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Does anyone have the answer?  

Ladybug930 57F
67 posts
8/2/2015 7:54 pm
Does anyone have the answer?


Not 100% sure what the question even is. I guess if we all had the answer we would not be on FriendFinder-x.
I sit here listening to the silence and realize it is August. I swear it was just June. I feel I am missing out on my own life. I found a nice guy in real world and we hit it off, but the second he gets serious.............I run away, push him away and find myself here.
Is it panic? The thrill of the hunt? Indecisiveness? Or could he just be all wrong for me? Maybe I need a nice wimpy guy who will be happy sitting home while I do my thing? Or a dominant guy who will keep me in line so to speak? Or maybe a guy who will treat me like a queen and keep me focused?
Relationships are not my strong point it seems. Yet all around me in my daily world are couples together from 20-35 years. I tried twice........never got past 10 years. Also engaged for 5 and that was not a good relationship from day one in retrospect.
I tried the casual just have fun thing.......that too had drawbacks.
Oh I can make myself nuts over thinking all this!

blueskyg1rl08 51F
1 post
8/2/2015 8:13 pm

Reading your post is like looking in the mirror.
No one has the answers except you. You'll figure it out. Good luck!!!


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
8/2/2015 8:15 pm

Go into each situation with NO EXPECTATIONS and NO LIMITATIONS. That allows nature to take its own course.

Be safe, relax and just have fun!


nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
8/2/2015 8:45 pm

Not all of us are relationship material, and a lot of times we get into relationships for all the wrong reasons. Don't drive yourself crazy thinking about this too much.....I already do that for both of us!!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
8/3/2015 4:39 am

we are each different in our own way. past relationships damage us. if and when you are emotionally ready for a committed relationship,it will happen


mdfreakaleak 63M
43 posts
8/3/2015 5:35 am

I'm gonna do some research and I'll have an answer for you after.


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