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Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/9/2018 4:18 am

I've "dated" multiple women at the same time. In high school and college it was just the norm. You dated different people, until you found someone you clicked with, or "fell in love" with. Then you became exclusive.

I don't date as much as I used to. Family and work keeps me pretty busy. I'd say just be honest and upfront, and go on both dates. Hard to decide which one you'd get along with better, just by messaging each other.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Prof10001 63M
4094 posts
11/9/2018 4:43 am

You do bounce back with gusto.

Prof10001
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Daytimer09B 55M
901 posts
11/9/2018 5:33 am

There's an old flame burning in my mind... (Alabama - Great song)

Sounds like you are really in high demand. Must feel good to know that you have that many people interested in you. Enjoy the ride!


mc_justmc 63M

11/9/2018 5:37 am

When I 1st became single I had 6 fWB orb fb, I called them my Harem, if one dropped off, I added a new one. One night I went out and my date cancelled. I was home around 8:30 and found my oldest grand daughter already in bed. She'd been crying. She said her Dad made them go to bed at 7 every night I went out instead of 9, which was their normal bed time. I quit going out on nights they were home. Cut my harem down to 3. Now I'm at 0.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
11/9/2018 5:38 am

Hello Beautiful!
Yes I have dated two people at the same time and had sex with both of them. Now I am down to one that I like very much. Old high school flame she is very nice. She has a very wild side witch is awesome!
I would say go for it till you find someone that you really like to have fun with!
Butch


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
11/9/2018 6:33 am

Dinner with Grade 10 first to see how you both have matured. The drummer will wait a couple of lunches if it's meant to be

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MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
11/9/2018 6:42 am

Two at a time? I struggle to date one at a time.

Good luck with which ever option(s) you choose.

Baffies

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
11/9/2018 7:22 am

Lots of choices her Joy. Take your time. I think the photo shot just might take your mind off everything. It might be fun too hugs V

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scott6250 61M

11/9/2018 8:42 am

I only date one person at a time, but to each their own. it's a personal choice and I don't judge. Happy Friday.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/9/2018 9:42 am

Joy, I hope you have great luck with your old flame. Has been my past tho that old flames, old lovers, old GFs, all have moved on or that you moved on for a reason, good at the time, and most likely hasnt changed much.
That said, my 2nd wife was someone I met before I proposed to my 1st wife, lol, wasnt sure I liked her much at the time, she was pretty sour due to her own issues at the time, but we became friends anyway. I got married, she got married, I got divorced, she got divorced, and we met up again, and well, we enjoyed 7 years of bliss before she died. If I had only known better when I met her the 1st time.
But, she was not your average GF, lover, wife either.
I have tried to rekindle old flames both before & since, thinking things from the past would no longer apply, but to no avail, in fact, in most cases the reasons we split were even more obvious. I have one I would marry in a heartbeat, but she is wiser than I am and refuses to be more than friends now. So, hoping I havnt thrown water on your old flame desire, my best advice is go slowly & carefully, dont rush in because you are on the rebound now, and very vunerable indeed!


Dtts43rt35 65M
15090 posts
11/9/2018 1:44 pm

I always try to date one at a time, because I think it's more correct and makes more sense in life!

Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!


Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
11/9/2018 1:57 pm

When it rains it pours huh? Last "date" I had was over five years ago. You must tell me your secret.


CNYMale4Fun 63M

11/9/2018 5:05 pm

I have dated more than one person at a time several times. In those cases all parties knew that not only were we not exclusive but I was actively dating another person. Honesty is always best.

P.S. I don't think that either of those Guys contacting you was a coincidence. Both knew somehow that your most recent relationship had ended...


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/9/2018 6:37 pm

Hi Joy.

thanks for taking me further with this one...

back in the game, so to speak... never out for too long anyway...

always good to enJOY life...

yes... I have dated multiple women at the same time... and, I think that that is ok... I believe that we all have something good to offer... I don't think I'm special... although I am pretty rare at only 1 in 3.75 Billion males on the planet... there are more ants, grains of sand, beads of sweat (i can go on and on)... then me...

but, here's the thing... I like myself as a person... and, I want to be around women who like themselves... and, who am I to deprive a lover of a first with me... followed by more firsts...

I am just a simple "easy going" man...

and, that's all I've got to say about that...

Aerosmith - "Back in the Saddle"

I'm back
I'm back in the saddle again
I'm back
I'm back in the saddle again
Ridin' into town alone by the light of the moon
I'm lookin' for old Sukie Jones, she crazy horse saloon
Barkeep gimme a drink, that's when she caught my eye
She turned to give me a wink, that'd make a grown man cry
I'm back in the saddle again
I'm back
I'm back in the saddle again
I'm back
Come easy, go easy, all right until the rising sun
I'm calling all the shots tonight, I'm like a loaded gun
Peelin' off my boots and chaps, I'm saddle sore
Four bits gets you time in the racks, I scream for more
Fools' gold out of their mines, the girls are soaking wet
No tongue's drier than mine, I'll come when I get back
I'm back in the saddle again
I'm back…

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SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
11/11/2018 2:19 pm

It's definitely nice to have options for an enjoyable evening out.

I hope you had a good time, no matter which option you choose.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
11/11/2018 8:21 pm

I was on Linkedin but deleted it because I got messages about hacking!


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