. There will always be ignorant people.


verybisexualguy replies on 9/24/2014 8:26 pm:
Very true.....

BMWCowboy 63M   
5 posts
9/24/2014 5:07 pm

 Yeah....gay is gay....It's completely different than Bi


bourne01961 59M
Ask me for a photo
8 posts
10/26/2014 9:55 am

 Straight, Bi, Gay, who cares. As long as you enjoy the one your with, it doesn't matter. It's just a label.


rm_JogeoTX 74M/72F
3 posts
5/10/2015 10:00 am

 This argument has always seemed silly to me - as if someone could know what another person thinks/feels. I've been happily frolicking with both sexes for a long time now - not getting tired of either one of them.


bareadventure1 59M
1 post
8/25/2015 10:49 pm

 They are two different words, according to Webster:

Bi: sexually attracted to both men and women
Gay: sexually attracted to someone who is the same sex

LOL!


altlooking 69M
322 posts
7/26/2016 7:16 am

 Yes, I do think a person can be bisexual.

Sex with your own gender and sex with a member of the opposite sex can be two totally different things with different sensations and differing physical responses. There's a lot more going on in your body, physically and subconsciously than you think when engaging in sexual activity. You may think a blow job from a guy and gal are exactly the same, but I'd beg to disagree.

There are a lot of guys who do not have an erection when getting topped for instance. Yet women respond to insertion of a penis into their vagina.

There is absolutely zero fear or concerns of pregnancy with MM and FF contact so that is a very fundamental difference.

Just a few thoughts but I do think a person can be bisexual.


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