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IF he has any of these qualities then consider him a keeper:
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IF he has any of these qualities then consider him a keeper: Had to share this 1. He is smart enough to know he doesn't know everything and humble enough to follow the advice of his woman, or an expert to succeed in life. Look we all can't be brainiacs and none of us make the right choices all the time. But a man who cannot take the advice of another because of ego/stupidity is not worth your time. 2. He is hot. ..and I don't mean ripped or whatever bullshit Justin Bieber Mary Mark Bullshit Calvin Klein is putting in magazines. I mean that his smile is hot. I mean that his belly paunch is cute...I mean that even though he is fifty pounds<b> overweight </font></b>he has DIESEL CALVES that can prolly lift a small car. Whatever floats your little man in the boat. Yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Girls the advice here is: don't listen to your ideals or your friends or your parents. Listen to your heart and if he makes it go pitter pat, what difference does it make if he is fifteen years older or his hairline is wandering. Carrying the groceries into the house for you is hot. Bouncing around on the news with sweatpants down past your ass is not. 3. He is nurturing of your stuff. He changes the oil on your car. Or at least he takes the car to the place to get it changed. He acts like a man, not a lazy ass who wont shovel the snow so your doesn't fall on the sidewalk. That fucker is using you. When the weight of the value of what he uses you for no longer outweighs his inconvenience, he will leave you. 4. He is ENGAGED He connects and engage with life. This is the male allegory of vivacious. And while I DO actually think women were created to entertain men, I also think men were created to entertain women. Dancing around in tighty whities with them pulled up the crack of your ass Wayne's World style is actually pretty funny to women. TIMING IS THE KEY. Doing this shit drunk at her parents house is not the time. If he entertains you then fine. If he engages with you in whatever way, childish or mature, silly or erudite...then he is a keeper. Ignoring you when you walk in the house from being away should not be the case. He should pause the fucking x box and get up off the couch and kiss you. 5. He loves you in the way that he is capable. Most men have marriage issues. As quoted in Fight Club we are a generation of men raised by women...and I would add, we are a generation of men raised by women scorned by the piece of shit father that walked out with a mother that does not trust men and taught us not to trust either. Men have commitment issues. But a good man will commit to you in a way that may not be traditional. He may commit to working his ass off at a horrible job he hates, to buy you warm socks. He may commit to crawling under the house in the dirt and cold to fix the plumbing. He may just commit to making you cum first always. But KNOW that commitment. TAKE that commitment. He will give you more in time if you are grateful for what he can give right now, and it will make him a better man to have your gratitude, and make him want to commit further. 6. He is completely uncompromising about many many things. I am the man. I am the mutherfucker. I deal with the grind. I don't compromise about the blankets my woman sleeps under. I don't compromise on the shoes she wears. I may be a cheapskate with the quality of my garbage bags or with little things, but where it counts, I don't compromise. I compromise with your dad. I compromise with eating your mother's meatloaf. But when it really counts, I don't compromise a bit. 7. He feels like safety. Like if your world fell apart, you could always always always count on him. Period. 8.He never points out your shortcomings. He heralds your special qualities. I know I know, you have these flaws you worry about. But when you smile, the corners of your lips form the shape of the bottom of a heart....and when you are in bed, you tuck your cold toes under his legs....and you know JUST how to nibble...you know JUST how much to keep going until he cant take the pleasure any more. He TALKS about how much he likes this and that about you to everyone. 9. The man is vulnerable....AND YOU SHALL NOT UNDERESTIMATE THIS POWER! Men have egos. We are sensitive....and we never show it to anyone. Except you. Because you are the one we want to be vulnerable to. DONT FUCKING ABUSE THIS POWER. 10. He plays. A man should be a man. Yes, but he should be playful with you. 11. He is driven. And tenacious. And curious. And resolute. He is Walter fucking White putting in all new plumbing and a hot water heater...because fuck yeah that's right. I am Heisenburg, Bitch. RESPECT THE COCK. 12. He shows you that you mean the world to him. He shows your friends that you mean the world to him. He shows your family that you meant the world to him. He tells all of facebook that you mean the world to him. He shouts it out to the world that you mean the world to him. He tells you every day that you mean the word to him. If none of these exist in your man, you are being played |
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It is a nice list to start with.   Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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Thank you for your viewpoints, all your comments hit the bullseye!
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Very tempted to send this to an ex. But I will try to refrain. Where did you find it? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I wish my g/f realized what she has.. Not perfect, but the better part of what you have listed..
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13.A man wants to be a man so don't use bedroom names in public.There is nothing more harmful to his ego than calling him those little bedroom names around your friends."My slab" or" You Big Piece of Sex"were my favorites. The golden rule is ,Never use a nicname someone tells you to use! Using more than all the road!
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We are all perfect in our own minds. It is when you realize that you are not, fix what you can and live with the rest that it all happens. For the "man" that means a bit of humility. For the "woman" it means expecting the best. At times we are all "men" and others are "women" Chuck
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