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Latest round of what is wrong with local females?!?
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Latest round of what is wrong with local females?!? I often come here to vent. Frankly, the community here is uniquely and solely able to understand the frustrations and types of people that one might encounter in such a venue. I am often certain that online situations are like 90% negative only only 10% positive ever. I find myself needing long periods away before I even try again to talk with people. Let me start with the first example. This girl meets me on here. As must girls do, she gives me her KIK name to start talking there. We talk for a few hours a night. She tells me how interested she is and excited she is to get to know me better. Week one comes up. "Ok, let's do something tomorrow," I say. She seems all excited and tell me that she can't wait to see me. The afternoon comes, she suddenly has stuff come up. I get that. Stuff comes up in life. She assures me that she really does want to hang out. So, we talk another week. She insists that she really likes me and feels we are connecting a lot. She insists that we will meet up the next week when we are free. Again, she blows me off. Go figure. So, I'm left trying to figure out why someone would waste two weeks of my time and play such games. She tries to drag me on another whole week, until I'm left to just tell her completely off. Turns out she is taking to various other guys and is lying half the time. I don't get what is wrong with girls. Just be upfront. Don't tell someone lies for two weeks and play games with someone's head. That situation was exhausting. I wasted a lot of effort and time. It is hard to recover for that experience and feel like putting effort in again. So, then you have this other girl. We meet on here. I guess the site is called friend finder. I would think that most people get the idea that it is about more than making new buddies. Nonetheless, she talks to me only when she wants to vent about this guy she is dating in real life. She thinks it is perfectly fine to meet a random guy on here and just vent about her personal life. Fine... I get that. I will be your friend, but don't expect that I'm just your therapist. I invite her to hang out. Well, no we can't hang out. That would feel like cheating... What!?! Why are you on fucking date sites then? She is on like three other sites too and active all the time. So, I call her out on that. If you are worried about trust issues with this other guy, why are you online on all these sites? She tells me that she has no social life and simply wants to chat with people, as if you can't do that a million other places. Where do these girls get off treating people this way? As if I'm just sitting here hoping someone wants to bring me into their life and have me want nothing contributed toward my own. Far be it that I want to talk about me or my situations, bam... silence and nothing said. Yet, the second she is having a bad day, hours of messages pour in. I wish this was just the random bad luck that such people are met. Instead, it is like every person I meet. I am talking to this other girl. She is a cute redhead. She is married, but she wants to make new friends. Her husband doesn't do this or that for her. I'm fine with that. We talk for a while. She sends me a provocative picture. So, let me stop right there... don't send someone sexy pictures, then suggest you aren't interested. What kind of sick tease is that? After she asks questions and I invest a lot of time talking, she tells me that she has been talking to some other guy for weeks now. She thinks he is the one, but wants me to wait around just in case. What the fuck? Seriously? Since when did it become acceptable for girls to open up a queue with girls waiting for a turn in time? That seems to be the common factor with all of these girls. If you are seeing someone, you don't want to see more people yet, and you aren't looking to meet up... get off the goddamned site! Why are you looking to<b> meet new people </font></b>at this point? You clearly are making this paradox that my mind cannot wrap itself around, as to how your actions are not remotely aligned with the things you are saying. So, I end up feeling like just bashing my head against the wall a few hours. It isn't simply that you get rejection or bad luck meeting people. It is that the situations and conversations are that horrible and confusing. It makes you lose faith in humanity. At least I enjoy it so much more now when a girl wants choked or some aggressive sex. I might just stick to that. I have had enough to trying to be nice and form meaningful connections. |
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I hear one person tell me to cut my losses and stop wasting effort... done. Good bye jerk. See, I do know when to move on. If anyone has anything polite or respectful to say, feel free.
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