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When Meeting Someone For Your First Intimate Encounter???
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When Meeting Someone For Your First Intimate Encounter??? When meeting someone for your first intimate encounter are you someone who prefers to host, not to host or meet at a mutual location? Or maybe you are someone who does not have a preference either way? I do not have sex at the first meet however if we decide to meet again for adult fun I prefer a hotel/motel as a mutual location. Sharing my home where I raise my with someone who is still technically a stranger seems preposterous to me. Going to his home could be just as dangerous. A mutual location seems safe until we build that trust factor. It seems logical. What are your thoughts? What do you prefer ? Are you someone who likes to host, not to host, meet at a mutual location for your first intimate encounter? |
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Whatever makes you comfortable is fine by me. After all, in any encounter when people are at ease it makes for better communication and you can focus on the person you're meeting. NO Brainer...
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5/11/2017 5:36 pm |
I like a mutual location . Feel it is best and safest for both involved. I am also a hotel guy.
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5/11/2017 5:36 pm |
I would agree on the hotel. I get it safety wise, but the is also something naughty about sex in a hotel.
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5/11/2017 5:38 pm |
Dinner and drinks first, maybe even a few dates before moving on to a physical relationship.It's nice to be able to converse with your mate otherwise it's just a physical act and doesn't mean all that much. Definitely a nice hotel until there's mutual trust.
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5/11/2017 5:39 pm |
I prefer a mutual agreed location for coffee, or lunch on a first meeting. Odds are that will not have sex on that meeting but I also will not rule it out. A hotel or motel room in a moderately priced hotel or motel for the first sexual encounter. If we like each other after that then we can discuss other options for me possibly hosting or not. I have burned in the past and I am looking for a possible relationship are getting to know each other.
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Maybe so.... First meet is at a nice hotel with room service and nice bathroom having nice shower or extra big tub.  Just nice Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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Mutual comfort and safety are most important to a mutual time and location for adult pleasures and fun
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5/11/2017 5:42 pm |
Always a Mutual Location...
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Somewhere where we both feel comfortable. A neutral ground would be fine if you felt uncertain coming to my place. It would not feel right to go to your place where you have young children. And it would not sound right if you had asked me to come to your place.
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like you Jeanie, I prefer a hotel until I get to know them better.
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I think a mutual location is best
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Without comfort, the sex won't be good. Gotta be comfortable and build that trust as you suggested, indeed. So neutral ground is ideal and yes, a hotel would be neutral. Me, well, the last time I hooked up with somebody from this site.... well we just did it out in the streets; neutral enough for ya? 
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Hotel is probably best because you never know what is going to happen.
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It looks like you have this figured out babe. For me...the whole idea of meeting someone I met online frightens me to my core. However, it is the new world. If I can get comfortable with a woman I meet here before I actually meet her in person that's a big plus. I'm so afraid of showing up somewhere and not seeing the person I hope to see. Of course, I want her to be comfortable with me too. Then, I would choose a neutral highly visible location like a casino as the first meeting place. Does that sound good?
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I trust my judgement when I meet people and I do not host. Either they do, or it's a no go. Teens in da haus!  MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}
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a mutual agreed upon location is best to meet, met someone once, all she wanted was to go to a hotel and get it on, we chatted, then parted ways, and after chatting a few more time, she still wanted a room and said goodbye
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Before you meet there should be a good conversation about what each person is looking for and pics should be shared to see if the metal attraction is there ..if they won't show you who they are then they are hiding someone ..sex on the first meet depends if you are so in awhile over the person that you just need to please him or let him please you..usually this will decide if you will also see this person again ..
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Before you meet there should be a good conversation about what each person is looking for and pics should be shared to see if the metal attraction is there ..if they won't show you who they are then they are hiding someone ..sex on the first meet depends if you are so in awhile over the person that you just need to please him or let him please you..usually this will decide if you will also see this person again ..
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Mutually agreed upon hotel/motel. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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I do not host myself for various reasons. I have met in neutral locations a couple of times which typically is just a lets meet up and set up another date to play if we want. But I have gone to other people's homes first if we have talked for a while and things seem okay.
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if we want sex who cares but not at each others homes however for me before I have thought about sex we are already in a relationship before even our first date because we would have had hours and hours of conversation ....so on that note first sex has to happen away from of course a family unit that would know whats going on!
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I say a mutual location, people live in this oh love at first site or turn on at first world, I say safety at first site
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Most comfortable for me is to talk a good bit before meeting in person, so that some level of trust is built up to carry into the meet, which I strongly prefer be a public place. If it goes well, I will host or we can do a hotel room. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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I am comfortable meeting at their place or mutual location. Most often it is at a mutual location. Cheers! 
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