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Blogs > TrojanMagXL > My Blog

Love them anyway  

TrojanMagXL 55M
6 posts
1/30/2015 6:17 am
Love them anyway

LOVE THEM ANYWAY

People are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Be good anyway.

Honesty and frankness will make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.

People need help, but may attack you if you try to help them.
Help them anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.

This kind of goes along with the other blog I posted. The poem is a great way to do things but it is far from the easy route. I suppose this post as most things people write down is an attempt at self inspection and re-enforcement. lol Helps to verbalize things at times.

As I have been on this site a while i have seen human nature at its best and it's worst. There are people who think they run a room because they have held down a spot there for years. They tend to be defensive and to attempt to control an absolutely uncontrollable situation. There are those that exhibit every emotion under the sun and those who will get close enough to eviscerate you the first chance they get. It's easy to fall prey to someone that seems normal and who professes to care about you and then they are the first to turn on you and to kick you while you're down. There is every kind of person in the World here. Not everyone is going to love you or even like you. Remember that a person can't help it if they don't like or love you back. Sure if they play you and say things they don't mean then that is on them but, we still control how it affects us and how we react.

This has to all be put into context as it pertains to an Adult chat site. You will be fooled many times. You will get irritated many times. You may fall in and out of lust/love several times. lol During all of this remember that if you are an honest, decent person you will inevitably fare much worse than the average person here. That should not be an excuse for us to fall prey to the same games and emotions as the other people who are here to play. This is an adult site. There will be nudity. There will be backbiting and fights. Rooms seem to be getting more and more polarized. lol It is what it is but it does not have to cause you to become cynical or angry or depressed or anything else. We can control how we feel. Don't blame others for your own misplaced trust. Own it and move on. Have your fun and let everyone else have their fun.

Most people will not likely read this and the more sexier blogs will and should most certainly dominate. I read some of them too. lol I just felt like sharing this as there are more and more people that seem to be turning the chat rooms into territorial battlegrounds and it is becoming less and less fun to be in them. If you are one of the ones that took the time to read this then thanks.

scarlyt 51F

9/13/2017 7:32 am

 I have read the first part of this before. It is awesome. Thank you for the reminder.


TrojanMagXL replies on 11/30/2017 10:55 am:
Thanks Scarlyt. This place can really be a waste at times. Some people use this as their only escape and it's their claim to fame I suppose. At best it's a little entertainment.

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