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Hello Joy They should be respectful and I done understand that! No means NO! Butch
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Odd indeed. The whole ethos of the swinger thing is built on mutual respect, so no should always mean no. Mind you, there are a lot of fruitcakes out there!
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You say "Yes", I say "No". You say "Stop" and I say "Go, go, go". Oh no. You say "Goodbye" and I say "Hello, hello, hello".… ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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You nailed this one my friend and I to get that a lot when they find out I am married, they say things like he doesn't have to know, or you don't have to tell him I mean seriously what does Happily Married mean now a days.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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So hey...you wanna go out sometime? Just kidding...Hahaha, sorry couldn't resist. You hit the nail on the head with it being both sexes. While I was married I traveled a lot with work. I'd tell women, sorry I'm married. It rarely stopped them from continuing to try. I try not to judge others for what they choose to do in their lives or relationships. But at least be respectful, it's not that hard. I can see how it would get old really fast for you. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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The concern for me is not so much how women react to him, it is how he reacts to them. Hot men abound and women will flirt, try to sway him, etc. It is up to him to assure his woman he is true. Temptation is rampant today with the internet. I prefer no relationship as to one I have to question and be concerned over. I do think this site and others are not all that healthy for couples. My ideal man.......computer illiterate.
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9/18/2018 2:35 pm |
Great pics. Why can't people understand that no means no? "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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mmmm...very interesting post. I may have fooled around and fell in love. But she does not want to get involved with me because I have a girlfriend. Oh Well
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Your right there. I too have this on my profile . Not meeting found the one. They seem just not read it. I guess there is a game they want to play to see if they can get your partner and take no for an answer. Great post right on hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I am assuming you are speaking of your "significant other". He can always set up his profile so he doesn't receive messages from other women. You're spending too much time and energy concerning yourself with the actions of others, who you cannot control. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Hi Joy. I hear what you are saying... people can always be blocked from unwanted messages... have a great week!!! hmm...  To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Women want what they want, it is as simple as that. And most dont let anything stop them once they have found a guy they truely desire. The WHY can only be answered by the individual woman however, if even they can answer WHY. I have been married 3 times, have lived with 5 other women for over a year as well. ALL wanted ME, only my 2nd wife could ever gave me an answer as to WHY that I could accept as sincere. All 8 women, plus a few more that I had long term relationships with, swore they LOVED me however. And now, a new one is saying the same thing. Now this one I can understand tho, and I think she is sincere. I am the 1st male, and practically the 1st person, who has accepted her for whom she is, that doesnt try to change her, that doesnt try to tell her she worthless and not needed in the world. Even her own children treat her that way, as is being shown to me more & more each day. Her past hubby treats her terrible, but he is still in her life nonetheless. Her longtime BF is still around too, and shows up now & then to try and tear her down as much as he can. She is truely afraid of him, but wont say why, yet. But, she had 5 children with her husband, and each is about 2 years apart in age, so obviously they felt something for each other at one time, that must have been more than an abusive relationship, right? Maybe, I just dont know. But in me, it bothers me that she is attracted to me so strongly because I DONT abuse her !!! That shouldnt be the basis for love, but in her mind it appears to be just that. I dont know if I love her, and am not sure I ever will be sure, but I am willing to be as close a friend as I can be in the meantime. In the case of the previous women in my life, I know my 2nd wife truely loved me and I loved her too. My 1st wife, yes I loved her, but I dont think she loved me. My 3rd wife, I think she settled, and sadly, I think I did too, but still I loved her as long as she let me. The 5 that I lived with, well one I am sure I loved, but we just couldnt find a way to admit it when we needed to. Another I would have gladly settled for as a wife, but she would NOT marry me, and after a very longtime, I couldnt continue as we were. Another was basically a FWBs that wanted me to live with her, urged me to move across country to be with her, but then once she had me, lost that attraction. Another wanted somoeone, almost anyone, to be close to her, and I agreed, but over time I knew it could not be permanent. And one, who is still a great friend, tho across the country from me, wanted me at 1st, but over time, I turned out not to be what she was seeking in a mate, nor was she that person for me either, and so we both moved on. I have always asked each one that I got close to WHY, and some answered, some didnt, but only my 2nd wife gave me an answer I believed. So, WHY do you gals desire particular men, whether they are available to you, or not? Why do married women seek out men NOT their husbands, when they dont have any intention of leaving their hubby or becoming a permanent person in the OTHER MAN'S LIFE? I do not have the answer, but I do know many married women have sought me out over the years, and I KNOW I am not anything special.
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It's not just women that behave this way, guys I believe are much worse and have less manners about it. Imagine finding a couple that are decent human beings AND are open to including others into their relationship and yet those guys and gals are rudely assuming that what you are here for is just another reason for a wet spot on the sheets..... its disappointing that so many are so selfish and reckless to ruin the joy of finding friends The Hubby
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9/19/2018 6:40 am |
When I find a profile here that interests me, it has to fit my parameters for physical, personality, and location. Now and then I find one that meets all 3, only to see "married" or "in a relationship" and all my interest disappears. I'm not looking to be anybody's side order.
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Try as they might, if I'm with a certain woman, I'm all in. The store is closed.  Thoughts from the Garden...
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I know a couple of married women that make my heart flutter, when I am around them I keep that under wraps and pay no more attention to them than anyone else. I guess I must not be a worth while steal,,no woman has tried to steal me when I have been in a relationship. Oh Well..that is the breaks, some have it and I am one that don't. I can live with that. Acceptance is contentment.  Ya know, some people enjoy knowing that other's want what they have.
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