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Half Virgins  

phoenix71rebirth 52F
181 posts
5/10/2016 11:24 am
Half Virgins


Take a guess where I heard this from.
My 16yr old comes home one day and says "mommy these fucking in Dubai are seriously fucked up" ... since she's in a class that boast about their teenage orgy and fuck boys and girls ... I was prepared to learn something new.

I calmly said and what happened this time ... she looks at me and says "do you know what a half virgin means?"

Am sitting staring at my laptop thinking wtf is a half virgin and she continues with disgust "it's gross"

Light bulb in my old brain ... I said has it got to do with errrr anal sex? And she's like yeah they only allow anal penetration because their virginity is intact ... we both stare at each other before I start giggling hysterically and she continues "are they fucking stupid or what? Sex is sex you don't need to break your<b> hymen </font></b>to be devirgined"

Mind you this is my Mommy I'm Gay who says sex and relationships can wait ... she's got goals to achieve (silent Thank You God for sensible daughters).

Still livid at the apperent lack of sense of her classmates she goes off to do homework.

And I am thinking aaah interesting situation. Vaginal virgin but ass fucked before 16. What the hell is wrong with these ? No wonder by 25 they have nothing to experience or look forward to and walk around with depression and self hurt tendencies.

I am not into anal sex and I don't care if someone else is .. their choices. But these days want to be all grown up and do things before their time.

I find it annoying when parents seem to sexualise their interactions wt members of the opposite sex from as young as 3 and 4 ... you are perpetuating the rise in these ill equipped promiscuity.

Wise up folks your innocent looking 'virgin' may not be necessarily so. Half virgin my ass literally!

ChromeNation 40M

5/10/2016 11:36 am

Honestly I kinda wish I would have had sex in my teens, maybe I wouldn't be so depressed now.


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/10/2016 12:10 pm:
I doubt teen sex would have made a positive difference. Unprepared and ill equipped to handle circumstances might have been more detrimental

1ALLNYTR 59M
248 posts
5/10/2016 11:40 am

You lost me when your kid curses at you


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/10/2016 12:08 pm:
She wasn't cursing at me.

And in the scheme of things cussing is the least of my worries about what they might get up to.

They are allowed to cuss only in front of me. Outside these 4 walls .. everyone considers them model children well mannered well behaved and both academic and creative excellence ... given that a few choice expressions are allowed as a vocalised vent.

Sorry you lost the point I was trying to make.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/10/2016 12:26 pm

Once a person has gained knowledgeable information about sex, they're no longer a "Virgin". Waiting well into the 20s to get rid of actual physical virginity is not a good idea. This only makes making a mistake of commitment a lot more probable.

Your daughter or anyone, can achieve their goals and have sex [at the legal age]. The mistake is "Commitment" before achieving personal, academic and professional goals.


Merlinmystic 59M
58 posts
5/12/2016 8:44 pm

hahaha....


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/13/2016 3:17 am:
Ketawa pulak pakcik apa hal ... yg kelakar lelaki je yg nak komen ... sebab pompuan tau rasa kena maki hamun kan?

Merlinmystic 59M
58 posts
5/15/2016 10:17 pm

did not mean to offend you by laughing.

When I read the post it got me laughing. which reminded me of the saying which was repeatedly said to me by all my educators, mentors and elders, That "learning is an ongoing process and you will never stop learning"

I did learn something new from this post.

Thank you Phoenix


phoenix71rebirth replies on 5/16/2016 5:39 pm:
Not offended. Merely an observation 😊

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