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I don't like to get anything started at work as far as relationships, but, it seems that I've been  

easy_going2014 57M
6737 posts
12/25/2015 8:46 pm
I don't like to get anything started at work as far as relationships, but, it seems that I've been


I don't like to get anything started at work as far as relationships, but, it seems that I've been pulled into some unusual situations over the past year... and, Wednesday was no different...

I've only been in this job since April, and I only went FTE in September so I don't have a lot of vacation time accrued... Hence, I had to work, where normally, I would have taken this week off, as some of you have... others, can bear with me, and just do it...

Well, I went into the office and it was half full (me, always the eternal optimist), so, it was quiet and I got a lot done... phone wasn't ringing off the hook, emails trickled down to nothing... life was good... and, then, something happened...

Kathy came by my office... you may remember that she was the inspiration for a blog that I wrote a few months back involving a very erotic lunch at her place... And, don't forget, that Gayle joined us midway into our intimate moments...

As I said, she was the inspiration for that story... well, she was looking mighty fine this week... she is a red head... mature woman... but, not petite... she has a voluptuous body and her hair is long... Dreamboy would say she is awzam and has melonlicious breasts... I have to say that I have a passion for a woman like that, that has a brain to go with it, not the t-shirt that covers her melonlicious breasts stating "I wish these were brains". She wouldn't need that, as she is already there...

It is hard to focus when you are presented with a woman like this and she asks you if you have a minute... Now, before you all get all uppity and state how sexist I might be or why would I think anything... Let me provide some background... While she works in my IT organization, she is in the contracts section and sits on the other side of the building... We've said hello a few times and she's asked me for advice on a couple of things... but, nothing earth shattering or leading up to anything for a relationship at the office, because office encounters often end up in 'messy encounters of the third kind', and by that I mean, you don't know what can happen if things don't work out smooth... here, on this site, you can block, ignore, whatever... hard to change your name at the office, or move to a different floor, or become invisible... so, I'm just sayin' I'm not a saint and if I am properly motivated, then I have to consider my options and weigh the unintended consequences of future actions...

Everyone is a great opportunity until they no longer are... so, I carry on in a different manner at the office... Many of you may remember Mary Jo Lisa... I said no to her several times and did not bite on any blatant advances she made... and, as it turns out, it was the right thing to do... plus, I got to meet Azhar from those experiences...
Would have never happened if Mary Jo Lisa didn't like middle eastern food and introduce me to Sanabels Mediterranean grill restaurant...

Kathy asks me if I have a minute and I say sure, and she leads me to her office... No, I'm not thinking anything, even though there are very few people in the area... and, her cube mate is not in... and, did I mention that she is looking very appetizing in a politically correct manner... What I mean by this is that she has a black button-down shirt that fits her body nicely, and her breasts are held back by a firm, yet sexy bra, that one gets a glimpse of, because she is not a nun, and so, you can see cleavage, and contour underneath that shirt... she also sports a pair of black jeans that are contoured to her body... but, I don't notice much in a woman, except that she has a little ankle bracelet over her brightly colored nails of her left foot resting on comfortable sandals... and, she has a small tattoo just below the bracelet on her right hand... and, she is not wearing a wedding ring...

but, I'm not really paying attention...

the first thing I notice when I walk into her office are three dozen multi-colored roses in a nice vase sitting on her desk...

If I was outside of the office, I would have asked if they were for me... but, I have to be a professional... so, I am...

She wants to ask me some questions about converting over to a full time employee, as I had become one in September and, she talks to me about that...

I comment on how beautiful the roses are, and how I luv to give and get roses... my got me roses for my birthday last year... She said that a person she knew or went out with awhile back gave them to her, and she thinks that he is interested in starting it up again... I told her that he was trying very hard, and that you couldn't let roses that pretty go unnoticed... Because, after all, I'm at the office, and she is asking for help...

I gave her my 2 cents worth, and told her the things that she needed to consider as far as insurance and benefits, and answered her questions...

When I thought her questions were satisfied, I wished her a merry Christmas, and let her know that I would be in next week, if anything else came up... She said she would also be in and maybe we could do lunch... I said that would be nice... and then bid her goodbye...

I felt good, because I just was... and, she just was... and, it didn't have to be anything... you know... sometimes, people don't have to have desires fulfilled...

and, then, Azhar called me up...

She said she wasn't feeling good... she had called in sick...

I told her that if she wanted I would pick up some food for her and bring it over to her around 5... she said that would be ok, but, that she didn't want me to get sick...

After leaving the office, I headed for a place called 'Bobo China', it has really good 'feel good' Chinese food, and every time I watch 'A Christmas story' I think of this restaurant... It's located in Dallas near the intersection of Plano Rd and LBJ off of Church Road... I've been going there for 20 years... And, you all may laugh, but, the wait staff is still the same... I you not...

they always say 'sank you' whenever you ask a question or place an order, or whatever... and, they know that I always like to sit in a table and not a booth... this place has great feel good food...

And, I know that when I'm feeling sickly with a cold, that I need to have their 'sizzling rice soup' -- utterly delicious... It is like rubbing my edible cherry massage oil over my lover and just enjoying every lick and taste... that's what I feel like when I eat that soup... OMG, it is orgasmic... really, most of you are too far away to form an opinion on the subject, so just trust me... Now, if I'm not sick I get the beef sticks instead of the soup... but, today, Azhar is not well... so, I will go with the soup...

Then, you have to have the steamed dumplings... and, they bring this delicious sauce that is something more than soy sauce... I love it...

then, I get the BoBo beef dish... it is enough to feed two people and then some... and, I get it with white rice... the BoBo beef has peas, carrots, mushrooms, and is simply delicious... it's like Azhar's beautiful lips and a scent of her body essence at the same time... just incredible...

I get the order to go... and, take it to Azhar...

She is not feeling good at all... She's on the couch going thru all kinds of medication and Kleenex... I have to cleanup a bit... but, it's ok, 'cause normally, she is so clean and tidy with everything... but, she is not well today...

I remove all of her knick knacks from her coffee table in the living room and set places for two... I had stopped by to get her some orange juice and vicks vapor rub, because that works for me, when I am sick... she looks at what I have brought rather skeptically, and I say, it's ok, I only lack four years of med school and 3 years of internship and practical experience as a doctor, so, just go with what my mom used to give me... and, she says, your mom treated you like this before... and, I said sure... we live in a civilized country... we can't drink from the Nile or go and pray to the Egyptian gods here... it works differently... she says 'Dreamboy, I like you, but you crazy'...

and, then I feed her her soup... and, she loves it... everybody loves the soup from Bobo China... everybody I know will drive 20 miles to go eat there... just because it's good, reasonable and consistent... I don't think they've changed anything on the menu but the prices in 20 years... that is consistency... that's what I need when I am sick...

she polished off all of her soup... and, then she scarfed down the dumplings... and, I made her drink her orange juice...

she didn't eat much of the bobo beef, although she like it... so, I bagged up the remains and put them in covered bowl so she could have a snack later or tomorrow.

then, I got the Vick's vapor rub out and rubbed some under her nose and on her chest... she complained a bit, early... and then, her breathing got very relaxed and she went to sleep...

and, that's the end of this story...

Merry Christmas

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iwalkstilts 48M
2869 posts
12/25/2015 11:17 pm

Dude, good story.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
12/25/2015 11:26 pm

Hi iwalkstilts.

Thanks for reading and commenting on my blog.

I'm glad that you liked it.

Have a great weekend!

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
12/26/2015 9:50 am

You would noticed the flowers. Great ending to the story.. ty Easy and Merry Xmas to you..

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
12/26/2015 10:30 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    You would noticed the flowers. Great ending to the story.. ty Easy and Merry Xmas to you..
Hi sweet_VM.

thanks for the visit. I always like your comments!!!

I luv roses, you know that!

This was just a 'feel good' story...

I'm glad that you liked it...

Have a great day!

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sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
12/26/2015 9:37 pm

You and Dreamboy always find yourselves in the most unlikely of circumstances. There must be an aura of trust, openness and kindness surrounding you that draws women towards you.
I can't think of a sweeter gesture than to feed your lover soup and to rub Vick's Vapor Rub on her when she isn't feeling well.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
12/26/2015 10:09 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    You and Dreamboy always find yourselves in the most unlikely of circumstances. There must be an aura of trust, openness and kindness surrounding you that draws women towards you.
    I can't think of a sweeter gesture than to feed your lover soup and to rub Vick's Vapor Rub on her when she isn't feeling well.

Hi sexyldy1000.

thanks for the visit, the kind words and the picture...

I luv it...

I think you may be right, we do get ourselves in some unique experiences...
A 'feel good' story was something that just flowed... I'm glad that you liked it...

There doesn't always have to be a happy ending to the stories that I weave... there can be compassion in Dreamboy's life... he can listen, he can do the right thing... he doesn't feel like he is an animal... and, a story can just be about people being themselves or wondering if there is a possibility with all the running around, that we can just take a few moments to not feel like we have to be entitled to something... and, that's what I felt writing this story...

This particular Christmas I felt more like an ornament, more like a participant watching the joy in people's eyes as they opened their gifts, or as we played a game of 'exchanging of gifts' at my brother's house... I participated and enjoyed what the kids and grandkids were doing... Not interested in the outcome, only that everyone had fun... I did a lot of listening...

some, say that I am a chatty cathy... but, I wasn't these past few days... I listened, or helped out, or just was...

some people can never just be... I just was these past few days...

I had a wonderful few days with the Christmas celebrations...

I hope your days were heartfelt...

thanks again, for the visit...

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
12/29/2015 8:21 am

    Quoting  :

Hi Joy.

Thanks for the thoughtful comment!

Hope you had a great Christmas!

Thanks again!

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