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Will we ever grow as women ???
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Will we ever grow as women ??? I have silently watched blog wars go on for years in the blogs. While I have always disliked the list because it has caused so much competition and distention within the community, it is nothing new, it has existed from day one of the top bloggers list. I am saddened to read all the bickering, bs and drama that is thrown back and forth between some of the female bloggers over a spot on a list of a sex site. The male bloggers do not seem to behave in this manner. That is not to say some men don not<b> insert </font></b>themselves in other ways or female bloggers do not<b> insert </font></b>them into the drama, bickering and bs. Ladies collectively we need to do better by supporting and uplifting, not tearing each other down. We do not all need to be best friends but we need to coexist in better harmony that is not so childish or destructive. Be the bigger woman and become accountable for your own behaviors and actions. Make positive not negative changes in the space around you. Is drama over a spot on a list on a sex site really worth that much to you ??? I hope not but history seems to continue repeating in FriendFinder-x blogland by female bloggers. Will we ever grow as woman ???  Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!! |
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I've blogged for years, and have heard of this type of insecure drama for years as well. I tend not read nor look at any of the top bloggers as the posts are generally shallow and trite. As long as human beings have deep insecurities, and the need for validation, this type of behavior will always exist... and thus... it WILL always exist... sadly. I've recently decided to stop blogging as blogland is not what it once was. It's not even close. So many great bloggers/writers of depth & soul are gone, and hence... I too will be gone. We've been here for a long time, I think your presence precedes mine, and while it's clear that our views on many things and our writings differ considerably, it also seems clear to me that you have always been a gentleman, always respectful and considerate of others. You are highly respected hereabouts and you have a significant following. particularly among the ladies. This place will be poorer for your departure. Doffing my cap, and wishing you well sir.
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~something sexy~ McMe, your wish is my command........   The list has always been a blight here. It is too easily manipulated by strange people who seem to think that validation can be derived from being at or near the top of a popularity list on a dodgy shag site. Whether it's points, pic's, fake-profile comments, drama, or flashing yer saggy arse, the insanity prevails.........and woe betide you if you dare to point it out, or worse, make fun of it!!! I do take the piss out of it, and woe is indeed upon me.....ahem.....but it saddens me that so many decent people (eg McBoy) are caught up in the cross fire and choose to take themselves out of it. As long as there's any sort of ranking it will never change, irrespective of how they 'improve' it. Anyways, aye, please do stick around for a bit and keep us all in line?? 
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I've blogged for years, and have heard of this type of insecure drama for years as well. I tend not read nor look at any of the top bloggers as the posts are generally shallow and trite. As long as human beings have deep insecurities, and the need for validation, this type of behavior will always exist... and thus... it WILL always exist... sadly. I've recently decided to stop blogging as blogland is not what it once was. It's not even close. So many great bloggers/writers of depth & soul are gone, and hence... I too will be gone. Thoughts from the Garden...
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 Mc Me!!!! Is this a return to posting for you? Now that would be good!!!!  I think we should start a fight about who started the fight.......that's surely going to shake up the list.......much better to do that than what they've proposed recently, no?
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Oh yes,well think the site is set up for disagreement,why is there a blog list in first place,why is there a combined male and female list,then just a male list? I
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strongly agree (mostly)! " This is a *people* issue, not just a "women" issue." agree even more. when we accept the fact that we are no better than anyone else. when we can see we are no less than anyone else. when we understand that we are our brothers keepers then we will not have the need to build ourselves up by walking on others bonne vie there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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.....and i think you have succeeded , this is a deeper convo. Love to hear other thoughts~
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9/4/2021 2:30 pm |
Good post!!! I hope people make a bigger effort
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......i second what La says....we need to grow as humans first. When we look at the world today, although its calmed a bit in recent months, mans inhumanity to man is at an all time high. Although men dont bicker in the same manner...they are contributing factors. This goes deeper than the list...far deeper. Its akin to middle school females..the discord...is all and always over the affections of the male species. Both sides always have their individual supporters....and contributors. The key players are invested in keeping it going and that to me smacks as an ....attention getting mechanism. For whatever reasons the dissension is satisfying that need~~ ....ive always said we need to be straightening each others crowns, not knocking em off...
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Perfectly said, nothing to add !!!! Amen = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = Love doesn’t discriminate, nor do I  Married or single, you love me & I fall in love with you, you may ask for anything It is not about 88b size it is all about LOVE What is Your position on DP Very young and steel hard is what I desire, but twenties and early thirties will not be refused when love is part of it I love pussies and adore nice dicks
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" Is drama over a spot on a list on a sex site really worth that much to you ??? " And it's not even that great of a sex site to begin with !
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Come on Ladies, I know we can do better Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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