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You Joy are a wonderful lady A sexy beautiful woman I only wish and dream of the day We get to met.. To enjoy our time together xoxoxo
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12/29/2021 11:58 am |
i still think everyone is worth knowing until they prove me wrong
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12/29/2021 12:14 pm |
Nice to meet you
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I always try to get to know people, even my enemies. Blogland is good for getting to know people slowly. 
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I really en Joy knowing all those things about you joy, & yes, in most of my past successful relationships we gt to know each together very well; my longest friendships we've alos got to know each other very well, including hugs even for my male freinds, & this year I've finally been getting to know many of my neighbours via a dedicated street WhatsApp group which is proving very rewarding, so yes, getting to know people is embedded in my personality, even the cinema staff at 2 of my regular haunts & occasionally if I'm not sure of someone I remember Abe Lincoln's quote "I don't like that person, I need to get to know them better;" so great post, thanks for sharing & big warm horny hugs from London UK, Mark
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I believe that people are worth getting to know.
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Knowing someone is the greatest gift there is. Friendship and helping others is also the most rewarding thing for inter peace. In my sickeness those people who really know me have been caring and so helpful. Makes me appreciate my fellowman and my God.
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Thank you for sharing, and I prefer to know people.
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I'm from a small town (or near a small town) . The best relationships have been with ladies I got to know as friends first. The rest just was nature taking its course. Very well written. Thanks for all the words that in my opinion we all should live by. Have a wonderful day, Joy.
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12/29/2021 2:30 pm |
My point was, we live in the microwave generation. "Hi, lets fuck. Bump. Bump and run. Oh btw, what's your name?" never to be seen again. I have seen way too much of this. I think it is a product of online living. When people actually meet, they don't know how to have a conversation let alone a relationship, lovers or just friends. I recently wrote to a woman with whom I had a really good friendship for a long time and asked her: "Why do people always mean more to me than I do to them? " I never got a reply. But that about sums up my experiences for the last 20 yrs. "A friend in need is a friend indeed"....until they no longer need you. This isn't just the 30 and under crowd either. For the majority of women I have met they were in the 40's or greater. They too, except one or two, really didn't know how to sustain a relationship, even if it was just a weekly, "Hey, how are things. Think'n of ya." Not that it has suddenly changed, but there seems to be a much larger population of takers that there are givers.
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Biblical knowledge? 🤔 It might be overrated. I mean... Noah KNEW that the Wooly Mammoth had brought his boyfriend on board. 😶❗❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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12/29/2021 2:35 pm |
Also, your "She loves" list. I usually pepper my acquaintances with questions to get the answers to much of what you have noted. It is a rare day that I get even one question about me in turn. When I was in college, once or twice a month all us guys would meet in the floor lounge and one of the men was given the stage for "Life Stories." OMG, we had so much fun and we really got to know the person, not just the guy that passes you in the hallway or sits next to you at lunch. I loved life stories. That said, most people are not willing to tell you their life story or answer questions because, IMHO, it makes them feel vulnerable. i.e. they just don't trust anyone enough to share intimacies with. That is the "Sad state of Affairs."
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Creo tener mucha empatía contigo siendo que sólo nos conocemos por este medio pero compartimos muchos gustos y vivencias. Una pena no poder vernos personalmente pero son las cosas de la vida y de estos tiempos. Abrazos
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12/29/2021 2:53 pm |
I have been with people on a one time basis and people I have known. I pefer the people I know because you learn about the likes and dislikes as well as the friendship, Both are fun but the people I know are amazing.
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you forgot that you love timmy's but we know that already...lol woop woop
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Very well written. Agree 100% with you. Thank you.
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Well said or spoken how ever you look at it. I like the way you blog, write, your poems at times and such, You ,are sense in a lot of the things you post, or comment on or reply to ect. Its not always just sex, what have you not, but interesting thoughts you have think or out out there and or ?s as well too. If some one ays enough attention to you even on here as to your posts, blog. poems ect what you say write think theyll get the just or a way to getting to know you, and the like wise too as well also hence what you responded to, wrote to, your thoughts an documents within this post blog too. Your a smart woman and can tell your smart too i think any how. I like to resound to things like this and not just sex stuff either cause it does give you an idea of the people who reposed back to you what they say, dont, think so on son north too works both ways also.So if some one takes the time to see what you rite post its way t getting to know you since this is part of your world sort to speak, as it is with any one on here for the time being. Some popped are worth getting to know too, some well it is what it its right. Either way this is some mens opportunity to get to know you through this at times if they really care to bother to see or see pass the sexiness sex stuff with you and see what you actually write and think too. Pros and cost to this site what people out out there too. SO well stated and say though for you on this one i think. xoxo
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12/29/2021 8:33 pm |
You can tell you are cared for when they take the time to read your thoughts! Happy Trails
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12/29/2021 8:40 pm |
I like to get to know people..especially lovers. My last lover I got to know really well...we really connected deeply. It made our lovemaking intense and deep...we were really into each other's bodies...I miss her.....I am afraid that I will never meet another lover like her. I feel like she was the best.
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I have to know people. I want to hear about their life. Their childhood. Favorite music, food, hobbies. I ask sooo many questions
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you forgot she loves seafood! She loves Santa! 
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I always have gotten to know a woman before I have had sex with her. Love the pics my sexy 🇨🇦 friend! 😘🎸💎🍀🍷💐 Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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Do you even care to know one who is worth knowing? I definitely want to know one who is worth knowing. The hard part is filtering out those that simply want a quick fuck from those who want a friendship or more. Do you know personal things about them? Their likes and dislikes, common interests outside of sex? Absolutely. I ask SO many questions when I am intrigued and/or interested in someone. Their responses usually lead to more questions on my part. I love getting to know people. Do you take the time prior to Fucking someone to truly know who they are, what they love, what makes them tick first? I take the time to get to know each person first before I even decide to meet them in public. Some are not worthy of meeting, Joy, for various reasons. Then there's been one or two that I simply didn't "click" with in person. Now whether I truly know who they are, I'm not sure, but I like to think I have an idea. The two FWBs I currently see are both amazing, wonderful, solid, witty, caring, generous, thoughtful, considerate men and I consider myself very fortunate to have them in my life. No matter what happens, I plan on staying friends with both. Thanks once again for asking such great questions and for sharing so much of yourself with us, Joy. You are an absolute treasure. <3
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Interesting topic. In the "real world", I couldn't have sex with someone I don't know on some level. I've done that twice when I was younger and while there was a certain element of risk in both that my older self would not entertain now, they don't hold a candle to the times I had sex with someone I got to know and felt true connections. Online where such rules need not apply is a different thing. I don't ask personal questions since I am not expecting actual physical contact or intimacy. Friendship on any arena is the only thing where I allow my real self to be shown to a larger degree. It all comes to a matter of trust. I've been burned online so trust comes with time. I'm more willing to share my emotions and thoughts here than my actual information. There's only been two people on here that I thought I could entrust personal info and found out that was a mistake on my part. Live and learn. I enjoy knowing you and reading about your life. I respect you and love flirting with your sexy self. There are others in blogland I feel similarly about...But I totally get your point of view. You're putting yourself out there, showing every facet of yourself and it stands to reason to expect the same from a potential mate or partner. My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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Ms. author51, "1. Do you even care t o know one who is worth knowing? 2.Do you know personal things about them? 3. Their likes and dislikes, common interests outside of sex? 4.Do you take the time prior t o Fucking someone t o truly know who they are, what they love, what makes them tick first?" 1. Learning about someone is the key to getting to know them. Once you start learning about a person, you can figure out IF they are worth knowing and caring about. 2. There are those people that one can know, but not know about their personal life. You can know the person at your local shops, a server at your favorite dining spot , or even a frequent client where you work, yet know nothing about them as a person. 3. There again, it all depends on just how involved you get with someone. 4. If I plan on having an on going relationship with someone that involves sex, then yes I want to know their likes and dislikes outside of the sexual side of the relationship. Knowing their likes and dislikes that do not involve sex, makes for a deeper connection once you add sex to the relationship. In my younger years back in the 80's getting to know someone's likes and dislikes was not a priority before sex, as back then it was just sex. However today, I want to know a woman's likes and dislikes prior to sex. I no longer am looking for just a short sexual relationship, but an ongoing personal relationship. So knowing what they like outside the bedroom, makes that much more likely to happen.
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