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Blessed or cursed?  

kittyliquor519 58M
772 posts
5/29/2015 9:47 pm
Blessed or cursed?


I am quite certain I am not alone in this regard.

Whether it be your ability to handle money, build a house, organize a warehouse, drive a car, paint something beautiful, speak to the masses and be heard or whatever it is... do you ever feel like despite your exceptional abilities you feel it's a futile effort?

You don't have to think much about it, you just do it and you can see the common sense behind your methods Yet others try to assist and just make any situation worse They cannot seem to understand the proper way to do something with which you are involved or worse yet, they just do what they think is right and simply don't care that they haven't a clue and ultimately make MORE work for you!

Without being rude about it you make specific adjustments to what they're doing...right in front of them... and yet, they're blind. Is it really worth it to have the little bit of extra help...to have to clean up behind them when they're gone?

I don't know, maybe I'm just being a little bitch about it.....

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/30/2015 2:10 am

You handle things differently than I do ... A quick conversation discussing the 'merits' of the current system would take place post hast. If they want to make suggestions or have ideas for changes, great. But until then & if not ... please follow the current systems as instructed. Touching things twice or tasks done incorrectly are counterproductive and not cost effective. Great, thanks for your cooperation and team work.

Channeling my inner Samuel Jackson demeanor during this conversation.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 replies on 5/30/2015 6:17 am:
@ your inner Samuel Jackson...I hear that!!

Unfortunately there is no set procedure so when extra help shows up I have no choice

CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/30/2015 7:05 am

No written procedures ... OK, not to worry.

Who trained him so he's aware of the correct procedure. If he continues to make these mistakes ... ask him if he would like some more training and if he thinks he understands the procedures. Show him specifically what he is doing wrong.

Are the issues coming from being young and not really paying attention or arrogance from someone who feels he knows everything ? The latter is harder to deal with. That's when your inner Samuel needs to surface.

I want my maybe internet husband to be happy and stress free.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 replies on 5/30/2015 11:27 am:
You've taken this far beyond where it actually is if that makes any sense LOL!

We're just a small distributor and there is not training or anything like that. The one guy who was helping is the sales guy from the L.A. area. Ultimately it was really no big deal. I was surprised when I came in today to find he had moved all the stuff that was piled in front of my work bench, so that was a bonus

Happy and stress free? Join me in the lagoon for a swim and then we can feed each other the tropical fruit I brought out earlier /:> Then maybe a niiiccccccce loooonnnnnnggggggggg game of chess

CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/30/2015 11:41 am

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    No written procedures ... OK, not to worry.

    Who trained him so he's aware of the correct procedure. If he continues to make these mistakes ... ask him if he would like some more training and if he thinks he understands the procedures. Show him specifically what he is doing wrong.

    Are the issues coming from being young and not really paying attention or arrogance from someone who feels he knows everything ? The latter is harder to deal with. That's when your inner Samuel needs to surface.

    I want my maybe internet husband to be happy and stress free.
kittyliquor519 replies on 5/30/2015 11:27 am:
You've taken this far beyond where it actually is if that makes any sense LOL!

We're just a small distributor and there is not training or anything like that. The one guy who was helping is the sales guy from the L.A. area. Ultimately it was really no big deal. I was surprised when I came in today to find he had moved all the stuff that was piled in front of my work bench, so that was a bonus

Happy and stress free? Join me in the lagoon for a swim and then we can feed each other the tropical fruit I brought out earlier Then maybe a niiiccccccce loooonnnnnnggggggggg game of chess

Ahhh ... you left out the most important part of the story ~ he's from LA Now it makes perfect sense why you may be having problems

You want to play chess on our internet honeymoon [runs off crying & whining about calling my Daddy ]


Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/30/2015 7:15 pm

Staring into the distance as you're running away I'm mumbling something about forgetting to mention it was strip chess with a 2 seconds per turn limit....

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/30/2015 8:09 pm

[sniffling] What ? You want to play strip chess ... OK, set up the board please. I'm ready. [Big smile]

This internet husband thing could have some real perks !

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 replies on 5/30/2015 8:46 pm:
Okay!! The board is set up, you get to make the first move

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