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Why are we here?  

TrojanMagXL 55M
6 posts
11/18/2014 5:33 pm
Why are we here?

It seems more and more apparent every day that there are so many different types of people on here. Also that there are many that clearly don't understand what ADULT site means. We have 18-20 year olds that can't even buy a drink but they can talk the talk and walk the walk on FriendFinder-x. We also have people that are genuinely here to look for some companionship and they seem to get lost amongst all the other players and pretenders and the like.

My take on FriendFinder-x. If you come on here with any expectations....drop them at the door. Any one coming here should just expect to find a room or two to have some friends and some fun and if you should stumble across a good match somewhere then so much the better. I am not a gold member so I can't speak to those benefits but even being a standard member I have enjoyed my visits here. I have met some great people and have had a great time here. Enjoy folks and stop being so serious about it all. It's a chat room for gosh sakes. lol

porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
11/18/2014 5:48 pm

 Thank you, You all have our own reason to be here. I think most come because they are lonely. Most hope to find that one person. Other don't know why they are here, Speaking about myself for one who don't know why I am here. lol


TrojanMagXL replies on 11/19/2014 5:41 am:
I hope you do find some solace here and are able to enjoy it.Don't push just let it happen. But jump in there when you can and bee seen.

Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
11/18/2014 6:45 pm

 I know why I came here, but I don't know why I stay...


TrojanMagXL 55M
57 posts
11/19/2014 5:10 am

 I can understand both of you. lol I just see so many people getting upset or jealous or being room police or passing judgment. It is like they own the room just because they have been on FriendFinder-x for years. It is almost surreal at times. Some of these people are continents away yet they let themselves get worked up over some words someone else said. I do believe people come here because it gives them and outlet and they can let their hair down so to speak and have fun and maybe find a match somewhere. Along with that though things need to be put into context and not blown out of proportion. I suppose if this way my "life" or a large part of it and it became my reality like for some I may view it different;y. I feel that reality is not more fun but a better way to view things. Especially if you have been a target or worse yet ignored. Doesn't get much worse than being ignored. lol Enjoy folks.


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