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Dude – The 27th Virtual Symposium  

redrockrascal 65M
8437 posts
2/1/2017 3:16 pm
Dude – The 27th Virtual Symposium

Back in May of 20 I wrote a of posts about my lil buddy Dude – he was a cat, a very cool cat. He had all the looks of a breed known as a “Chantilly”. When I first encountered him in 2009 he could fit in the palm of my hand. He was limping and had a gash on one of his front legs. Since he didn’t know who I was he started to limp away. I kneeled down and said “Hey lil dude”. He stopped, looked back at me and laid down. We got him to a vet and they told us his leg would be OK but he had blood test signs of one of the feline diseases. It could be he had the disease or had been vaccinated for it – no way to tell. We could either get him fixed up (for a lot of ) or put him down. We chose to give him a shot at life and I promised him I would do all I could to give him a good life.

My g/f at that time had another cat at that time who was an inside cat. So lil Dude (now his name) would need to survive outside until he chose to do otherwise – it was summer time. A neighbor thought he was part of the litter one of her<b> cats </font></b>was from, but didn’t know who their “owners” were. Both were outside<b> cats </font></b>and were surviving fairly well – lizards and mice are abundant around here. I built a shelf under one of our front windows where we placed a water source and a small bowl of food. It was up away from where other animals could not easily get to it and Dude could look into the house to see we were sitting on the couch. He and the other cat got to know each other through the screen. There is also a tall/thin full length window next to the front door and Dude would look into the house from time to time during the day – we called that “the face”. After a while we decided to leave the door open to see if Dude wanted to come in.

“the Face”.


One day after doing “the Face” thing he looked in the door and took some tentative steps in. The other cat was a bit surprised but didn’t object. Dude would eventually spend more time indoors and we set up “accommodations” for him inside too. When we went away for a weekend the neighbor would happily keep an eye on them. Dude was “the Man” around the neighborhood – he was totally cool with the other pets, people and other small animals in the area. He visited his brother (Snickers) and the little yappy they have, daily. When I was coming home from running errands or a date etc. he seemed to know when I turned the corner (which is 5 long front yards from my place) he knew it – day or night. Sometime I would see him dart across the street, after checking both ways, to our yard. By the time I got parked and out of the truck he was waiting there to greet me. He seemed to be fascinated with skunks – I don’t know how he dealt with the local family of foxes. When skunks would come foraging through our property Dude would sit up on the food shelf, or no top of one of my cars, and carefully watch them. If I went to bring him in he would shy away and kept his eyes on the skunks – after a while I just left him to his fascination.

He spent a lot of time watching over the neighborhood from a spot on top of a shed next to the garage.


From there he could see a lot of the neighborhood and he could watch me do yard work or car work etc. The overhang of the garage roof gave him shelter from summer rains. Anywhere I did yard work around the property Dude would eventually lay down on something and supervise me. The shed was his place whenever I went to look for him that was the first place to look. I never went up on his place, but there were nights when it was cold and I didn’t want him to freeze, I would stand under him trying to convince him it was gonna be better for him to be inside. Sometimes he went for the rattling a bowl of food “trick” and he would come down and inside – sometimes not so much. I eventually started leaving the side door to the garage open in cold/wet weather so he could at least be inside. I kept a small bowl of food and water on top of the washing machine at those times. Since he was pretty furry he didn’t seem to mind the cold much but some mornings he would be at the back door when I got up. There was a small period of time one winter when it was hard to find him. So one night I happened to shine a flashlight into the garage and a pair of eyes was staring back at me from the dark. He had made a garage space for himself on the hood of a project car I have. There was a pirate flag folded and sitting at the base of the windshield which was his spot to lay on. After that when I found him there I would call him “Capt’n Dude”, the car, which is silver and black is now called ”Capt’n Dude’s Pirate Volvo”.

Eventually he spent more time inside. He “watched” TV with me from his spot on the top of the couch or sitting on my chest. I would scratch his chin and sometimes he scratched mine. When I was on the phone he would lie on the desk or play with the cord. He also supervised me while I worked on the computer – evidently I need a lot of supervision. So I made a space for him on the desk where the warm air from the fan would blow on him. At night he would make his way into the bedroom and in the AMs he would be lying on the pillow and around my head – with his tail in my face . . . or mouth. From time to time he would try to pull the covers off my face and lick my forehead. So I would play chase the hand under the covers with him. I also picked up various lil toys for him when I saw something that might interest him. He always preferred to chase an old shoestring that I would dangle around him.

He would also do a “crazy cat” routine outside. He would run up one tree and suddenly stop in a crouched position and look around with his tail flicking around. Then dart down that tree and up another and assume the position, then down that tree and up another. Then as suddenly as he had started the routine it would end and he would park himself on the tree to “get some sun”. Part of my yard work included pruning the trees. I made sure there was plenty of room for him to get up the trees without getting snagged as an escape route in case a coyote or something was chasing him.

There is a lot more I could write about my lil buddy but this was a last minute thing. I wrote about what happened to Dude in May of 20 and I don’t like to think or write about that. Snickers came around a lot after that looking for Dude. Here are some links if you wish to read them.

Dude my lil cat buddy update plus

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Dude is gone now

Dude was smart, funny, loving and totally cool. My blog here is dedicated to Dude. The point of all this is I really miss my lil buddy Dude . . . a lot . . . daily.


When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/19/2017 8:22 am

    Quoting keithcancook:
    I enjoyed reading about dude. Especially since it is written so well. A wonderful testimonial to your animal friend.

    Blog on!
Thank you Keith

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
2/19/2017 6:54 am

I enjoyed reading about dude. Especially since it is written so well. A wonderful testimonial to your animal friend.

Blog on!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2017 6:03 am

    Quoting tickles4us:
    You made it easy to see how and why you were so attached to him. An enjoyable read, thanks.
Thank you T

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
2/4/2017 7:53 pm

You made it easy to see how and why you were so attached to him. An enjoyable read, thanks.

Vive La Difference


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/3/2017 1:43 pm

    Quoting  :

Dude brought gifts too

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/3/2017 1:42 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks K, yes he was.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/3/2017 1:41 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I used to have a number of cats as pets and each one had it's own unique personality.
When all 3 were around here they were all quite different.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
2/2/2017 3:39 pm

I used to have a number of cats as pets and each one had it's own unique personality.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/2/2017 3:28 pm

    Quoting Furbal1972:
    Dude sounds like an awesome cat. The best!

    And that is a great name for a cat.
All I could have asked for would have been more time with him.
He responded to Dude quite well.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/2/2017 3:25 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Such a wonderful story and a great contribution to the symposium. Little DUDE sounds like a great cat..
Thank you - He really was great.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/2/2017 3:24 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    This is a lovely tribute to your buddy....It's wonderful how our beloved pets get into our hearts and leave such memories.
Thank you. The do a lot for us.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/2/2017 3:23 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    Dude sounds a great cat. You are a kind man giving him a chance.
He really was - I miss him.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Furbal1972 51M
18571 posts
2/2/2017 8:36 am

Dude sounds like an awesome cat. The best!

And that is a great name for a cat.

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/2/2017 8:08 am

Such a wonderful story and a great contribution to the symposium. Little DUDE sounds like a great cat..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
2/2/2017 2:17 am

This is a lovely tribute to your buddy....It's wonderful how our beloved pets get into our hearts and leave such memories.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/2/2017 2:02 am

Dude sounds a great cat. You are a kind man giving him a chance.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2017 7:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you DA.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2017 6:45 pm

    Quoting  :

They do look out for us, don't they? Yes they do, he guarded the property like it was his own - and it was in a way.

yes, you need a lot of supervision Moi?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2017 6:43 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    This is just wonderful. I can totally feel and see Dude from your writing. What a good life you gave this lovely cat. Thanks for sharing with us
Thanks PG this was only a part of how special and cool he was.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2017 6:41 pm

    Quoting BrownEyedBBW:
    Years ago, someone told me that pets come into our lives to teach us about what love and trust truly are. I can believe that.
Dude sure did that.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2017 6:41 pm

    Quoting ranchomongo:
    wow.. this was great, I never met him and I like him..
    although if was there.. I would never see him.. lol
    I m always happy to hear that a stray gets a 2nd chance..
    we have this throw away society and there are just to many pets in this world that don t get the attention they deserve.
    thanks for being a great guy..
    and thanks for sharing Dude..
Thanks for the complements RM. He was a most excellent Dude and got along well with everyone.
I try to give everyone and everything a 2nd chance the throw away society is just another term for waste IMO.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2017 6:38 pm

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    I love how he went from a bit scraggly to the lovely look feline he was later on.
    I read about how you lost him.
    I know you have good memories of him.
    Happy Symposium,
    kk
Thank you

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
2/1/2017 5:39 pm

This is just wonderful. I can totally feel and see Dude from your writing. What a good life you gave this lovely cat. Thanks for sharing with us

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BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
2/1/2017 5:17 pm

Years ago, someone told me that pets come into our lives to teach us about what love and trust truly are. I can believe that.


ranchomongo 70M

2/1/2017 4:48 pm

wow.. this was great, I never met him and I like him..
although if was there.. I would never see him.. lol
I m always happy to hear that a stray gets a 2nd chance..
we have this throw away society and there are just to many pets in this world that don t get the attention they deserve.
thanks for being a great guy..
and thanks for sharing Dude..


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