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Apollo602021 63M

7/13/2021 11:30 am

I have one or two local ex lady lovers that I had fun with before I met my wife that now are available after the covid sex drought in California that would be fun to meet up with again!

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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
7/13/2021 11:33 am

That's nice you found someone this site and had sexual relations. It's also nice that you have the option to go back, or not and move forward. Sex is fun even if it is one and done.


Weeload2 60M
1104 posts
7/13/2021 12:01 pm

They kicked ya to the curb once for someone else then after that doesn't work out for them they come crawling back. Then the process repeats itself and when they find someone else AGAIN.. yo been used twice
Been down that road before.... Nope, dana, never again for me. I am not a puppet thrown in a corner to be played whenever they want to play

~Wee~


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normalisokaytoo 54M
68 posts
7/13/2021 12:13 pm

Fascinating topic.

In answer to your inquiry, yes... twice have ladies re-approached me ( through personal emails, understand ) to try again. I almost married one of them. The other, while really fun to be with in and out of the bedroom, was and remains completely insane.

I like a little bit of crazy ( as I am in that category ) but some folks...whew!

Anyway, your post got me to thinking. Is it okay to have a relationship that is purely sexual? No real friendship, no casual conversation, no questions about one's past, dreams of the future, just show-up-get-in-get-out-same-time-next-week?

As an over-educated, middle-aged male in the 21st century I'd prefer to say no. But honestly... that might be ideal : )

In your scenario, 5 years is a long time to have been a ghost. Dunno if I would respond any differently than you intend to.

Best,

Normal

" Her smile had in it something of the intoxication of parched earth after a sudden and furious downpour " -- Henry Miller The Colossus of Maroussi. I sure wish I could write like that!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/13/2021 12:14 pm

I've only met, way back when I was single, one woman on this site that ended up with sex. She's not contacted me since and I've not contacted her. It's probably best left that way given the time elapsed; it would be very difficult to continue where we left off.


LordMandrakeJB 68M
666 posts
7/13/2021 12:57 pm

Been there, never fun. Ghosted and then years later come back. Best one: Met in 2003, a few hot times, ghosted in 2004, popped back up 2019 saying it was the best and wanted to start over again. 15 years? fergitaboutit.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
7/13/2021 1:13 pm

Hi Joy!
I have one ex lover here that I am still friends with the other 3 have just gone away.
Butch


AdventurousGuy07 59M
672 posts
7/13/2021 2:07 pm

"Sex with an Ex lover on this site, reminds one of why they are an Ex lover, in the first place"

I've had an ex reach out (not from this site) but I politely declined... as they say, ex for a reason

The timing is interesting since if he does read your blog he would know your about to meet someone

A nice sexy lady always has new options ...


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/13/2021 2:52 pm

I've only had two exs from this site get back in to contact, and for both it was a BIG NO as far as starting up with either of them again. (There is a reason they were exs!)

But any of the others - heck yeah, I'd take another round.

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BiSussi 63F
1405 posts
7/13/2021 3:33 pm

It does happen quit frequently, just the other week I had an Ex visit from the SFO area His marriage doesn’t work well for some time, his wife neglects him totally. What matters is the reason why they become an EX in the first place, isn’t it? In my case, It is mostly when they want a partner for life, when they want wife and kids, and when it does not work out, they reach out for help

I prefer younger men, so to reconnect romantically with an Ex is most of the time not possible, because of the age. Without doubt, I always have an open ear for them and I am a good listener


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naughtynate77 46M
680 posts
7/13/2021 3:57 pm

Normally, when I close a door, it stays closed. I make sure it is locked, boarded up, and throw away the key. Then I typically burn down the building the door belongs to. With most 'past' lovers, there is a reason they aren't current. To get back with them would be like fishing a turd out of the toilet and trying to put it back in my butt. No thanks.

That being said, there have been times when a situation has popped up that I have taken up on. Those are cases where there was never any kind of commitment and it wasn't a big deal that we didn't stay in close contact, but another round would always be welcomed.


desiresexnow2015 64F
7 posts
7/13/2021 4:42 pm

The only people I would never have sex with again are my exhusbands and the guy who ended up stalking me. Sex can be great with a former lover especially since I have gotten better with age.

Just Me


Clammaster67 36M  
3 posts
7/13/2021 5:48 pm

I have found an ex lover on here. It was very exciting when I found her and I couldn't believe i found her again. We reconnected on here and then reconnected outside as well and it was wonderful.


Joog8inc 52M

7/13/2021 6:19 pm

past is rthe past i believe


Pegsarefun 46M

7/13/2021 6:27 pm

The disappearing act happens for many reasons.
I have kept in contact with some of my former lovers through friendship and others I have been happy to just wish them well as we part ways.

The now friends, while they might sometimes fill the fantasy bank from time to time, I wouldn't want to jeopardize the friendship by trying to re-live the passed sessions.

The other ones well I don't want to stir a hornets nest and i am happy to live with the memories i have. It'll never be the same as we are always changing.

Plus one of my former partners was 38 when we met, and i was a ripe 20 yr old. Seven years that FWB lasted..... I know i have changed a lot since then...27 to 43. I'm happy to live with all the sexy memories.


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
7/13/2021 6:58 pm

its calling my name lol no lovers from this site at all a couple of near misses but that's it . Have had site friends that disappeared and showed buck up but they are like ships passing in the night

relooked at the pictures before hitting the post button... Damn girl you thrill me honest you do


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
7/13/2021 7:15 pm

i believe in recycling
paper
plastic
metal, and such
but when it cums to lovers
not so much

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
7/13/2021 7:38 pm

I’ve never had a lover from this site my friend. I had a lover from a different site years ago.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


wolfmartins27 42M

7/13/2021 9:59 pm

is very sexy your profile i want u much baby


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
7/14/2021 12:13 am

I've had an ex lover or two contact me wanting to get back together and my response is Nope! When I'm done, I'm done.
There is one that might change my mind. He got transferred before we were ready to be parted.
I am friends with ex lovers even when I tell them no. I'm not mean enough I guess


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
7/14/2021 6:08 am

never had an ex lover form here, only met one person who immediately wanted a room, have chatted with many, but never meet, have lost a chat buddy because being concern about her health was an invasion of privacy, and did have a stalker that i never met that wanted money so she could return home from Europe to the US


luv2suk1966 63M/57F
1927 posts
7/14/2021 6:37 am

Happens. All. The. Time. LOL!!
I had a fling with someone quite a bit older than me maybe 20 years ago. He was a HOT 50 something, going through a divorce. We both moved on. I am FB friends with his daughter. She says that Dad moved to Florida and lost my number, could he have it again? I gave it to her, thought it would be nice to catch up, just talk. Now he won't stop messaging me. He's 70 and is still the biggest pervert. He's begging for pics and won't stop talking dirty, and very detailed. He's blocked.

Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
7/14/2021 9:37 am

Guess I might want to know what happened. Better fish in the pond? Or was it life, work, parental care issues? I know I have lost phone numbers when my phone crashed, but then if they never call, did you mean that much to them?


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
7/14/2021 12:56 pm

I suppose it all depends why it broke up in the first place over hear there is show where exe's meet and have dinner, one couple the woman broke it off because she wanted to explore her bi side, the guy said why didn't she tell him and said he was ok with that and so they got back together. xoxo


CasualinOneonta 52M

7/14/2021 1:28 pm

Love hearing your stories, and the pics are incredible. Thanks!


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