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mrv1001 61M
638 posts
7/22/2021 11:03 am

You definitely must be careful on first time meets cause you might end up with a situation like you had.


peladodel56 67M
10340 posts
7/22/2021 11:22 am

Cualquier vestido que te pongas lo lucirás de manera sexy. Buena suerte y feliz fin de semana !!! >

Y mi envidia al señor... amp;


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/22/2021 11:23 am

I don't have any real HORROR stories, though of course not ALL of them worked out - but a surprising number did!

I prefer to remember the good ones - like the ones where our first meeting place was in a motel room. Or the oneS where is was nekkid in the motel room when she arrived for our first date. YES, that's a plural there - three times ( so far )

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CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/22/2021 11:27 am

The four dresses look pretty similar to me, and it's hard to go wrong with a LBD.

Around here the fashion is sundress and cowgirl boots.

Commando is a nice bet, well unless you'd prefer to remove the panties and toss them in his face to signal "game on" (as happened to me once.)

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globugg48 63F
5 posts
7/22/2021 11:53 am

I agree with first time meeting a guy I want it in public. I have always felt safer that way. What I can not stand are men who ghost even before we meet. If we have chatted for a few weeks and arrange to meet and you have a change of mind just be honest.


Dogalways 54M
88 posts
7/22/2021 12:04 pm

It's a shame some give on-line meeting such a bad name. Glad your ok. As a single guy, meeting folks on-line has never been easy, but it's only recently turned ugly. I like to think I'm friendly, and can deal with most peoples wants, desires, and "situations." IF everyone is up-front about it. About a year back, I chatted with what I thought was a "couple" on this site, for about a month. We agreed to meet publicly at a bar, have a drink, and see if there was any chemistry. I've done this before and most times it's turned out ok. A few times have lead to sex and other times there was no chemistry, but nobody went away feeling bad about it. Many times just a single guy shows up with a story why she didn't come, or the all too popular no-show.

This time an unwashed, unshaved guy showed, and almost instantly was asking me to go somewhere and blow him. That's Not going to happen. So I paid my tab and left. That evening I got mail from him on this site. Someone else had taken photos of us meeting, my car, ect with a demand for sex and money or he was going to "out" me. I laughed and thought "to who?"

I contacted this site, they were VERY helpful. I also contacted the local Police and it turns out I wasn't the only one this guy had done/tried this with. Two of the photos showed his face clearly. The Police had me agree to meet him again on-line, agree to his "terms." We were to meet at the same bar. Instead of having me meet him the Police were waiting for him. His "photographer" did get away briefly but he quickly flipped on her. (His wife.) I never had to even file charges because it was an internet crime and the Police/DA had all the evidence they needed from this site, and their seized computer.

Almost everyone I know that has met people on-line has a horror story, but these two were more than creepy. I did change my screen name soon after though.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
7/22/2021 12:09 pm

I hope it is the start of a fun, new adventure for you both, Joy.


madlover72nl21rm 52M

7/22/2021 1:42 pm

I have had quite a few dates through FriendFinder-x over the years, but luckily no first meet/date horror stories, other than perhaps one girl that I met was almost bold. I met her next day in a coffee shop after we chatted almost all night long. We had a really nice chat, she send me a photo where she looked quite okay, until...I met her.And again, she was nice, but she didn't attract me. It's quite innocent. I just read about a court case in the Netherlands about 2 men/1 woman who robbed a guy on a date (not the first date). So, these are the horrors that men and women can face, being robbed or molested/ . I luckily never experience it, but still...have to be cautious.

Where do you live? Probably not in the Netherlands. Otherwise , I'd love to be your date and I'd make sure you'd had a great time. Nice dress, nice ass. Enjoy your date!


AdventurousGuy07 59M
672 posts
7/22/2021 1:56 pm

No horror stories for me Joy... Have fun tomorrow...


notsure1949 74M
10657 posts
7/22/2021 3:34 pm

i only met one person from FriendFinder-x, we chatted, then met at a Starbucks in a large shopping center area, had a conversation over drinks, she liked what she saw in the photos, then she immediately asked for a room so she could do more, we said our goodbyes and chatted a few times after that, nothing ever happened after the meeting


naughtynate77 46M
680 posts
7/22/2021 4:13 pm

I have had mostly pleasant experiences regarding meetups with people from the site. I have had a few disappointing experiences, where I followed through with the getting busy but knew before it even started that this would be the only time I met with this person. There was one time where the woman lived in a total dump and you could hear vermin scurrying around in all the clutter.


1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
7/22/2021 7:02 pm

I agree you know real soon if you have a mutual interest and compatible. Best wishes for you tomorrow.


Apollo602021 63M

7/22/2021 8:20 pm

I have been married for 15 years with the same woman and happily have no horror stories to report, sexy!

Please become an Apollo602021 blog follower!


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
7/22/2021 9:21 pm

hope things work out the way you want them to tommorrow


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
7/23/2021 12:14 am

I'm so excited for you to finally meet Mr Local! You have waited long enough for sure
Good for you to knee the guy in the balls. He earned that.
You are right that you know quickly. I met a very nice online man that became very pushy once we met face to face for lunch. He shared he had stopped for condoms and massage oils on the way to meet me! I reminded him there would be NO sex. He pouted stating he thought that was a tease. What a moron!
Have fun!! xoxox


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
7/23/2021 1:44 am

With pricks like that about it's a wonder a woman would have the courage to meet anyone, my own horror stories are that the woman looked nothing like her picture or had aged rapidly since it was taken. xoxo


CL_Love 51M/50F
425 posts
7/23/2021 8:47 am

A mixture of horror stories over the years - might be something to blog about in the future. One where he showed up looking significantly older, fatter, balder and WREAKED of cigar smoke. Got in my car at a park to chat...Asked if he could kiss me...I said no. He left and my car smelled for a couple days. Another time which was techniquely the second meet (my husband and I had lunch with him before and I was mildly interested). Agreed to meet and park and make out to just test the chemistry a bit. He picked me up and drove me to a remote area (this was early in my hot wife days and I should have known better - this was VERY stupid). We crawled in the back seat...I thought this was just gonna be some kissing and heavy petting, but the next thing I know he is completely naked and tugging at my clothes. Umm...no...I kept pulling my pants back up. It occurred to me at this point that he could me right here and leave me and there was nothing I could do about it. I was pretty scared, but finally decided that I could maybe get out of this with a hand job so I told him I'd let him cum on my tits and he settled for that. He had NO idea how totally frightened I was. No cell signal so hubs texts weren't coming through and he thought I was ignoring him so then he was super mad when I got home. The whole thing was nearly the end of the lifestyle for me. The crazy thing is that a couple weeks later the guy asked when we could get together again and I am like NEVER! He was confused because he had fun and had no idea that I did not. SMH.


seingalt23 59M
5565 posts
7/23/2021 3:07 pm

Up to now no horror stories from my side to tell - only this little disappointment, when it´s so different, seeing each other face to face, and the strong interest I felt online, was totally gone

reality meeting phantasy

By the way: I only want to meet on public places, even if she is inviting me to her home.

Giacomo


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
7/24/2021 7:37 am

I consider myself to be more than lucky in meeting "normal guys" in person.
"Normal" is a matter of one's perspective also.

Here in the States, I grew up in the times of the Hillside Strangler, and of the Night Stalker. Google will tell you all about both.
::shudders::

That said, I've always trusted my instincts on being able to recognize possible predatory behavior in guys. There have been a few times in the past when I met someone, where no one else knew that I was, or where I was going, but I made sure that the meet was in a well lit and fairly busy public place. A 24-hour restaurant close by was my go-to back then, especially if it was a meet in the evening. Luckiest thing was that said hangout was just up the street from the local sheriff's office.

Due to current worldly situations though, I'm not meeting anyone. Messages first, maybe phone calls in the future.

"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Ohneontaperson1 51M
5 posts
7/24/2021 11:54 am

You are so sexy, thank you for the great pics! I really enjoyed them 😘


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
7/24/2021 11:32 pm

Wonder what part of just meeting got lost on him. So when I first got on here years ago my first experience was being contacted by a woman. A very attractive lovely lady. We chatted online for a couple of weeks when she wanted to meet. I suggested meeting at a bar/foodie place. So she sent a picture of herself. Weekend comes up and its time to meet, so I arrive slightly early and wait. I waited for awhile and the hostess asked me if I wanted to walk around and look for her. I did, no luck so I sat back down. I went back for a last trip before I left. I was in the Bar area when I heard my name called. I was stunned in that the Woman calling me didn't look a DAM thing like her picture. She came up to me and I asked her why she looked so different. "Oh thats my room mate, I use her picture" Her room mate was slim, this woman was heavy, very heavy. She offered to buy me drinks to get me drunk, then it would not matter what she looked like. I left with her pegging me to stay.
You just never know what you are going to meet. Even as a guy I still meet in public.


riri40001 63M

7/29/2021 3:07 am

very very nice


peninsula_ 53M
184 posts
8/3/2021 10:39 am

Joy that side photo is amazing, thanks for that.

One place where couples meet that are divorced and mandated by the courts to exchange their kids is a police station. There is usually an area designated and the cameras are rolling and officers walking by and or observing. I know it's extreme but if one was really concerned...

Dogalways that is an amazing story. They were probably successful on numerous victims.

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Barry_Mapole_Inu 55M

8/16/2021 2:07 pm

you that's a damn shame why men have to be assholes and predator's. you know instead of grabbing you and trying to kidnap you... why would he just ask? hey mind a handjob or bj ?or go home and beat off! i dont understand why it has to be this bullshit of doing something drastic ... i don't get it... i go out of my way and out of pocket to meet someone. i have even paid for hotel rooms for people that are feeling energetic to take a trip to see me ... like how sexy is that! of coarse the hotel was in her name so she has a nice safe place to stay with no obligation. And, if she wants me to stay with her i can do. you know as a man we have to take time and process what is it like being a lady. how would we feel if the shoe was on the other foot. im a very tall strong and powerful guy . i never am pushy and careful of what i say or.. i wait for my green lights of acceptance and the first move is always hers.. or else.. she will be gone! in return after she learns im not a threat then the heavens rain down on me with hot yummy sticky sex lol


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