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Query / Confusion / Curiosity Hello People! Would be nice to get some feed back on this one. It is not a new question but I'm just wondering where society stands on the issue at the current time as the answer kind of waves back and forth like a flag in a moderate breeze as time passes. We all instinctively know / understand physical attraction. A person who is physically healthy and symmetrical and well proportioned and has specific targeted body zones that we consider attractive, in good condition. Again, this all comes instinctively. We don't even have to think about it. It just happens automatically and with out thought. However, what about those who have moved beyond that base, inborn trait and have come to believe that the conscious mind is the biggest sex organ and not just some other physical part of the body most commonly considered as "sex organs"? Once you move into this stage of sexuality, you have opened up an entire new dimension of sexuality that was invisible to you before. Simultainiously opening your mind and exponentially increasing the potential for pleasure and enjoyment with your sexual partner of the moment. The key ingredient to making this come to life is good, healthy communication, which leads to a little trust, to a little risk taking, back to more communication and so on and so forth. It being a self perpetuating and ever growing spiral with time. Hey, lets all be real here. None of us are perfect. Few of us are even close. That is the beauty of bringing in the mind as the largest sex organ. It brings in good communication, that brings in trust, that brings in risk taking and the cycle is self perpetuating. And with the brain at the helm we are able to keep our sexuality flexible by focusing on and enhancing our mates most attractive features and minimizing / ignoring their not so pleasant features. Something we all have. Also. If you are lucky enough to develop an honest and comfortable means of regular communication with each other. And I do mean brutally honest and truly, completely comfortable talking about anything. Then you are in a fantastic place to discuss with each other your short comings and what you can do to help make up / overcome them. As an embarrassing little example. I am just average / average in terms of Penis size. Most of my life this has not been a huge impediment, though, I have become a very perceptive, flexible and considerate lover. All to ensure the satisfaction / pleasure of my partner, through a wide variety of means, just to make up for my perceived lack of ability to please her satisfactorily with intercourse alone. Despite never having heard to my face or from back channels / rumors about me being a bad lover. If I was with a partner that had a great head but<b> overweight </font></b>body and we were in that place of comfort. I would love to talk with her about the plethora of little beauty / wardrobe tricks there are to help her out. And it would not just benefit her. If you are honest and patient in your communication and relationship and you make her feel better about herself. You both win all around the board!!! Now a questions of curiosity. By and far, it would seem that women here are asking for energetic, aggressive ravishing type of interaction. The words "in shape, healthy, has stamina and energy. Also, requests for being "Well Endowed"". Are there no women who want to be appreciated like a fine work of art and admired / pleasured from head to toe in a slow, respectful, sensual, erotic coupling? Also, are so many women on this site so closed minded that they cannot believe that there are many means of pleasuring and satisfying a woman other than a large Penis during copulation? I mean yes, I understand that we all have our little fantasies about what is just right for us but that is why the brain must be the most important sex organ. In order to still have an erotic, pleasurable time, despite your partner not being perfect! So, if you have a good imagination and are a good communicator. Who also enjoys the challenge of building trusting, safe and fun relationships. Please feel absolutely free to call me. Currently seeking NSA, FWB. For the purpose of learning how to have fun again and enjoy myself and in the presence of company. To exercise my funny bones and social skills muscles. It is not bad that I have become a quiet, gentle, thinking type of man in the last 6++ years but I miss my spontainious side and mischievious side, my teasing / gesting in fun side! Looking to do some fun dating type activities without the hassles of maintaining a romantic relationship. Want to stress the desire to explore the entire F and B components as much as is possible without becoming emotionally, romantically connected. To you YOUNGER women, KEEP AND OPEN MIND!!! For we are not proposing marriage here! Only some good, clean, healthy, respectful FUN!!! And under this understanding the age gap becomes much less of a hinderance and can in fact become a bonus in some situations! Health and wisdom be with you. Take care. Happy |
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