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cheftomas44 54M

9/27/2021 11:02 am

OH I think both can happen together


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
9/27/2021 11:06 am

Being greedy I want both and it also shows that are both beautiful and intelligent. xoxo


benard69 66M/66F  

9/27/2021 11:08 am

Stimulates more than my mind...lol....xoxo


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
9/27/2021 11:23 am

a good writer like you need no picture
they are a bonus
ive written to you i know you enjoy my reply
and ive sent picture to you for you to enjoy.
ild rather be taking picture of you as we make love together one day .


BIigDJ71863 60M
97 posts
9/27/2021 11:26 am

I enjoy both as well as just mental stimulation. Let my imagination run rampant through your thoughts while my hands run circles around your body.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
9/27/2021 11:28 am

Hi Joy!
I like a person who shows her own photos I think that is very erotic!
Butch


Jslite6 66M
21 posts
9/27/2021 11:39 am

Me, I’m a visual guy


Pleasureinc 60M  
2200 posts
9/27/2021 11:43 am

I certainly think there is room for both types of blogs. Since it is your blog, you should do what you like.


HornyStuffer500 64M
9 posts
9/27/2021 11:43 am

OMG, you're so amazingly beautiful and erotic too!! Yep, I'd love to please us both any time!!

As for me, I can say that I love the two together and especially, maybe even more so, when the writer combines them and uses her or his own photos to enhance and complete the story! Although a picture is worth a thousand words, a photo combined with erotic story makes it worth a million or even priceless to the point Christie's couldn't auction it.

Wow, looking again at your photos, I can see how deeply moved you are in your pictures, how amazingly gorgeous your smile, passion, clitty, pussy from front and back, and your beautiful ass are so excited @!@ and honest to us that I'm harder than usual... Oh God yes, I was about to get back to work, but I know I need to relieve myself again... happym;

Take care and please feel free to excite me personally as well as continue your lovely blogging in and out of clothes as you titillate our senses to a greater extent than we might otherwise imagine! XOXOX (Y) >>!


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
9/27/2021 11:54 am

If something is truly erotic, you don't need pictures for the prose to have the desired effect (but most erotica is just dreck). An erotic image, on the other hand, is always stimulating, but what turns on a given observer is a subjective matter.


staci_19702 53T
3767 posts
9/27/2021 12:03 pm

I am a visual person. I like the writing/story that goes along with the pics. I was really good at “dick and Jane” books in grade school.

Have a great day! 💋
Staci


voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
9/27/2021 1:10 pm

i enjoy written erotica featured with visuals ... both heads need to be stimulated ~~~ .. and I must say .. you got my head ~~


scottv69 61M
6791 posts
9/27/2021 1:22 pm

photos make it better.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/27/2021 1:22 pm

Generally the majority of women using their own photos, are no longer visually sexually stimulating, so using internet photos is probably a better idea.

But as far as erotic-blogging goes? I found reading about 15, "All" the erotic story plots , I've seen, begin to repeat , in some way or another, and the reader becomes numb.

It's just like watching horror movies or murder/crime shows, after awhile people just become desensitized.


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
9/27/2021 1:58 pm

oi minha tesao de amiga eu acho que precisa dos dois para dar tesao e ficar de pau molhado querendo te comer, kiss


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
9/27/2021 2:01 pm

I read some lady said stimulate my mind and my body will follow. I think it works the other way too. Stimulation is key in any event.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
9/27/2021 2:33 pm

Yes, photos do help, but a great read does very well too!!


wantcanidoforU 55M
14 posts
9/27/2021 3:14 pm

I think when the pictures enhance the words it's a perfect combination. Just like two bodies intertwined in passion allows for the slightest whispered or spoken word to take the ecstasy over the edge.

You have the perfect combination I believe


CarpeJamie 54M
289 posts
9/27/2021 3:16 pm

You are perfect the way you are. Don't ever change. I think of your artistry with words and visuals as complementary aspects of orgasmic explosions. Just like a wonderful meal in made more satisfying my tantalizing all senses visual presentation, the aromas, the flavours, the feel in your mouth and the heat in your throat as you swallow those tasty morsels. Your blog excites all aspects of the reader/seeer as we process your tantalizing erotica noun verb and adverb and appealing to the male visual cortex concurrently. EnJOYing every moment with you and your thoughts.

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peladodel56 67M
10340 posts
9/27/2021 3:45 pm

Me gustan los textos breves y provocadores que acompañan una imagen erótica y sugestiva.


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
9/27/2021 4:12 pm

There are times where I will write quite a bit and other times where I will write only a line to go with my pics. I always enjoy your posts my sexy friend even if you don’t include a lot of pics. 😘🎸🍀💎🍷

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


naughtynate77 46M
680 posts
9/27/2021 4:57 pm

I think too many people aren't keen on doing much reading while on this site, which would explain why so many females have issues with men on here. I prefer the visuals associated with your (and other bloggers) posts.


synergy7002 56M
20 posts
9/27/2021 5:02 pm

Depends on my mood and what time I have. Some people have much more time to dedicate to writing and taking pictures or spending a good length of time dealing with support like poor you had to. Erotic stories get me, not so much poetry. Any pictures whether personal or internet doesnt matter unless I am meeting someone.


Apollo602021 63M

9/27/2021 5:29 pm

I am stimulated by words but more by pictures because I think men are more visual!

Please become an Apollo602021 blog follower!


1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
9/27/2021 5:45 pm

Joy, I think you have the perfect balance. Keep on doing the way you are.


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
9/27/2021 9:01 pm

When TV first hit the market many said they liked radio better . I used to listen to Mystery theater on the late shift at work the sound effects were amazing . My point is sometimes you don't need pictures and sometimes it adds to the effect . and sometimes you can't move some folks even with a whip and a stick of tnt .


Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
9/27/2021 9:26 pm

I feel that your style is perfect... I always enjoy viewing YOUR erotic photos as I read your blogs. The best part is that you always reply to every person that leaves a comment = )


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
9/27/2021 10:39 pm

I think the men prefer personal pics. I don't blame them a bit. I've never had enough to keep it interesting, LOL.


needluv814 50M  
276 posts
9/28/2021 3:38 am

You aren't a minority, you are one of a kind, and it's a great kind! Do what you do and we will do what we do looking at what you do...xoxox


Suprcuk49 63M
257 posts
9/28/2021 6:48 am

No need to change what you do Ms Joy. Tasteful and Classic. Some fresh photos would be nice. You writing is good and not just fantasy. There are times, you have posted bits of insight when it was needed too.


OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
9/28/2021 7:34 am

Joy,

To me, you are a sexy siren from Greek mythology, attracting men with your words, songs, and incredible photos. But instead of luring men to their deaths in the sea you lure us to your forbidden garden of passionate delights.

You are truly a special lady.


rosellenc2012 49M
3440 posts
9/28/2021 10:06 am

the most important thing when a photo is added to a blog, is choosing correctly the image, and of course, your photos are very nice, and even when you choose a joke, it's a funny joke about the topic you're speaking about, so... don't stop adding photos to your blog, nice girl, PLEEEEEEEASE


agelesssexylegs 80F
1145 posts
9/28/2021 9:12 pm

All men tend to be visual creatures of habit,so if my words are not enough to stimulate their imagination the pictures often do


69techie 54M

9/29/2021 8:31 am

Your sexy mind and body together are the perfect combo. Glad I stumbled upon your blog. Looking forward to your help with my morning wood.


Art4urPleasure 57M

10/3/2021 4:32 pm

I like both at the same time. My mind gets very stimulated with an erotic image or two. I like it even better when her thoughts are put into words that are related to the image posted. I like to post real images of myself (all if my pics are real and of me) but limit the writing as I have found few seem to want to read a long narrative.


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
10/4/2021 6:45 pm

Great post. I say why limited ourselves when or if we can have it both ways

In certain situations for certain bloggers. I understand their need for discretion. But if you can sing I say get on stage and stimulate that microphone Lol


Art4urPleasure 57M

10/5/2021 12:42 pm

I pretty much don't look at blogs or profiles that do not have an image. I really like to attach an image when I respond to someone on FriendFinder-x. I haven't figured out how to attach an image with this comment. Perhaps your could teach me. I don't see any method to attach an image. I love taking images and to share them.


topherific 61M
5209 posts
10/11/2021 8:11 pm

you have such a pretty pussy


scc1965 58M

10/13/2021 4:31 pm

I like both...good writing though can give me wood. If it is mediocre writing.....then picts help.


Longhunter73 76M  
4 posts
10/13/2021 7:07 pm

I like them both.. not nessesarily at same time, but either is great.


GoldenLicker90 34M
33 posts
10/15/2021 12:49 am

A situation, a story, a reminiscence, an emotion in always more erotic then a photo. It brings you in another world, stimulate your fantasies (or discover new fantasies that you never know you wonder)...


BabyBoyOH 57M  
80 posts
10/15/2021 8:31 am

For you ..?? With obviously, that gorgeous ass is heart stopping


TwitchyDick007 62M

10/16/2021 10:45 pm

Both the words and real visuals can boost the experience of taking in eroticism you share. And if you're a real time exhibitionist, you add good tension if your flashing picture show someone seeing you do your thing.


lilabner007 69M
32 posts
10/18/2021 9:34 am

I would never say no to your pics - make my heart race. But....an erotic story well told gets me stiff every time. Pics are just a bonus.


freespirit11501 53M
1542 posts
10/18/2021 11:56 am

Hi Joy, So I've been on this site for several years and have followed many many blogs. Some I found visually appealing because of the sexy photos and others I found equally arousing just from the exquisite use of words. I think RavenGB said it best in one of the comments to this blog, "If something is truly erotic, you don't need pictures for the prose to have the desired effect". For me, there are VERY few bloggers here that have that gift. Where they can paint such a vivid, erotic, heart pumping picture just with their expert use of written word. Honestly, in those cases, the picture they created in my mind is prob more arousing to me than any photo they could attach to the piece. That being said, I certainly don't mind the inclusion of an erotic photo that compliments the piece. I'm just not a fan of a gratuitous ass or tits pic if it doesn't add anything to the story that was just told. To me, that seems less creative and more for attention or maybe even to distract from the shortcomings of the writing. So to answer your question, yes, I can thoroughly enjoy a well written erotic post whether it has a photo or not.

The question for me is whether the writer intended to spot light the piece with the inclusion of an erotic photo or was the purpose to just add some words to bolster a photo they wanted to share?

As an aside, with all due respect, I found your comment to Raven GB very narrow-minded when you mentioned that you believe those that write erotica without including photos of themselves have low self esteem. Where that may be true for some, painting all writers with such a broad stroke is silly to me. People come to this site for various reasons, and many have limitations with what they can share. Whether it be for family or professional reasons, many people don't have the freedom you have to post whatever they want on their blogs. I admire those that have that luxury such as yourself Joy, but a broad comment like that is off-putting.

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