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Understanding Emotion. A Poem
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Understanding Emotion. A Poem I need to understand divorce. Not as in marriage. But in emotions. Men can do it so easily. They can separate, Sex from Love. I have a very hard time Doing this myself. I need to realize Most men are just Selfish assholes. I see the best in them Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde Was there ever a better analogy For what happens when a man Gets what he wants? The pretense is gone. The divorce final Not that there was any commitment To begin with. Now they don't even need to pretend. Subject- object emotion verb. Me him love sex divorce. Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely |
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Just a little bitter. Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely
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Very to the point, You a bit harsh on the guy, you think?? Good read, I enjoy all of them.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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another playing the victim---women are easy to understand?? I will take it for what it is---letters on a screen
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There ars so many words I could offer. They are not mine, but someone that I think understands some things. Maybe sometime I could direct you to some things that might help. Emotions do have purpose though. Maybe you will find things in this words, see if they apply... One of my favorites though: Debbie "Tough" Love October 15, 2012 · Your partner's actions aren't a reflection on YOU, no matter how bad they may be. It's what you do AFTER them that defines you. Debbie "Tough" Love July 19, 2012 · If you've defined 'success' incorrectly - when you get it, you'll be miserable and won't know why. Debbie "Tough" Love July 21, 2012 · CARE. It's inconvenient. It's work. You'll get hurt. But passion is the difference between 'still breathing' & being ALIVE. Debbie "Tough" Love July 23, 2012 · If your life keeps filling up with people who don't love you enough - it's probably because YOU don't. Debbie "Tough" Love July 24, 2012 · When you love someone, it's easy to forgive them their little flaws & failings... including yourself. Debbie "Tough" Love July 25, 2012 · You're not responsible for other people's choices OR feelings - only your own. Debbie "Tough" Love August 3, 2012 · Most people swing between being passive & being aggressive. Learning to be ASSERTIVE may be the best thing you ever do. Debbie "Tough" Love August 9, 2012 · Be YOU. Shine. You'll be amazed at how something so simple can achieve SO much. Debbie "Tough" Love August 10, 2012 · You don't have to be gorgeous, famous or rich, in order to be attractive. Attitude is everything. Debbie "Tough" Love August 13, 2012 · Avoiding a problem doesn't make it go away... it just leaves you vulnerable to how big it gets while you're ignoring it. Debbie "Tough" Love August 14, 2012 · You can tell a LOT about a person by who they're friends with... that goes for you too. Debbie "Tough" Love September 21, 2012 · You can always tell how much someone has been using you, by how much fuss they make when you stop letting them. Debbie "Tough" Love October 2, 2012 · Expecting a person to change into what you want, is like expecting an oak tree to become a daffodil. It isn't going to happen. Debbie "Tough" Love October 8, 2012 · Blaming others is the cruelest thing you can do to yourself. It steals your power along with the responsibility. Debbie "Tough" Love October 12, 2012 · NEVER let people get away with bullying. They may be cowards, but their words & deeds can be dangerous. Debbie "Tough" Love December 11, 2012 · Invest in the people who matter and let go of the ones who do not. There are only so many hours in a day - spend them wisely. Debbie "Tough" Love April 20, 2013 · Sometimes what you really need is more SKILLS - NOT PILLS. Debbie "Tough" Love August 13, 2013 · Sometimes, the only way to win is to simply not participate.
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I think you underestimate the male capacity for love, at least in the sense of brain chemistry. I am sure that there are many men who could write the same words from their perspective about a woman who did them wrong. Love is chemistry. If the chemicals in your brain are firing at the same time as the chemicals in your partners brain, you have what everyone calls a soulmate. But then someones chemicals start firing less and less and then the relationship devolves from chemical induced mental illness to the reality of a partnership. This is where the trouble begins. As for sex without love, well sure. Men are wired to impregnate every female they see. That is the caveman brain. I hope and I pray for a Hester to win just one more "A", the sadder but wiser girl for me.
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Very to the point, You a bit harsh on the guy, you think?? Good read, I enjoy all of them.. Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely
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another playing the victim---women are easy to understand?? I will take it for what it is---letters on a screen Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely
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