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Is this really what we are left with?  

Fiestygrl1963 60F  
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9/16/2018 4:59 pm
Is this really what we are left with?

Is this how our future is going to be? We are all looking for something, anything, to make things feel better, life, love, health, anything is better than endless days of the same thing. We are all searching for what will make us feel wanted, desired and breathless. The chance to feel our world tilt at the touch of another person hands, lips, and so much more.
Those of you who are looking for instant gratification and casual hook ups are missing that connection so many desire. Sex is an act that for some is enough. It isn't enough for me. Giving myself to someone involves way more than fucking. It involves a connection that brings the most satisfying experience one can ever imagine. The connection takes time, perhaps not months, but more than a few lines on the screen on this site. Being horny is a normal thing but hooking up with a stranger to satisfy it isn't in my world. I am not here to judge anyone either. If hook ups work for you then that's your story not mine.
What rocks my world is taking time to learn about each others desires and needs. It involves really understanding what turns the other person on. Whether it is the soft touch of a partners fingertips across your lovers skin, or that earth shattering French kiss that makes you melt, it is all invoking feelings and sensations. It is not just sex. It is not instant gratification. It's so much more and no, it isn't love I speak about. It is a connection that lets you feel desire and not feel like you are being used to get someone off.
I want all of that. The sensations, the desire and the heat that a real connection creates. One that leaves me shivering and wet. A connection that is built on trust and attraction is what works for me. I am not here to get someone else off. I am here to find someone to get off with. A mutually satisfying connection that has no lies, no false promises, just pure and simple desire to reach a level of satisfaction that makes you want that person more than once.
I get this blog is not what most want to read but really, I am only writing it to verbalize how I feel, what I feel and what I want. Most can't read profiles and those that can ignore what I say in it. My words are my truth, not intended to satisfy everyone on here. I don't need to satisfy everyone, I just want to satisfy one and for that one to satisfy me. Are you out there? Are you on here? Maybe not.

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