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Men!  

Ladybug930 57F
67 posts
1/16/2015 4:57 am
Men!


Men complain that there are no real women or women willing to meet on here. From woman's perspective I call bullshit. Nothing better then emailing then texting a guy, feeling hey we are compatible, he is sane and It's time we meet. Start planning and all of a sudden the man who was always around gets "busy".
Somehow I think it is the man getting cold feet cause women are scary! What are you afraid of? Public place, no pressure meet. Interact and decide if you wish to continue or if no attraction. Are men afraid of a woman who wants casual relationship? Or do men talk a good game but back down when faced with the thought of being used for sex? Or do the guys want more but are not admitting it?
Hiding behind a screen, not meeting someone you seem to get along with is the reason people complain that they never meet anyone!!
Get out there, have cup of coffee or a drink or whatever, break the ice....you never know who or what you might discover.

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
1/16/2015 5:01 am

have always said meet and greet first in a public place, then take it from there.


Ladybug930 replies on 1/16/2015 5:04 am:
Exactly!

oral2plsu2 64M
5820 posts
1/16/2015 5:06 am

I agree with the first guy on here, you have meet and see if you even like each other first. Put yourself out there, or else why be on here in the first place. How's the weather at the foot of the Pocono's today?


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
1/16/2015 5:10 am

Wondered the same thing, my conclusion some are hiding this from partner, some are shy, some only want virtual. Totally agree public meet for coffee, what do you have to loose?


veryjuicykitten 29F
105 posts
1/16/2015 6:10 am

Men are eager to meet 'at the drop of a hat' if it means just turning up on your own doorstep and making no other effort or respecting that is it YOUR OWN HOME and who wants a stranger knowing where you live??

Yeh right. There are a number of people who you wouldn't even trust your mother with


annewolfie20037 109F
102 posts
1/16/2015 8:13 am

Or they are married....which usually tends to be the reason they back out.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/16/2015 8:53 am

Because of some of the crap women here are subjected to they seem hesitant to meet. Can’t really blame them, dishonesty is rampant unfortunately.

When I have arranged a meeting it is in a public place and see how things go and I’m there on time.


When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


ladybughug443 38F
153 posts
1/17/2015 5:33 am

I get that kind of thing all the time. I find it funny when I have a guy message me over and over asking for a meetup, I ask him when would be a good time, we set it up, and he either just doesn't show, or backs out the last min, never to be heard from again. Some of which were those complaining about not meeting anyone. I have also ran into those guys trying to cheat on their wives / girlfriends. Having a nasty encounter with one wife I will never forget.


lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
1/26/2015 1:56 pm

I am not afraid.....I will meet you


xthorp_returns 53M

1/28/2015 12:39 am

lol i can't speak for all else.. but you can't account for everyone.. nothing wrong with someplace mutually safe.... for starters


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