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Blogs > leximer1 > Lexi's Sanctuary

Random Thought  

leximer1 35F
80 posts
6/22/2016 7:14 am
Random Thought

One thing I am often struck by on FriendFinder-x is a lot of peoples’ reluctance to discuss their own sexual desires and/or kinks or their reluctance to ask about mine. I realize that a lot of times this is just simply shyness. I too was shy once upon a time believe it or not lol. So I get it. However, as I know I have stated before this is an adult site and should really not be considered a “dating” site. If you are looking to meet someone to bring home to the parents, you probably shouldn’t look for them on an adult site. Just a suggestion lol. As I have also stated quite often I am a completely open book about my past, current, and hopeful future desires, kinks, partners, acts, etc…It just makes it so much easier to find like-minded individuals when you are open about these things. I would love to see other people be just as open. There should be no fear of judgement on FriendFinder-x. Let’s be honest. We are ALL here because we are “freaks in the sheets” or looking to find “freaks in the sheets” lol. Some enjoy daddy/ role play, some enjoy S&M, some enjoy same sex action, some enjoy cheating, some enjoy feet, tits, ass, legs, etc…The list goes on and on. It’s called a sex drive for a reason, it DRIVES us. It can drive you to drinking, it can drive you crazy, or it can drive you wild. It personally drives me to experiment and to indulge in things I never would have dreamed of and usually deriving pleasure I never would have dreamed of from it. It truly is just sex. It is one of our most base of instincts. There is absolutely nothing morally or ethically wrong with having desires or kinks and there is definitely nothing wrong with being able to share them in a place / forum of people who may shares some of the same. Ask me anything, I will always answer very honestly and in fact, I love to answer questions. It is one of the easiest ways to get to know someone.

HAVE A SEXY DAY


photon46 76M
339 posts
6/25/2016 5:34 am

 Part of the problem is some people both jump to conclusions and can be judgmental. If you tell a woman you like to be tied up she jumps to the conclusion that if she does not tie you up, well, its a waste of time. So, better to say nothing. Email is not the greatest way to communicate subtlety.

Chuck


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
6/23/2016 2:04 pm

 You've brought up some very good points. There should be no shame in sharing fantasies on this site (well, most of them lol). I'm so thankful that there is a place like this where people can be open & honest about their love of sex.
Thoughts from the Garden...


northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
6/22/2016 8:12 am

 While everything you shared makes complete sense, I'll just tell you why I'm not a big fan of sharing fantasies.

- Sharing fantasies is not personally satisfying.
- I don't fantasize much about sexual encounters
- Being asked to share is a turn off, especially, when I state I'm looking for real life encounters
- Catfishing, anonymity, etc. I'd rather meet someone, first, before investing much time

Again, those are just my personal views but I might not be alone.
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


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