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So many things have happened to me in the past two days... no, nothing erotic... but, still...  

easy_going2014 57M
6737 posts
11/4/2015 8:32 pm
So many things have happened to me in the past two days... no, nothing erotic... but, still...


So many things have happened to me in the past two days... no, nothing erotic... but, still... I feel so lucky that I'm alive...

some of you will not read this sappy post, because it doesn't have Azhar or Krrrristi or Kathy or Gayle... and, that's ok... BTW if Hana Reid or Sofia Karlberg are reading this, I deny that I ever wrote this... and I proclaim my dying love for the one that is actually reading it... you cannot be too careful... just sayin'...

here is what has happened to me these past two days:

1) two women at work came by to talk to me... this is the honest to god truth... now, they are not beautiful women, but, they are interesting and as you know I luv all of god's creatures... some more than others, and some I don't care for... but, this blog is not about that... One of the women is going thru a difficult divorce... I'd not talked to her in weeks, because it's been really hectic at the office... she is moving out this weekend... no, I didn't ask her if she needed something to tide her over during this hard time... I just listened... yes, Dreamboy, didn't take advantage of the situation... a flower in distress, that just needed someone from the opposite sex to listen to her, and not judge or criticize her... so, I did just that... I just listened... she finally says to me, why don't you say something, maybe she thinks I'm a chatty Kathy... well, I can talk a pretty good story when I need to, so, what's wrong with that... but, I didn't yesterday, I asked her how she was and that's when she told me everything that was happening to her, around her, her parents will be visiting to help with the and she's preparing to run her first marathon... are you kidding me? I get tired just hearing people talk about that (one of my neighbors just did a triathlon... I told her, I don't want hear about it, because it just wears me out... but, that is a different story)... so, while I'm listening to this sad story of life, she tells me that she has lost 30 pounds and I thought to myself, well, she looked pretty good, but I kept my eyes straight and there was no arousal whatsoever... total control... I am a human being, not an animal... well, not all of the time... and, then she says that she hasn't hit her goal weight... Ok, so I want to throw up... because she is quite thin... but, be that as it may, another lady, jumps into the conversation and they start chatting about working out, and they set a workout time for the three of us... Ok... so, with this new job, it's been awhile since I've done my regular workout at the gym... it has been very sporadic... so, I said, what the hell, and, I went and worked out with these women today... OMG, talk about being out of shape... I was on the elliptical and I was huffing and puffing just to knock out my 300 calories... and, they were on the treadmills flying... it made me sick... I had to just watch the tv because they were just gliding in thin air... and, I was like a heavy rock in deep water... but, I fought my fears and finished my workout... and, we agreed to go again tomorrow... so, I felt good about that... Dreamboy between two women fully clothed and yet sweating like a pig (oh, I just chuckled because I had posted that joke with the pig and the 30 minute orgasm)... but, no happy ending...

2) I have read some very interesting blogs on here... and, I'm so glad that I am a free member, because they are so good, that I keep thinking that they will start charging me to read them... and, I'm not singling anyone out... because all of you, like the butterflies that I picture you (mostly blue, -- but, not like big blue), have wonderful ways of capturing this simple man's attention, sometimes with arousal moments, sometimes, with unique writing skills, sometimes with just funny stories or real pictures and, sometimes, I see myself in your blogs... maybe, it is just wishful thinking... but, your words evoke moments of reflection, or warm thoughts of how the other half thinks... I'll never understand that other half although I talk a good game, I've always been excited by women and what they are...

3) I was going to post the song lyrics to 'Atlantic' by Keane as a response to one blog, but, I decided not to, because her blog was original and I didn't want to taint it with the feelings that only the Keane song could convey on my behalf... I try to write... but, some have a gift... I need help, I need inspiration... and, google and youtube are always there to provide a helping hand... maybe they are female names... most of you don't speak Spanish where the nouns are given a gender (male or female). Well, if a noun is masculine, then its descriptive adjectives and articles will also need to be masculine. In order to describe something accurately, an adjective must match a noun in both gender and number. Anyway, that's how I feel about Ms. Google and Ms. Youtube... they are there to help me in my hour of need... At the end of the day, maybe that blogger is reading this and will understand why I didn't post a witty response of some sort... some of you know that when I can't find the words for a response, I won't respond... if I don't like the pics displayed I usually type 3 periods... but, it doesn't mean that I don't appreciate the fact that you posted those, it just means that they were not meant for me... that's all...

4) One of my Spanish bloggers has posted three responses to three different blogs... and, that is difficult for her, but, I so appreciate the effort... my Spanish allows me to understand bloggers from Argentina and Spain, but, I'm not comfortable responding to them in Spanish because I cannot match the words with the feelings... I'm trying... so, I luv it, when I see the effort and, it makes it worth it for me... would they ever meet me? are they the muses that truly write those words? are they the women that the pictures depict? I don't know... but, it is possible that they are, and I am a dreamer, but, I'm not the only one...

'You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one' -- John Lennon...

5) I went to lunch today and another co-worker joined me... It's a free country and while I had my book out, I'm reading 'The Venetian Betrayal' by Steve Berry (my fav book of his is 'The Columbus affair', it did not stop her from injecting herself into my table... well, we talked about the project we are working on, so, it isn't a total loss, but, I what I do to get away from work is read a book... I immerse myself in the pages and all concerns, worries, deadlines and what not disappear for an hour... but, today, that was not the case... and, it's ok because the lady wanted to chat, and as I said today, for some reason, Dreamboy was in a listening mood... usually, when I'm quiet it makes people nervous, they want me to tell them a story or make them laugh or just enjoy an easy going converstion... 'ransom notes keep falling out your mouth' (I'm listening to Imogen Heap and 'Hide and Seek'... can you believe that someone didn't like that song... the lyrics, the change in tempo is oh so incredible...

6) Have you ever had an Adonis (for women) Aphrodite (for men) appear for a few moments in your line of sight??? well, some of you will say... Damn it Dreamboy, you write every story about some goddess or whatever... While that may be true... and, I'm not saying that that is what I do... this is my blog... so... I had see this lady earlier in the week... She is too young... I peg her at 30 or so... and, most of you know that I want to have less divaness in my life... but, she has long black hair (not thick like Azhar's) and, maybe is too thin for me... you know I luv real women... 100% all natural... and, you know I would rather they have big tits... again, 100% natural, which means that I'm ok with bigger women... call me fickle... call me stupid... slap me and call me Susie... but, that's what I would like a woman that wants me to have... it doesn't mean I am not open to different... I am... more so now, than ever before... but, I'm not going crazy... just sayin'... so, getting back to my story... I was walking into the lobby area of our building from the restaurant and there she was sitting in a chair... now, beside me was my co-worker and no one behind me... I have a habit of looking at my surroundings before I embark anywhere just to make sure there are no 'walking dead or zombies or exes' waiting to grab me... no, I don't think that is a phobia... it just is what it is... she was playing with her hair with her left hand.. she has brown eyes, and a body fitting pant suit on, with nice little<b> boots... </font></b>it was a little cool in Dallas today... no, she wasn't wearing a green corset.... but, she was looking good... now, I don't shy away from a look... you know, where for some reason a person looks at you, not thru you... well, she was looking right at me... and, she caught me eye... and, I did not flinch or turn away... I kept looking and she kept looking... and, then I licked my lips and her mouth opened... and, then I looked away as I could feel my co-workers eyes drilling a hole into my head... I don't know why some women just feel compelled to ruin a good moment.... but still...

I felt something... I've let out a deep sigh... yes, I'm still listening to another Keane song... 'sunshine'... but, I didn't pursue, because she is too young... too impressionable... what could Dreamboy offer her... she has her full life ahead of her... and, still... we had a moment...

well, that's what I thought...

thanks for reading...

what do you think???

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nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
11/4/2015 9:35 pm

She probably thought you're a dirty old man JK!!!!

You had two very busy days being a good co-worker and friend, a listener, and I'm sure they appreciated it a lot.
The young thing saw a good looking man, and she kept her eyes on him.....can't blame her, if you would be standing in front of me, and started to lick your lips, I would probably get arrested for molesting you in a public place

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 10:24 am

    Quoting nightsoul1962:
    She probably thought you're a dirty old man JK!!!!

    You had two very busy days being a good co-worker and friend, a listener, and I'm sure they appreciated it a lot.
    The young thing saw a good looking man, and she kept her eyes on him.....can't blame her, if you would be standing in front of me, and started to lick your lips, I would probably get arrested for molesting you in a public place
Hi Nightsoul!

Thanks for the lovely comments!

Your words are too kind... The co-workers are nice people...

The young lady, now that was something else. She was stunning and maybe I reminded her of a father figure or something... If, she pursues, I'll see what's what... Otherwise, I'll just chalk it up to wishful thinking and have that very pleasant memory in the back of my mind...

If I was standing in front of you licking my lips there wouldn't be any charges filed, at least, not on my part...

Boom, that just happened!!!

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 10:49 am

    Quoting  :

Hi BiggLala!

Thanks for visiting...

I agree with you about making the time. I don't always, but, when I do I want it to count, not just waste time... And, I think that people have been there for me, when I've needed them... And , when they haven't I've thought that maybe I needed to remember what that was like and give if myself... Without exterior motives... I'm not sayin' that I'm a saint because sometimes I just look at it a different way, but, other times a different version of me surfaces... Kind of like when you take a step back to reflect...
Thanks again!

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 10:54 am

    Quoting  :

Hi Joy...

Thanks for the wonderful comments...

For you, big blue is a needed distraction or pleasure for me the thought of inserting something inside me is not appealing at all... Hence, I'm dreading my physical next week, because my doctor will remind me about what women go thru on a more frequent basis then I do... I still don't like it, I dread it... So, that is my issue with inserting things... Yucky!!! Scary!!!

Just sayin'

I'm glad that you liked that songs... It is so sweet!!!

Have a great day!

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nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
11/5/2015 11:30 am

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi Nightsoul!

    Thanks for the lovely comments!

    Your words are too kind... The co-workers are nice people...

    The young lady, now that was something else. She was stunning and maybe I reminded her of a father figure or something... If, she pursues, I'll see what's what... Otherwise, I'll just chalk it up to wishful thinking and have that very pleasant memory in the back of my mind...

    If I was standing in front of you licking my lips there wouldn't be any charges filed, at least, not on my part...

    Boom, that just happened!!!
MMM........I find it very flattering.......no charges.......MMMMMM....

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
11/5/2015 11:31 am

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    So you are the Dreamboy bloggers have been talking about? I am late to the party. Thanks for sharing your happenings. I am interested in a few of the singers and songs you mentioned and I hopefully will have time to google/youtube today. If you ever get inspired by my blog feel free to share what you think. I love varied responses. It gives me ideas for future blogs. You never know when inspiration hits, eh? Have a great rest of the week and weekend.
Oh Yes!!! He's the one and only Dreamboy!!!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


ERoosevelt 55F
299 posts
11/5/2015 12:58 pm

It says a lot about you that your co-workers do care to confide in you. LOVE feminizing Ms. Google and Ms. YouTube. I'm sure you made the young Aphrodite's day with the look and subtle (I'm assuming) lick; you are after all Dreamboy


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 1:11 pm

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    So you are the Dreamboy bloggers have been talking about? I am late to the party. Thanks for sharing your happenings. I am interested in a few of the singers and songs you mentioned and I hopefully will have time to google/youtube today. If you ever get inspired by my blog feel free to share what you think. I love varied responses. It gives me ideas for future blogs. You never know when inspiration hits, eh? Have a great rest of the week and weekend.
Hi yesmamallthetime...

Thanks for coming to read and comment on this blog and others....

I have written some interesting blogs about Azhar, my belly dancer, and the pet name she calls me 'Dreamboy'. I have found that some of my bloggers are using some of my isms like 'Awzam' 'Go Time' and they refer to Dreamboy...

I must say that I am flattered that they not only enjoy my fiction, but also are using some of my sayings... Makes me feel good...

As you may have gathered, I am inspired by music and interesting prose... I like fiction when it comes to reading, but enjoy 'real' when it comes to a personal blog.

As a matter of fact, this blog was written after I read your blog yesterday... I was moved by it and couldn't put a 'real' original response to it... So I decided not to post the Keane song lyrics to it... All of your writings have struck a chord with me... In a nice way...

It's a style and word choice and pacing that I like...

Thanks for the post!!!

Have a great day!

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
11/5/2015 3:28 pm

Easy your two busy days will be over soon. This does say a lot about you and your co workers. You must be a good listener and provide good advise. Normally you do not find this in a work place .. See learnt something new about you again.. hugsssss V

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sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
11/5/2015 8:17 pm

As others have noted, you must have a very open and trusting persona that engages others to want to not only seek you out but to confide in you also.
Eye contact can be interpreted in so many ways and I am often told that my eyes are very expressive. As they say, eyes are the windows to the soul.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 9:13 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh Joy... you know that you bring this Dreamboy so many other pleasures that arouse his mind before anything else gets a chance to wake up... and, that is not an easy thing to do for this simple man...

a fantasy or infatuation or a sigh emitted from these lips which you have caused many comes from your beautiful pen and that body that enchants me...

so, Dreamboy loves that body just fine... he thinks you are Awzam... he hopes that someday there will be the chance like those lucky ones you've written about... yes, he does...

someday Joy...

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 9:14 pm

    Quoting nightsoul1962:
    Oh Yes!!! He's the one and only Dreamboy!!!
Hi Nightsoul...

thanks for the kind words... you know I luv reading your blogs and posts on mine... plus, those pics are Awzam...

thanks again!

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Good luck!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 9:24 pm

    Quoting ERoosevelt:
    It says a lot about you that your co-workers do care to confide in you. LOVE feminizing Ms. Google and Ms. YouTube. I'm sure you made the young Aphrodite's day with the look and subtle (I'm assuming) lick; you are after all Dreamboy
Hi ERoosevelt...

thanks for visiting and posting your lovely comments...

This story was 100% all me... no fiction, no adlibbing, all Dreamboy... and, it felt good, just being there... not looking for anything, not wanting anything... as a follow-up to the story, I worked out again today with one of the women... and, it felt good, but, I just worked out... I haven't worked out (300 calories) two days in a row in years... and, you know what? I'm planning to work out tomorrow too!!!

I thought that applying gender's to google and youtube was a perfect analogy to make, given the Spanish gender usage in words... I'm glad that you liked that... sometimes, I don't know how people are going to receive my words... most seem to enjoy... and, that pleases me...

I thought about that today, and I went and had lunch at the same deli in my building... thinking, what if she re-appears? what will I do? what will she do? hmmm... but, it did not happen... but, never say never... I don't like the words that start with n like 'never' and 'no'... I consider myself a qualified 'yes' man.

I luv all of god's little creatures and some even more!!!

thanks again!!!

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 9:26 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Easy your two busy days will be over soon. This does say a lot about you and your co workers. You must be a good listener and provide good advise. Normally you do not find this in a work place .. See learnt something new about you again.. hugsssss V
Hi sweet_VM.

It's always a pleasure seeing you visit and post on my blog...

I'm just a simple man... you are right... you don't find these things I've run into in the workplace... but, I've been lucky...

I hope to keep sharing with you!!!

thanks again!!!

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/5/2015 9:31 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    As others have noted, you must have a very open and trusting persona that engages others to want to not only seek you out but to confide in you also.
    Eye contact can be interpreted in so many ways and I am often told that my eyes are very expressive. As they say, eyes are the windows to the soul.

Hi sexyldy1000.

Thanks for taking the time to read and comment...

I try to just be who I am... I find that I am less opinionated than I used to be... and, now I pause more often before opening my mouth... so, maybe that is helping... It is time for me to give back or pay things forward... I may not have done that all of my life... or, may have done that for different reasons... but, these days, I look at things in a greyer light... not so much the black and white of years ago...

Eye contact is important... I bet that your eyes are expressive and easy on the beholder of such beauty... maybe, someday I'll have a look at that soul...

that box of chocolate has all kinds of options...

thanks again!!!

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/6/2015 8:01 am

    Quoting  :

Hi Joy.

Yes, you are right about that...

Have a great weekend!

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/6/2015 8:07 am

    Quoting  :

Hi Joy...

That brings me happiness and joy at the same time...

I'm ok with being in that group!!!



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