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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
11/19/2017 10:56 am

well said hun and no one should be back handing anyone. You know people sometimes say things without thinking, but that's still no excuse. It doesn't seem to be getting better here on the site either, its getting worse. And we can report it but seldom does the site take action!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
11/19/2017 10:56 am

    Quoting  :

Is it bad that my brain immediately finished this with "Push. In the Bush."

[/soultrain]

You'd think it would be an easy decision for the site's admins to do..... I too have been complacent in my "just ignore" when I should have been utilizing the report button. No more.


glidecc 49M  
1224 posts
11/19/2017 11:02 am

Well I've been out of the loop for a bit. Who is the advice giver you're talking about? I was going to put my own 2 cents on it but I think I should see what this is about first.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
11/19/2017 11:11 am

I didn't see the comment, and quite frankly, other than one quite rude comment recently directed at me on my own blog, very rarely see such things. That being said, I'll admit I probably have seen a questionable comment or two, but never reported it, and reverted to my "don't feed the trolls" line of thinking.

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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
11/19/2017 11:12 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    Is it bad that my brain immediately finished this with "Push. In the Bush."

    [/soultrain]

    You'd think it would be an easy decision for the site's admins to do..... I too have been complacent in my "just ignore" when I should have been utilizing the report button. No more.
I'm pretty sure it's "push, push - in the bush".

You never impressed me as a lady that would accept just a single push!

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TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
11/19/2017 11:17 am

Well... Lala DID give me the first push.


TopTwentyPercent 60M  
317 posts
11/19/2017 11:21 am

A man that can't show emotion, or only one emotion...anger...will never truly realize the gravity of the sexual experience!

Nuff Said

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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/19/2017 11:34 am

If the site is going to pay attention it will need to be the women who will need to speak up the loudest. The site(s) are about the money and what draws in the money is the women. If they lose women they lose the guys who pay.

Also put up a link to the post so they can see for themselves and refer the admins to the person and post when they speak up.


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Apollorising2057 63M

11/19/2017 11:46 am

I don't even back-talk to my woman!

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
11/19/2017 11:50 am

Yeah, his dumb-ass dating advice is offensive enough... but advocating violence crosses a line. Thanks for the reminder that we DO have the option of reporting and not just ignoring.


Januaryman99 55M  
327 posts
11/19/2017 12:02 pm

I'm sorry this happens because it only makes it harder for every other guy around here.

I have to confess, though - one of my guilty pleasure is reading some of these rude exchanges when women post them on their blogs. Not because I find the cruel or rude comments funny. I promise I don't and, again, I'm sorry you have to endure them. However, these guys who go on the attack when their advances aren't accepted, they seem to all have pudding for brains and I do find a little humor in the way they absolutely unravel and resort to the most moronic name calling imaginable. It's the type of name calling you used to hear on the jr. high playground. And the women, for their part, almost always stay composed, which causes even more unraveling on the other end. That's the part I enjoy.

It also just confounds me that someone would bother with the insults in the first place. I mean, if there's anywhere you could just slink away with your dignity (and anonymity) intact, it's here. As if calling someone a whore would immediately change their mind. I also find it so dignified that the women who post these rude exchanges almost always withhold the guy's username - a courtesy that certainly isn't deserved. Frankly, I wish they/you would post it all - usernames or even screenshots - putting it all on full display for the idiocy it is. But I understand. It's the high road. Much more than is deserved.

I know. . . I know. . . I'll probably get a couple scowls for writing this. But I did say reading these exchanges was a guilty pleasure. I only wish that someday I'll read one where a woman totally screws with the guy's head by pretending to be turned on by the insults and playing it out. It's an opportunity for Big Comedy. As in:

Him: Hi, I'm ten inches and local, wanna meet?
Her: Sorry, I'm not meeting anyone right now.
Him: You whore! You don't know what you're missing. You're just a blah blah blah. . .
Her: Wait...
Her: That was so hot. Do it again.
Him: Huh?

Block the guy soon after, but not until his marbles are all jumbled and he tries to figure out what the hell just happened.

Anyway, I'll end this where I started - I'm sorry this happened, Lala.

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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/19/2017 12:16 pm

    Quoting  :

I meant put it on your post here. Not everyone knows where the comment was made.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
11/19/2017 12:20 pm

This will be a boring response.

He did not violate the terms of use for this site.

Not even close to doing so with his comment.

I would suggest that anyone that has a problem with his comment read the Terms Of Use word for word from the beginning to the end.

Try to stay awake.


coranimuscorcill 58F  
801 posts
11/19/2017 12:45 pm

Excellent resolve, lovely Lala!
Such BS is no longer acceptable as the status quo!

You're invited to CorPlay anytime.
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Peace, light, love


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
11/19/2017 1:12 pm

I have made my formal complaint to the Abuse team and will pursue it daily!!

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glidecc 49M  
1224 posts
11/19/2017 2:11 pm

I think it's clear that this guy does not have enough influence to actually advocate violence against women and what he is actually doing is using rhetoric concerning violence against women in a pathetic attempt to gain some type of influence.

It doesn't make him any more of a man but I do believe that it makes this an issue of censorship. Although his opinion is unpopular and I don't agree with it, I think the solution is to have more interesting things to read. Censorship and social justice battling hurts that cause more than it helps it.

Just my 2 cents since I asked for the link. I wouldn't blame anyone for disagreeing or for reporting him. Now I'll probably bow out of this thread and not give him any more air time.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
11/19/2017 5:40 pm

The guy is an arsehole wide-o wind up merchant who thrives on attention, but in this instance he has crossed a line. If he hasn't been banished before now, then surely he will be this time. Unfortunately though he is likely to come back in some other guise as he has done so many times before.

There is one potential avenue I will try with a view to his permanent removal, his behaviour is bullying, abusive and unacceptable, but I'm not sure it will work.

There's only one person who has done anything wrong here by the way.........


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
11/19/2017 9:39 pm

Search shows he has hidden or removed his profile ... dare we hope??


Make_U_Cum2016 55M/52F  
2113 posts
11/24/2017 1:55 am

Any man who advocates violence against women (or even men) is a criminal and a bully. He should be dealt with. In fact his words are very degrading and offensive. I suspect that he is fill of crap and just talking a big game online, but in the real world he is probably some computer geek trying to live his fantasy life online. I mean, how many women would actually tolerate such behavior in real life?

Of course some women are living in fear of violence and abuse, and my heart goes out to them.

Even if this man is joking or playing.....his comments still tells people that violence is OK. Just for that alone he should be banned from this site.

I have a sister and a mother, and if a man put their hands on them.....they are getting a beat down first....then the police.

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