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To rim or not to rim  

Jamierain1000 53F
189 posts
10/21/2014 3:23 pm
To rim or not to rim


Is is naughty or nasty ??? If someone licks your ass does that mean you should return the favor? This is new to me, I must admit it feels amazing and I have done to a few men per request usually. Any thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated. Im open to ass play and I don't think if a man enjoys it makes him bi in anyway. Its just a pleasure zone. do men do this so they can have anal sex I wonder cause it gives me thought of letting them inside of me. do men feel the same way? if your getting a bj and your balls sucked and out of no where someone starts licking your asshole while jerking your cock do you stop them?

letmelickU66 58M
443 posts
10/21/2014 3:38 pm

agree


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
10/21/2014 3:40 pm

Cleanliness is next to Godliness.. If you are comfortable with your partner, go for it. You are right it feels amazing and is something men and women can share the same sensation... So erotic yet relaxing..


Spelunker925 37M
1 post
10/21/2014 3:43 pm

There are a few factors that play into whether or not you should return that favor. First, do you enjoy doing it? To me that's the most important thing, because even though a man might want it, no sexual activity is worth it if both partners aren't into it.

Second is if a man even wants reciprocation in the first place. Personally, I enjoy rimming. A lot. Like, A LOT. SO MUCH. But I have no desire to be rimmed. It's just not an area that I associate with stimulation or arousal for myself, so I don't care to have it done to me. I know it's not a straight answer, but I hope it gives you some perspective.


wicked1formore 62M
37 posts
10/21/2014 3:51 pm

Yes I love it giving and receiving.


Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
10/21/2014 4:30 pm

personally feel a good lover is one that gives at least as good as they get. conversely, a good lover won't keep score, or expect reciprocity. a man may be a voracious pussy eater, but that does not obligate the woman to swallow. specifically to your topic, you are correct that anal play does not imply a man is bi, including dildo ass play - there are many non-phallic products out there that provide all the pleasure, with none of the uncomfortable visuals. it is much different rimming a woman in that, typically her ass is free of hair, while not so much a man. though clean anal play is fun for both parties, it is natural that we have an "eeww" factor considering what normally comes out of there. as long as both parties are equally comfortable, then all it good.

there are many things a woman can in bed without first asking the man if he is comfortable....adding another woman for example.......kidding...but any form of anal play is not something that should be sprung on a guy...ask first.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
10/21/2014 5:00 pm

I have rimmed a couple of women in my time, and I love it, even if they don't return the favor.

It can really add something to foreplay that's for sure if the woman is into it.


Jamierain1000 53F
45 posts
2/1/2015 9:50 am

Well so many think its sick and so on maybe never tried it?


Jamierain1000 53F
45 posts
7/27/2015 9:08 pm

yes yes yes


PHUCKOPHILE 50M

8/31/2015 8:05 pm

I love licking a womans ass never had it done to me though


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
10/26/2017 7:38 pm

I am not sure how I came across this blog post again after having read it and commented so long ago, but my comments still stand.
I love giving and receiving... I crave it actually. Just saying..

I have blogged some lately. Stop by..


blaqguyinwi 59M  
20 posts
10/30/2021 11:12 pm

Love giving it to my partner if it really gives her pleasure. Not into receiving.


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