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wd40w 71M
6966 posts
1/10/2018 12:38 pm

Confidence...Is dead sexy...Nothing better...

"Illigitimi Non Carborundum Est" W.F. "Bull" Halsey wd40w


buckersby 54M
203 posts
1/10/2018 12:48 pm

Thanks for sharing your story. Great advice too and something we should all think about.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
1/10/2018 12:49 pm

Hi my love!
I don't like that at all I would never try to control any lady wow. So very not right and to hit is very very wrong sweetheart always. I would be so prod to have other men look what I have with me a very good looking lady with red hair my god I would love that so much.
I will tell you this about made me cry you are so very nice person Joy! I for one would give you all the love you would want!
Butch


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
1/10/2018 12:52 pm

the saddest part,JOY,is that yours is hardly the only story that goes this way,with so few ending up in as good a place in their hearts and heads as you.

woop woop


John324864 75M
1221 posts
1/10/2018 1:23 pm

I still can't under sand why a man won't want other men to look at there Hot lady for I know she's coming home with me. I've alway been proud of the lady I've been with and very pleased when other men look and see she's going home with me and they think "look at that lucky son of a b**h."


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
1/10/2018 2:36 pm

Great post....I too decided I had enough of someone trying to control me, and put an end to it. I finally found the voice I should have had much sooner.

His was not a physical abuse, but mental and verbal....equally destructive.

I know without a doubt that I made the right move, and have not regretted the decision one bit!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
1/10/2018 2:38 pm

I have discovered that one of the sexiest, alluring and eye catching things a woman can do is have a sense of self confidence. I have seen how you have grown into confidence to show or not show your body or who you are. A man should be proud to be seen with a woman like you as it means you want to be with him not because you need to be with him.
A very wonderful post and I hope it may inspire other women to find the means to grow into their true selves no matter how late it may seem.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


COnostrings 51M

1/10/2018 2:57 pm

Looks like you've only gotten better with age!


DavidyDiana1963 61M
11 posts
1/10/2018 3:20 pm

preciosas fotos


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
1/10/2018 4:12 pm

No man should strike a woman, that is rule number one,,,rule two, a woman should not hit me unless she wishes to be hit back. Rule number three, I shall never hit someone until they try of do hit me.
How my woman would dress is her business...I hope she makes me drool like the real pervert I am...other guys looking at her ,,,go home and stroke your cock while thinking about her! I was in a bar after our softball game, our team sponsor, and my gal was at the bar for a good long time talking with some fellow. One of the team mates said to me "hey your gal is being chatted up by some guy" I said "No problem, I trust her and I know she will be leaving with me" actually the said words I think were "I am not worried" end of story on that.
If a woman I was with decided to take off with someone else,,,well OK...see ya! Bye! we can be friends though. If we had an open relationship agreement then we both better honor that agreement.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
1/10/2018 4:12 pm

You are well rid of that bully of an ex


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
1/10/2018 4:17 pm

"This was a hard post to write"- I can imagine.

But it was written very well.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
1/10/2018 4:18 pm

Jealousy and control...My buddy dating a woman whom latter became his wife. They were at some home with a lot of people having fun where his soon to be wife's girl friend lived.. A woman's ex husband of over 4 years walked up to my friend as he was leaving that home alone and the ex threatened my friends life because he had been speaking with his soon to be wife's friend.. That ex-husband was married to another woman and still trying to control whom she could talk to or be involved with.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
1/10/2018 4:19 pm

He acquired what he feared. Losing you. And it was all by his own doing.
They think they are so smart. No man or amount of money is worth losing yourself over. Alone or with someone, good for you being you and your own self. I allow no man to “control” me.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/10/2018 5:05 pm

Oh my!! All sexy pic of you Sexy!!!! I say...Love the one you are with!!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
1/10/2018 6:46 pm

Hi Joy.

thanks for sharing your story...

enJoy your life...

dayIdina Menzel - "Take Me or Leave Me"

Every single day,
I walk down the street
I hear people say 'baby so sweet'
Ever since puberty
Everybody stares at me
Boys girls I can't help it baby
So be kind and don't lose your mind
Just remember that I'm your baby
Take me for what I am
Who I was meant to be
And if you give a damn
Take me baby
Or leave me
Take me or leave me
A tiger in a cage
Can never see the sun
This diva needs her stage baby
Lets have fun
You are the one I choose
Folks will kill to fill your shoes
You love the lime light to now baby
So be mine but don't waste my time
Cryin' 'honey bear are you still my, my, my baby?'
Take me for what I am
Who I was meant to be
And if you give a damn
Take me baby or leave me
No way, can I be what I'm not
But hey, don't you want your girl hot?
Oh, don't…

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Good luck!!!


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
1/10/2018 10:21 pm

Thanks for sharing my friend. No woman should ever have to endure verbal or physical abuse.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
1/11/2018 2:48 am

Very well written post. Thanks for sharing.


CNYMale4Fun 63M

1/11/2018 12:43 pm

So glad you walked away from him. He wasn't deserving of you and happy that you are happier now. There's only so much that we can take before it's time to leave. Good on you!


MulleenofMelb 58M
3024 posts
1/11/2018 7:55 pm

a story of a life lead
some tragedy it is said
and yet much joy is writ
from relationship rotten quit
and now beyond your own self
found and nurtured and stronger grown

Thoughts in sensual pleasure to erotic writing writ.

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