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Intelligent Chat Room & Message Tips!  

Sexysort_43 60F
6 posts
11/19/2014 12:00 am
Intelligent Chat Room & Message Tips!


Hi there Sexy Person,

After being on this site for sometime now I have a few comments that may or may not help you land your ideal lady or gentleman.

Ask yourself this question? Are you tired of no responses, are people just being rude to you or sending crass messages?

Never start a message with the following opening lines (if you want success)
• wanna fuck
• I got 10 inches to fill you with
• Watch me cum on cam now
• Swearing of any type
• I want to fuck your arse or your c##t
• I want to fuck you slut (mmm charming)

Would you speak to a family member like you speak to women on this site?

Advice Tips:
1. Put the cock shots in the private gallery and either bring them out when asked to or leave them there!
Important - not every woman wants your main pic to be a cock shot and definitely NOT one with your cum spewing out of the head... women like to discover and explore your body in its entirety for themselves... so much more stimulating and seductive for both of you.

2. Don't expect everyone on this site wants what you want.

3. Be honest and<b> truthful </font></b>about what you look like.
No point in showing a photo of you 10 years ago especially if you are planning to meet someone and now you have gained 50 extra kgs. No one likes a liar - instant strike out!

4. People on this site aren't your ex!
Males and females DON'T want to hear about how you lost everything, how nasty he/she was, how you were perfect, how it was all his/her fault! The fact is we really don't care! You chose to be on this site to start something new - your bitchy, nasty comments about your ex - WON'T win you any new friends!

Women are funny people they tend to appreciate men with class and style, so even if you are a "common joe" - you can be pleasant and polite always - costs nothing to be nice.

Remember - 99.9% of women aren't on this site to be abused, they are just like you looking for conversation, intelligence, sex (casual or regular), a relationship, a partner or someone to share sexual experiences or fantasies with.

• A lot of people who use the "Sex Chat Rooms" are NOT in there looking for sex.
• Sometimes they just want to live out a fantasy / role play and share with likeminded people of the opposite sex
• They may want to live out a video sexual experience live on cam with/or for their partner to turn them on
• I have made many friends in chat rooms, most of whom I've never met in person.
• Have even attended social get togethers that were organized - bbq's, dinners etc.

Be a positive person, show some nicety and manners, you will get more responses, and perhaps even seduced!

I welcome your comments - but no swearing or being rude please!
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ElDeano64116 66M

11/19/2014 2:29 am

Very good points. I go with the old saying Treat everyone as you like to be treated. A little sugar can go a long way.


Sexysort_43 60F
3 posts
11/19/2014 5:21 am

Great comments so far - very sensible & appreciated!
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WellSeasoned2 73M
393 posts
11/19/2014 7:55 am

very insightful...great advice....too bad most of the offenders will never see it or believe it


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