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Being Big but not quite Beautiful  

SBGrass 29M
4 posts
12/18/2014 9:29 am
Being Big but not quite Beautiful


I'm not exactly what people would call a hunk. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but I wouldn't say I was good looking either, I'm kind of in the middle. This doesn't bother me at all, in fact I kind of like it as I find people more comfortable around me.

The real problem is what I'm hiding. I don't mean hiding in the way of avoiding as much as possible, but hiding as in if I show it I could get<b> arrested. </font></b>As shown in most of my pictures I have quite a big member, to be truthful he's 8 inches, and thick. Everyone who sees it either says nothing or says wow. I love it, I love being huge, but my real life problem makes this difficult to enjoy.

Two key features of my body are my stomach, which is flat and slightly toned, not enough to see but it gives that effect of slight shading, and my previously mentioned member. I'm an average height guy (5' 8") and slim, sometimes it makes me look skinny most times I look "small". Now tying this in with my face and my size means people usually write me off instantly as someone they're not interested in sexually.

This is obviously irritating, I don't drink, which means I don't go to clubs so the answer of getting drunk and beer blind isn't an option. So it's difficult for someone like me to get someone I want to have sex with. We all have standards, we do, and because of these standards I'm stuck in the middle of not wanting someone and not getting someone.

FriendFinder-x helps me to determine this, as pictures of my self are highly complimented and people are appreciating my looks, if only it worked in real life! So what do you guys think? Does your physical appearance halt you from sleeping with some people you'd like to, and showing them what you have to offer?

tigerlady555 104F
2653 posts
12/18/2014 9:57 am

interesting post !
and there is no chance you are actually over looking girls who think you are everything.... due to their looks? Just be yourself & let people see how fabulous you are naturally.

All female and born this way ~!


SBGrass replies on 12/20/2014 10:11 am:
I agree! I probably do skip over girls who are interested, as I do have standards. I may just be shooting too high!

sweetlips_03 45F
1271 posts
12/18/2014 10:06 am

Women are not as vain as men. We aren't as visual. 1st, you don't drink, but she can't drink either? If she can, then while rule out the club scene. Get some soda & cranberry and mingle. 2nd, when you mingle, that's when you increase your chances of standing out. I love 6 foot men, but last time I was clubbing, that's not who I went home with. I also like a nice guy. Stop relying on your cock to do the work for you, and get to mingling.

Sweet Kisses
sweetlips_03


SBGrass replies on 12/20/2014 10:11 am:
I completely don't do the club scene, that's my problem. If I drank I probably would be able to get into it but all those around me getting drunk while I'm not puts me off a bit.

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