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When he doesn't understand what I am looking for, after I have laid out specifically what I am looking for...basically I told him, I am not interested, but yet, he is still coming back, that's when I am gonna throw a brick at him...yah...
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My revised due to denied response To Ms. I-Don't-Do-Out-Of-Towners, I won't get into the question about questions - BUT - the ramblingness (yeah it's a damn word now) of the of the questions, whether asked or not, to whomever (male or female or who knows whom) is in question. Lord that was born a ramblin sentence. Be that as it may (or may not). There is a fine line between pushy and determined. That line, like all lines, has 2 ends. In this case yours and his. His 3 'shots at it' may seem reasonable to him, whereas 2 'shots at it' from anyone seems to be over the line for you. Its a hard thing (pun intended) to figure out sometimes. I imagine I have crossed said line at times and at others maybe could have taken another 'shot at it'. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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A while back I had to view a sexual harassment webinar at work. One of the things that it talked about is when asking a coworker on a date became harassment. Asking a coworker out once is not sexual harassment. Not taking no for an answer and repeatedly asking a coworker out is not sexual harassment, but it is a lesser form of harassment that should not be tolerated in the work place. If someone says no thanks be an adult about it and move on. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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I'm going to go with a question to answer your question. lol Is the person who contacted you someone you would possibly be interested in if he was local? If so, why not at least chat with him for a bit and see what happens? Let him know...again...that your preference is for local and since he's not, it's going to take a hell of a good sell on his part to get and keep your interest. If you're dead set on local only, just block him and be done. Don't give him a chance to keep messaging. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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6/30/2021 6:43 pm |
Well, why would someone go to so much effort to publicly mock men? I am sure readers can draw their own inferences. In our culture, men are indoctrinated, and women benefit hugely from this, then women complain about the side effects. Men are told "Only losers quit" "Only girls cry" "Be a man, suck it up" "Don't take no for an answer, keep trying" When you want to insult a man, you call him a "pussy", weak. There is no corollary insult toward women. Our culture requires men to be sacrificial animals and it is bullshit. When was the last time a woman took all the risk with you, gentlemen? Expressed interest, asked you out, paid for everything, initiated the first sexual contact? Never. Women do not even remotely understand the male experience, and heap contempt upon anyone who voices it. Women don't experience the constant competition and rejection that men do. Nature arranged it this way. Nature needs only a few males to breed with the many females, to perpetuate the species. In our culture, the overwhelming majority of men are insanely fighting over an inadequate supply of pussy. There will never be enough money, popularity, muscles, house, car, status to get all the pussy you want. Never. Because there is too much competition, and, because of nature. Women whine about being betrayed by a cheating husband or boyfriend. I do not condone cheating or breaking promises. But wake up. He does not stare at the waitress ass because he wants HER instead of YOU. That is female thinking. Females sort and reject, sort and reject, then enslave one sucker to provide and protect. No, nature means he wants to fuck other women IN ADDITION to you. This is NATURAL and NORMAL but women shame this. Bottom line: CULTURE AND A HUGE PERCENTAGE OF WOMEN tell men that "You have to EARN my pussy and keep trying no matter what" You can't ask for a man with traits he had to fight for, such as money, status, looks, if you then turn around and SPIT on that trait of ambition when it is aimed in your direction. Who is John Galt?
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"""..hush RedRRR and Lonly...hush it!!! I said I'd stop asking MEN questions """"" Would anyone say she is a name dropper????? Lala...It is up to you to control this definition ... If you think he/it is getting pushy, YOU put a stop to it. It is obvious that the guy needs some comprehension of the mother language.. I would think that you being of sound mind ( did I say that) at about the hint of a third try , knowing he has not read or headed your profile , just hit the ban/out of here, button.. End of issue!!!! When I was trying, long time ago you would have said I was determined, I did not get pushy and her profile did not have as strict of wording as yours but I tried every month for over a year.. it finally worked. So glad she didn't see me as pushy.. Look close , unless you are so fixed on this narrow line.. It is up to you.. He may be your prince and he just may be another frog!!!! Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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6/30/2021 6:47 pm |
Now, a persistent man is an asshole, but a woman who Ghosts is perfectly fine? Fuck political correctness and all that it stands for. Who is John Galt?
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6/30/2021 6:48 pm |
Whine whine whine. If she doesn't like the approaches she is getting, why not take down her profile, and instead do the WORK and take the RISK of finding men's profiles, and inviting them for engagement? Why? Because this person is totally dishonest. She never risks rejection. She wants to wallow in the pleasure of rejecting. Who is John Galt?
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Boy you sure do trigger the incels here dontcha?  Block. Don't waste your time in trying to explain again. If it happens after a second mention, bye. I'm talking about both the persistent (mosquitoes are persistent too) fella AND your new fan.
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6/30/2021 7:02 pm |
"""..hush RedRRR and Lonly...hush it!!! I said I'd stop asking MEN questions """"" Would anyone say she is a name dropper????? Lala...It is up to you to control this definition ... If you think he/it is getting pushy, YOU put a stop to it. It is obvious that the guy needs some comprehension of the mother language.. I would think that you being of sound mind ( did I say that) at about the hint of a third try , knowing he has not read or headed your profile , just hit the ban/out of here, button.. End of issue!!!! When I was trying, long time ago you would have said I was determined, I did not get pushy and her profile did not have as strict of wording as yours but I tried every month for over a year.. it finally worked. So glad she didn't see me as pushy.. Look close , unless you are so fixed on this narrow line.. It is up to you.. He may be your prince and he just may be another frog!!!! She doesn't want the inappropriate approaches to stop. She WALLOWS gleefully in being able to mock men. This is a smokescreen for the fact that she is too dishonest / lazy to simply do the work of approaching men she DOES want to interact with. Hey, I bitch about getting approached by prostitutes but at least I am reporting them and at least I am taking the initiative to contact women that don't look like prostitutes. Who is John Galt?
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I see we have patrons that just dont know you Miss Lala, Their loss of a fabulous person.. Persistence can work!!! from 2017....The Saga of the ol lonly man Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Well, why would someone go to so much effort to publicly mock men? I am sure readers can draw their own inferences. In our culture, men are indoctrinated, and women benefit hugely from this, then women complain about the side effects. Men are told "Only losers quit" "Only girls cry" "Be a man, suck it up" "Don't take no for an answer, keep trying" When you want to insult a man, you call him a "pussy", weak. There is no corollary insult toward women. Our culture requires men to be sacrificial animals and it is bullshit. When was the last time a woman took all the risk with you, gentlemen? Expressed interest, asked you out, paid for everything, initiated the first sexual contact? Never. Women do not even remotely understand the male experience, and heap contempt upon anyone who voices it. Women don't experience the constant competition and rejection that men do. Nature arranged it this way. Nature needs only a few males to breed with the many females, to perpetuate the species. In our culture, the overwhelming majority of men are insanely fighting over an inadequate supply of pussy. There will never be enough money, popularity, muscles, house, car, status to get all the pussy you want. Never. Because there is too much competition, and, because of nature. Women whine about being betrayed by a cheating husband or boyfriend. I do not condone cheating or breaking promises. But wake up. He does not stare at the waitress ass because he wants HER instead of YOU. That is female thinking. Females sort and reject, sort and reject, then enslave one sucker to provide and protect. No, nature means he wants to fuck other women IN ADDITION to you. This is NATURAL and NORMAL but women shame this. Bottom line: CULTURE AND A HUGE PERCENTAGE OF WOMEN tell men that "You have to EARN my pussy and keep trying no matter what" You can't ask for a man with traits he had to fight for, such as money, status, looks, if you then turn around and SPIT on that trait of ambition when it is aimed in your direction. WRONG, Wake up dude, have respect for your self if no one else. From this site I say Yes to your question It has been years back but it does happen. Get real with the world and you will see differently!!!!! Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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lonly4love2, you are speaking common sense logic to a FEMALE. She doesn't want the inappropriate approaches to stop. She WALLOWS gleefully in being able to mock men. This is a smokescreen for the fact that she is too dishonest / lazy to simply do the work of approaching men she DOES want to interact with. Hey, I bitch about getting approached by prostitutes but at least I am reporting them and at least I am taking the initiative to contact women that don't look like prostitutes. A true classy lady, she is.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Well, why would someone go to so much effort to publicly mock men? I am sure readers can draw their own inferences. In our culture, men are indoctrinated, and women benefit hugely from this, then women complain about the side effects. Men are told "Only losers quit" "Only girls cry" "Be a man, suck it up" "Don't take no for an answer, keep trying" When you want to insult a man, you call him a "pussy", weak. There is no corollary insult toward women. Our culture requires men to be sacrificial animals and it is bullshit. When was the last time a woman took all the risk with you, gentlemen? Expressed interest, asked you out, paid for everything, initiated the first sexual contact? Never. Women do not even remotely understand the male experience, and heap contempt upon anyone who voices it. Women don't experience the constant competition and rejection that men do. Nature arranged it this way. Nature needs only a few males to breed with the many females, to perpetuate the species. In our culture, the overwhelming majority of men are insanely fighting over an inadequate supply of pussy. There will never be enough money, popularity, muscles, house, car, status to get all the pussy you want. Never. Because there is too much competition, and, because of nature. Women whine about being betrayed by a cheating husband or boyfriend. I do not condone cheating or breaking promises. But wake up. He does not stare at the waitress ass because he wants HER instead of YOU. That is female thinking. Females sort and reject, sort and reject, then enslave one sucker to provide and protect. No, nature means he wants to fuck other women IN ADDITION to you. This is NATURAL and NORMAL but women shame this. Bottom line: CULTURE AND A HUGE PERCENTAGE OF WOMEN tell men that "You have to EARN my pussy and keep trying no matter what" You can't ask for a man with traits he had to fight for, such as money, status, looks, if you then turn around and SPIT on that trait of ambition when it is aimed in your direction. On this site several times. Just because you haven't had that experience doesn't mean others haven't. If your profile is like your responses here I would doubt any woman here would approach you. Good luck with your approach. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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6/30/2021 7:39 pm |
Ass kissing shill. Who is John Galt?
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6/30/2021 7:48 pm |
Boy you sure do trigger the incels here dontcha? Block. Don't waste your time in trying to explain again. If it happens after a second mention, bye. I'm talking about both the persistent (mosquitoes are persistent too) fella AND your new fan. Who is John Galt?
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6/30/2021 7:52 pm |
redrockrascal, neither my experiences nor your constitute a large enough sample to establish the rule. Since evidently you are either so dishonest, hasty, or weak minded not to understand, my post was addressing the general audience reader, the majority man, who will understand and concur. Who is John Galt?
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Ass kissing shill. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Boy you sure do trigger the incels here dontcha? Block. Don't waste your time in trying to explain again. If it happens after a second mention, bye. I'm talking about both the persistent (mosquitoes are persistent too) fella AND your new fan.  Thoughts from the Garden...
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When was the last time a woman took all the risk with you, gentlemen? Expressed interest, asked you out, paid for everything, initiated the first sexual contact? On this site several times. Just because you haven't had that experience doesn't mean others haven't. If your profile is like your responses here I would doubt any woman here would approach you. Good luck with your approach. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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I did a blog a whie back asking the question where is the line between "preferences", "fetishes" and being objectified. Not just on this site but on another site, where being feiishized or objectified is not necessarily a bad thing. I came to the conclusion it's all in perception. So my answer is a non answer. Only you can determine when the line has been crossed.
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Oh La...what have we got here. Geeze I choose not to give the ole negative one any air or energy. I call it the ..response to Heathen approach... lol Ok...my opinion is : determination is when one listens, actively listens to understand NOT to formulate a response, gives it a thought or two and comes back a while later with a different approach/ angle. Like he listens to your parameters and finds a way to incorporate them and or work around them. Like he says..." ok, im off the summer let me move in with a friend there for 3 months" could we try then ? " I think that determination can be a good thing, it also speaks to the listening skills and how much effort one can put forth. Pushy is when one is intractable in their quest, over n over . No movement and not even trying for compromise~
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Guy is like a dang bearcat! 
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Persistence becomes pushy when the recipient begins to feel uncomfortable, but the rub is that point is different for each person and perhaps even each circumstance. Doing My Own Thing, on HNW I Never Knew A FUN New Olympic Sport [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us
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Call it intuition but only you know when enough is enough  
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